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anonymous
writes: I stayed around a mates house the other week and we all stopped in the same room and some of us shared a double bed but made sure we had our own space. Well not long after that the lad lying near me moved very close to me and decided to put his hand on my penis. I had an erection at the time but not because he was touching me. He didnt take his hand off and then I was very and thrusted my hand down my shorts to sort myself and well i was doing this his hand followed!!! I couldn't believe it but I didn't want to shout anything out and say stop so I didn't no what to do. He then started to wank me off. I still didn't know what to do and I thought he would stop but he didn't. we then had a quick interval when it all topped and then he got his phone and wrote on a text message do you want me to do it again? I was like no your a lad and its not nice i'm not enjoying it. He stopped but he still had his hands near me. When I woke up in the morning i found him wanking me off like he was last night but i decided to pretend to stay asleep to see what would happen.Even though I'm heterosexual I enjoyed it a little bit and when he did it I would put my leg over his but now I'm scared that he will tell everyone that I enjoyed it and asked him to do it even though I didn't and I can't bring the situation up in conversation because he pretends that he doesnt remember what happened.What should I do now and what should I say if he asks me to sleep over again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): look mate this happened to me and i let it carry on im 15 now and my mate still does it wiv me every cuple of months ya not gay just enjoy it.
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reader, nixt  +, writes (24 May 2008):
it you don't like it, stop it! you must have liked it a bit, straight men still feel pleasure.
stand up 4 urself!
or just experiment
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): Mate, don't ever let him do this again. If you prefer it more with women stick to women, makes sense to me. Anyway, why didn't one of you sleep on the floor like normal lads do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2007): nothing mate enjoy it or dont enjoy it your choice
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2007): Don't worry about it, honestly it's called experimenting! It can be a lot of fun. I'm heterosexual and my mate has done the same, and hey...a hndjob is a handjob haha, it feels good either way - boy or girl doing it! Just relax, but jesus he sounds horny! Maybe you should speak to him about it properly rather than him tearing your underpants off and grabbing away at your family jewels...
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reader, Just a Girl... +, writes (8 May 2007):
 hunni dnt panic. feelings can screw you about but its all about experimenting. The thing is, if you enjoyed it, you enjoyed it you know. Its not like youre goin to get into a full time gay relaionship with him is it?? even if that was the case, its your life huni. Do what you feel comfortable with, not what you feel you have to do xxx
take care
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reader, lboy +, writes (8 May 2007):
 dear reader,
i really dont think that you should be worried about this all it means is that you are open minded and if you turn out to be gay then you need to keep telling yourself that there is nothing wrong with that, it's who you are and there is nothing wrong with that. just see this thing through and make sure that you tell this guy that you dont want a relationship.
good luck
lboy
xxx
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (5 May 2007):
 It's okay that you pretended to be asleep and actually sort of enjoyed yourself. As everyone else said, it's TOTALLY normal to experiment. It doesn't mean that you're gay just because you had a little late night fun. There is nothing wrong with trying out everything... experimenting is lots of fun and well worth it.
I doubt he'll tell your friends, since he claims that he doesn't remember. He's probably a little embarressed as well for being so forward. Sounds like he just wanted to experiment a little bit too.
If you're really uncomfortable, next time when you sleep over, you sleep on the couch in a different room. If you really value your friendship, maybe you should talk about it with him at the next sleepover. Keep it just between the two of you.
Good luck, sweetness.
xxIndia
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reader, Suorpio  +, writes (5 May 2007):
 Ok, well, even if you are totally straight, you're obviously intrigued by this (you liked it a little bit, you put your leg over his, you pretended to be asleep to see "what would happen"). You might as well see this through until you get bored of it and then you can stop. This doesn't make you gay, by the way. Merely openminded. Just make sure your friend understands you don't want to be boyfriends before you do it again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 May 2007): it's normal for teenage boys to experiment and it's hard not to enjoy that kind of thing. if he's saying he doesn't remember it then i don't think he'll tell anyone, so don't worry about that, is he gay? if he isn't gay then he's in the same situation as you, and if he asks you to stay over again and you're worried about it, just tell him no and make excuses. but i do think you really need to talk about it with him, even though it might be embarrasing.
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