I know this is a silly question... but should I break up with him?
Q. should i break up with him ? first,i don't trust him like i used to.secound,i don't feel that he actually understands me like he used. third, we fight alot. fourth, i don't feel that he listens to me .fifth, i don't feel that he cares about me !!!ya ...
A. 12 May 2007: huni the fact that your doubting your relationship with him and have so many reasons to split with him tells me that you know deep down wat to do. If its not a good relaionship then why hold on to it only because you are worried that you might r... (read in full...)
Is it okay to have sex with my guy friend and will he still look at me the same?
Q. Is it okay to have sex with my guy friend and will he still look at me the same?...
A. 12 May 2007: huni the thing youve got to worry about is will YOU be able to look at him the same way afterwards?? sex is a bug thing (even if it doesnt seem like it) and things do change after sex wether its the first time with your bf or just a friend. as l... (read in full...)
I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do!!!
Q. I have been seeing this man who is 21 and i am 14 and he is doing some stuff to me that i dont understand and i dont want him to do, 1st he said i like u will u meet me and because ive liked him for ages i meet him, and got in his car because i ...
A. 10 May 2007: huni the fact that your feelings were not taken into conseideration at all during the hole thing says to me that you feel things for him that he does not for you.
the age doesnt bother me as much as what he did. even if it had been a boy of your ... (read in full...)
I'm starting to resent my husband... is our 13 year age gap to blame?
Q. There is a 13 year age gap between my husband and I and when we married first it was ok. We now have 2 young children 4 and 7 and he is 50 - I am 36. The age gap is more noticable now and he doesnt really get involved in the upbringing of the ...
A. 10 May 2007: huni to be honest it sounds like your looking for somthing to pin it on. I may be alot younger but my bf is 9 years my senoir and i wenever we used to fight id pin it on the age gap instead of seeing that we needed to take responsibility as people. ... (read in full...)
What do I do about being in love with an older boy??
Q. I'm in love with a 19 year old and im 14. I've told my mam and she didnt seem to botherd, me and him arent going out. I think he knows hes too old for me and he doesnt know what to do i love him so much. I dont think age should matter if your in ...
A. 10 May 2007: huni, im 16 and my bf is 25 so the hole age difference thing is a reli personal thing to me.
I say that if he treats you right and you both have genuine feelings for each other then go with it. The only thing you have to worry about tho is if yo... (read in full...)
I'm 25-she's 18 and I like her! Am I creepy for wanting to date someone much younger?
Q. Hello My name is Trent and I'm 25 years old. I have a good friend named Emily who is 18 years old, and this problem is about her. We met two years ago when I was 23 and she was 16. We were both working at the same pizza place and became frie...
A. 10 May 2007: huni, its a great sign that your questioning the age difference because thats says to me that you have only good motives. im 16 and my bf is 25, he had a really hard time knowing whether or not to ask me out because we had been friends and he ... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and I'm thinking about asking 15-year old girl out, what do you think?
Q. hi i am 18 and started talking to this girl who is 15 and we been talking for a while and that lot and i am starting to find her attractive and was thinking of asking her out i am not out for sex or anything for 1 i am a virgin anyway and plus i ...
A. 10 May 2007: huni go for it! im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 so dnt worry. but if it is just for sex then you reli gotta wait till shes 16 cos you can really get yourself in trouble. The only problem you might come into is that other people sumtimes see age n not ... (read in full...)
My BF broke up with me so he can sort his depression out, should I wait for him or move on?
Q. I'm incredibly confused right now. My longtime boyfriend and I broke up a couple of days ago after nearly a year together. We were close friends for years before we started dating. His reason for ending things is because he is depressed, needs ...
A. 9 May 2007: huni i gotta say, i think its a good thing hes asked for a break to sort his depression out. honestly i wish my bf wud do dat. its alot of stuff to put on your shoulders being with someone hus down all the time n stuff n the fact that hes facing up ... (read in full...)
What should I expect when I'm with a boy and he wants to 'get off' with me?
Q. hi just a quick question! im kinda confused please can u tell me excactly what a boy expects when you get off with them? I haven't been put in this situation before and i want to know excactly what to do when it comes to it... please help i need to ...
