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writes: My boyfriends has just told me that he doesn't see me in his future and that our relationship is going to end one day. When i told him that we should end it now he said that he didn't want to as he still loves me and wants to be with me. He says he just wants to tell the truth so he doesn't lead me on thinking we have a future together when we don't. He says he wants our relationship to end when either he/I or both stop loving each other. I still love him am i stupid for staying with him or should i go now? I don't know what to do! Reply to this Question
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reader, sleepyhollow  +, writes (9 May 2007):
Hmm... Either your boyfriend is being brutally honest, or he's playing a mind game to see if you love him by staying with him.
Doesn't really matter which one it is, you should get out of that relationship. He either doesn't love you, or he's a manipulative bastard. Neither is worth staying in a relationship for.
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reader, Just a Girl...  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 huni, i gota say it. What are you doing with such a loser? do you not see what your worth hun?? he sounds like one of them guys who settles till he thinks hes found somthing better to move on to. I know right now ots hrd to be objective because your feelings are strong, but huni, you have to see 4 yourself that this guy is not good enough 4 u and even if he wanted, doesnt deaserve a future with you. xxx take care hun
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reader, Wendyg +, writes (8 May 2007):
 When you truly love someone, you cant ever imagine being without them! Him saying you dont figure in his future just shows how immature is and hes never going to commit or give you what you want... As Eyeswideopen said, hes going to carry on until he find someone he thinks is better!! I understand you love him, but he clearly has no intention of spending longer than he needs to with you! Thats got to hurt, the man you love says one day we will split just dont know when!!! Never heard such rot! You dont say how old you are so im guessing your quite young... so maybe hes feels he hasnt played the field enough.... either way... hes told you your a couple with a limited lifeline! What if he decides next year that the time is up ? He cannot truly love you like you love him or he wouldnt be so brash about. No one knows what tomorrow brings, but Im sure if he really wanted you in his future he would make it so... seems that he has a lot of growing up to do... and why should you put your life on hold.... hes not going to change, so it depends what you want.... hes told you that in the future He doesnt want you!!! Are you prepared to hang around invest more time love and energy into something that he can cut the cord on at any given time ?
I think you know deep down how this will end, personally I wouldnt be letting him call the shots... Its your life... make the wise decision you already know what the outcome of this will be!
Take care x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2007): why waste your time on someone whom thinks your not worth nothing,move on now its only prolonging the agony,find someone whom wants a future with you.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 Man I'd be out the door in a flash if I was told that by a boyfriend. He's just using you until he finds someone HE thinks is better. This is a slap in the face, I wouldn't put up with it if I were you.
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