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41-50,
*londie77
writes:My ex boy friend hasn't talked to me in five years.Why not? he's the one who left me. i miss him so much. well he said hi a few times a few years ago, but i think he was made to. but he still looks at me (we attend the same church) i dont get why he will not talk. Still i've tried emails and texts. He ignores me. i will admit we were sexual together. but its five years later and he acts like he hates me. can i have some advice? its hard because we have the same friends too.
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reader, Lina Santos  +, writes (26 March 2011):
 Hello miss
May I ask you if you're still in love with him? Though it seems that you broke up for a reason that isn't explicit here, there may be a reason, or reasons why he's doing this. You can give him a bit of that bitter treatment too, maybe that'll change things a bit. I found this article to be interesting to you: http://www.exboyback.com/how-you-can-win-your-ex-boyfriend-back-fast/
All the best
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reader, Ima FreAk! +, writes (25 March 2011):
 Hiyaaaa,
I agree with what blonde30 says totally agree! (thumbs up!)
Clearly he is over you but you aren't and honestly sweetie you deserve much more.
He left you and that shows he doesn't love you as much as you think he did. A true man will never leave a woman and you should get out there!
There are plenty of guys that are extremely nice and lovely (not saying that you ex isn't lovely!) but you gotta move on.
Stay strong and hang in there because you will find love again, it's been 5 years you deserve to be loved. Open your heart and let love in!!!! Don't be shy and afraid to find someone better!
Hope my advice helps!
Good luck,
Lots of love,
Ima FreAk!
x
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reader, ToHereKnowsWhen  +, writes (25 March 2011):
 Five years is a long time. You must get past him. He will most likely have other things in his life now and so should you. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2011): Simple he doesn't want to have anything to do with you. Just leave him be, it will cause problems if you keep trying.
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