A. 9 May 2007: huni, in this country its just snogging. not sex and not orgasm!!!!! its just kissing okk xxxx
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Is it possible to fake my sex experience with this guy who is way ahead of me in that area?
Q. Okay so I'm officially dating this guy, it's a secret though. We are crazy about each other, and we've been hanging out everyday afterschool, it's really hard though cause he lives on the otherside of town, were thinking about having sex, he's way ...
A. 9 May 2007: huni if this boy cares about you he understand, so talk to him, dnt fake it cos thers no poin in that, he shud be fine with it and if not hes not worth the trouble xxx
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I haven't been able to trust my BF since he made out with 12 guys on New Years Eve 2006!
Q. Hey, I have been having some problems with my boyfriend of almost 9 months, for what feels like a rather long time. On new years eve last year (2006) my boyfriend cheated on me with 12 men while he was drunk. I saw him make out with them and sinc...
A. 9 May 2007: huni are you sure that he was not just kissing them as a new years eve thing?? if he is gay then you really need out hun xxxx ... (read in full...)
How can I make myself last longer while having sex?
Q. Hi im 15 years old, and when me and my girlfriend are having sex i sometimes have orgasm too quickly, sometimes it doesn't even take a minute. I don't really mind this that much, and even my GF says it is ok, but it makes me feel that i am not ...
A. 8 May 2007: huni go for the finger rule! as soon as your over make sure the attentions all on how she is feeling and ask her exactly what she wants ok! then you havnt got to worry that she hasnt got what she needs
good luck huni
take care xxxx ... (read in full...)
She is fed up with my insecurities and she left me---what can I do?
Q. hey, my heart is really broken and i REALLY want to save this relationship with my ex. she asked for a break a while ago, because things have been rocky. so i agreed, but i kept showing up and wanting to talk things out because i was really worried ...
A. 8 May 2007: awww huni, this is such a similar situation to one i hav been in myself. she reli needs to be letf alone to think. ring her and tell her you love her but then delete her number. this way if she wants to contact you she can do so n you havent got the ... (read in full...)
I just found out last night my BF is racist! What can I do about it?
Q. My boyfriend is racist. He don't think he is just cuz he got black cuzins. He has a problom with some blacks he went out with a black before and he wasn't racist then but now he is. He fights alot and the people he fights with are black people!....
A. 8 May 2007: first of all huni can i just say, it isnt *a black* he went out with, its a girl hu just happened to be black. If he has a problem with someone simply by the colour of their skin then this boy has some serious reajusting to do. If the person has ... (read in full...)
What can I say to motivate my lazy grand-daughter?
Q. Tuesday 8 May 10.30 am My 14 year old granddaughter is bright, but lazy and prefers to spend time with friends than study. She consequently is not reaching her potential at school. Recently, through the recommendation of a family friend, ...
A. 8 May 2007: hey. From a teenagers point of veiw i have to say, shes a typical teenager. Things just dont seem fun when you add the words study, school or work onto a sentence. Talk to her about what she wants for the future and find a way to come to a ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid for staying with him when he doesn't see a future for us?
Q. My boyfriends has just told me that he doesn't see me in his future and that our relationship is going to end one day. When i told him that we should end it now he said that he didn't want to as he still loves me and wants to be with me. He says he ...
A. 8 May 2007: huni, i gota say it. What are you doing with such a loser? do you not see what your worth hun?? he sounds like one of them guys who settles till he thinks hes found somthing better to move on to. I know right now ots hrd to be objective because your ... (read in full...)
Two guys at work are fighting over me! Who do I choose?
Q. At work I've met these two guys and I don't know who to choose between - they both have asked me out. They have even started to dislike each other because they both want to go out with me and they both tried to play off of each other to win me over, ...
A. 8 May 2007: huni your not married to either of them so hav no commitment to either one. Who are they to dictate to you which one is better for you and who you shud be with??if you like them then date them both! dating doesnt mean being monogomous it means ... (read in full...)
Do men only become friends with women to get sex?
Q. I was talking to a guy at school and he told me how 99.9 percent of men will only befriend a girl if he thinks he's going to get something in return, i.e. sex. Is this true? I have plenty of guy friends and I don't get that vibe from them at all. ...
A. 8 May 2007: hey hun, dnt be so willing to judge every guy. although, yea il admit there are a few that simply think about wat its like in your knickers (theres also girls like that!!!) there are guys, just as there are girls that want to be friends with the ... (read in full...)
How do I break the ice with my girlfriend's father?
Q. Hey everyone! Has anyone got any good advice for getting around the quiet dad of my girlfriend?? When I first met him it was a very formal handshake, acknowledgment etc. He was very quiet, didn't make eye contact once as far as I noticed. I'm ...
A. 8 May 2007: hi huni, The thing you have to remember is that you are potentially the guy who is going to be sleeping with his little girl lol. so you gotta understand that he isnt going to want to be the best of friends. Try making a few jokes that your gf knws ... (read in full...)
I lied about myself in my profile, should I tell him?
Q. ok i met this guy on this website and we started chatting on MSN every day. However, at first it started off as a joke when i set up my profile so i lied about my name and used a different photo but everything else i said was true, just my name and ...
A. 8 May 2007: hey huni xxx put a picture up of the real you on msn and see wat he says. if he likes you still then he shud understand that you were just messing around with your profile because it didnt matter but now feel close to him so want to be the real you. ... (read in full...)
I haven't met anyone for a while and feel my life is at a standstill.
Q. Hey. I've been single for coming up to a year now. Its insane! I've had a few on off flings but nothing serious. It's annoying because the amount of times I go out clubbing every week and I also go to college, u would of thought i would have found ...
A. 8 May 2007: huni, dnt panic, instead of looking for sum1 to be with why not enjoy being single n not having to worry so much about sum1 else. the thing is, if you look to hard you start not being able to see. And of course youll think about your ex huni, at ... (read in full...)
My friend just started jerking me off even though he knows I'm a hetrosexual male!
Q. I stayed around a mates house the other week and we all stopped in the same room and some of us shared a double bed but made sure we had our own space. Well not long after that the lad lying near me moved very close to me and decided to put his hand ...
A. 8 May 2007: hunni dnt panic. feelings can screw you about but its all about experimenting. The thing is, if you enjoyed it, you enjoyed it you know. Its not like youre goin to get into a full time gay relaionship with him is it?? even if that was the case, its ... (read in full...)
Why don't guys like tall girls?
Q. ok, im 13 and ive never had a boyfriend because of my height. Why don't guys like tall girls and i masturbate a lot it that normal?...
A. 8 May 2007: ok huni, the tall thing only gets toguys cos they then relise how short they actually are n it affects their egos. the real guys wont care how tall or short, fat or thin. theyll like you for you if they reli have balls lol. well and as for the other ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my Mom,that he's 24?
Q. hi, im a 16 yr old who is dating a 24 year old and my parents dont know because my mom will throw hom in jail, but i was wondering how i could tell my mom....
A. 8 May 2007: hey hunni. ive been in the exact same position. im 16 and my boyfreind is now 25. My mum was really uneasy with the hole idea but appreciated my honesty and the fact that i didnt lie to her about how old he was. now almost 4months later she really ... (read in full...)
I don't know whether to do Sixth Form next year or go to college! Any views?
Q. Im 15, in year 10. I have a year left at school. Im starting to think about what i wanna do when i leave school. I deffinatly want to continue education. Im not sure if to stay at my school and go to sixth form or go to college. is there much ...
A. 8 May 2007: if your an independant person hu is ready to be thrown in the deep end with all the work bein done by yourself then go for the collge option but if that scares you a lil then go for sixth form, yea its independant but its closer to secondary school ... (read in full...)
What do I get my GF for our 2 month anniversary?
Q. hey there .. its my 2 month aniversary on saturday and i was wondering what i should get my gf .. any ideas would be greatly appricciated .. thank you :) all the best...
A. 8 May 2007: yea there right huni, nothing to big but just make sure she knws that the two months have been the best and that your loving being with her and save all the effort for ya big anerversarys xxxx
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My confidence is really low and I'm a size 18 (UK), do guys really want a girl this size?
Q. I like this guy alot but my confidence is really low, I'm a size 18(uk) and im quite tall so its kinda spread out but do guys really want this especially when they're like 18? any thoughts? ...
A. 8 May 2007: hunni! corse they do! Guys dnt actually go for the iron board image , those bobbly bits that you hate are the things that guys see as sexy bits. OK okokok not al guys are the type hu go for a curvy girl but mose can so dnt worry, as long as you can ... (read in full...)
My parents don't like my BF coz he does drugs! How can I make them see he's a great guy and makes me happy?
Q. I have been dating this guy for a while. My parents don't like him cos he does drugs, which i don't do. Is there anyway that i can make them see that i like him for the laughs and the good times we have together? I feel that we are going to...
A. 8 May 2007: The thing is huni, drugs never help a relationship, but they also shudnt be a reson to be put off either. Your partents hav every right to be concerned, but this is your relationship and as long as he is a gud guy and makes you happy, you do waht ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend and I played around a bit, now that I'm home I feel like I've done something wrong.
Q. hi i have just got home from my boyfriends house and i was lookin on this site and my question is nothing like anyone elses .. but i have just come home like i said and i feel really guilty. i dont know why i feel guilty but i just do, i refuse to ...
A. 8 May 2007: like you said huni your a bit young right now, so the this stuff probably is a lil weird. And the fact that its not really sumthing you can talk about openly with other people. Just go with watever you feel comfortable with hun n dnt feel guilty, ... (read in full...)
Is a 38DD bra size at 15 years old too big?
Q. i am 15 and a 38 DD is that normal. i think i'm to big for my age?? hElP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
A. 8 May 2007: hey huni im 16 n got measured the other day, im a 36 DD. the way i think of it is that you got summit most girls wud die for n most boys wud drool 4. be proud of your bust and remember, it aint ever called fat, its called fabulous! okk take care ... (read in full...)
Does a number really matter if both people are equally interested in one another ?
Q. hi, im a 17 year old nearly 18 year old seeing a just turned 27 year old, we've been dating for a month now, ive told my parents about this and they seem to think that he is using me and repeatedly say "why would a 27 year old be interested in a ...
A. 1 May 2007: Hi huni x im 16 and my boyfriends 25, so i know this situation so well. My mum wasnt cool with the relaionship at first for obvious resons but once she got to know the person and not the age she relised that he really is an amazing guy. Is... (read in full...)
He's 7 years older than me! Do I have a chance?
Q. There's this guy i like but he's 7years older than me, i think he may also like me. Do I have a chance? plz help me!!!! thnx xx...
A. 1 May 2007: Hwy huni im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 so the age gap thing, i sooooooo understand. age gaps arent what shud be getting in the way. yea, there important on the surface, cos that the first thing people think of when they ask your ages. but deep d... (read in full...)
Mom won't let me date this older guy! Do I go behind her back or try to convince to let me do it?
Q. wow...i really really like this guy and there is a small chance we could date but my mom says she would never let me date him....do i have to stop liking him...go behind my moms back or try force her to let me date him if there was a ...
A. 1 May 2007: Hey huni Im 16 and my boyfriends 25 so i know the problems you come into being with someone older. At first my mum hated the thought of me being with an older guy because she thought that it was all for sex and that id end up hurt and used. bu... (read in full...)
I'm 16, and he's 26. We're worried about this.
Q. i'm 16 and am so attracted to someone but he is 26 what should i do he also likes me but he is worried what people are going to say. we have talked about this but have never even kissed because he is worried so i want your opinions on if you think ...
A. 1 May 2007: hey huni x im 16 and my boyfriend is 25, so i can sort of relate. All ive got to say babe is that as long as your prepared for the oppinions of people who relli have no life and who think of themselves as angels, go for it. Isnt it better that ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 in one month and I'm with someone that's only just 25 is there anything wrong with that?
Q. I'm 15 in one month and I'm with someong that's only just 25 is there anything wrong with that?...
A. 1 May 2007: hey huni im 16 and in year 11, my boyfriend is 25 so i believe me i know the added baggage that comes along with an age gap. firstly, i gotta say to all those people telling you its sick n stuff, i undersatand that it is difficault to accept ... (read in full...)
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