Should I delete him completely? And how do I make him eat his words?
Q. So if you have read the previous messages you will be able to help me with this. So after all this with this guy I was dating I goes on Facebook today and he is in a relationship with another girl.. yess I'm completely shocked and beyond hurt. But I ...
A. 4 April 2011: Then go ahead and delete him. But attempt no revenge or making him eat his words. There are plenty of good guys out there.... (read in full...)
I HATE those first kisses - I'm so nervous - what makes a good first kiss?
Q. Hi there, I HATE the first kiss. I can't do it. I'm looking for some advice, or even somebody to say I'm not alone. I'm not even 16.. i'm 30! I've fancied somebody at work for six months now. He tried to kiss me two weeks ago at a party, and...
A. 4 April 2011: Just kindly kiss him back. Small kisses will be ok. You don't want to stick your tongue right away, that is more intimate. Just stay calm. If a guy is kissing you, it is because he loves your lips! [My girlfriend have large natural lips... I really ... (read in full...)
She doesn't call me very often, does she love me?
Q. She does not call me often on phone, she can take even a week, without calling me and am the one who always call her on phone. when I ask her she tells me she loves me but she does not show her love by calls. Does she really love me? I feel she does ...
A. 4 April 2011: Man, please calm down. Each woman has their own way of showing you their affection. If she doesn't call you, it doesn't means anything. You can't measure how much a person loves you by the amount of calls she makes to you. I'm very sure she ha... (read in full...)
How important are looks really?
Q. How important are looks really? I'm not a toad, just saying. I would say I'm average. Everytime I meet someone new, they remark on how pretty I am. So theres this guy. (of course there is) and we met like once, in person. We exchanged num...
A. 4 April 2011: My girlfriend is size 9 or 12, I think. She is very tall. She doesn't look fat at all. Listen, not all guys care much about your weight. Just dress how you like, and in clothes that make you feel comfortable with. If he already feels attracted ... (read in full...)
Awkward silences and lulls..are they ok?
Q. dear cupid, soo, i've been talking to this guy for a little over a week now, and we've been getting REALLY well. we've already hung out several times, and every time has been absolutely AWESOME. we text every day as often as we can, and that's ...
A. 4 April 2011: Every relationship comes to awkward silences and lulls, so don't worry, stay calm. Those little silences won't do harm at all. It won't ruin your relationship. This guys seems so very into you!... (read in full...)
Why do all women shave down there?
Q. Why do all women, or almost all women shave down below? I read somewhere here on DC that even girls as young as 14 are doing this!...
A. 4 April 2011: My girlfriend seldom shaves down there. She has shaved around 3 o 4 times in all our relationship. The problem with her not shaving, is that when I give her oral, hair gets into my mouth and nose, and it is very inconvenient for me to please her.
S... (read in full...)
Should I move away in the hopes of finding a partner?
Q. I have been single now for 18 months and I just don't meet any potential partners anywhere. I can't even get a date using online dating and with the net the rsponse is always because I don't want kids and there seem to be very few women in their ...
A. 4 April 2011: Please don't move. You will feel even more lonely without your family/friends. I know what being alone in a flat is... it is very hard to handle. Also, it will be very hard for you to find a woman that does not want kids... since most woman ar... (read in full...)
Should I believe him? Or believe my gut instinct?
Q. It's about 6 month that I am in relationship with my boyfriend. but I think he's cheating on me.I found some text messages from girls saying romantic things and sometimes he answered them the same.And every time I tell him about it, he says it's ...
A. 4 April 2011: I think he cheated on you.... (read in full...)
Should I delete him completely? And how do I make him eat his words?
Q. So if you have read the previous messages you will be able to help me with this. So after all this with this guy I was dating I goes on Facebook today and he is in a relationship with another girl.. yess I'm completely shocked and beyond hurt. But I ...
A. 4 April 2011: So you were dating, but not were exclusively dating right? Dating someone does not mean that he or she is in a committed relationship, unless you both agree to. If while he was dating with you, he decided to be in a relationship with other gir... (read in full...)
She wont tell anyone we are together, after 4 years! What should I do?
Q. Been with my girlfriend 4 years, and she still wont tell anyone about us. She says people know because they are not stupid and they guessed about us, but when they ask her about me she denies we are dating. All my family and friends know abo...
A. 4 April 2011: I have been with my girlfriend for over 4 years. I didn't told my family about her after 1 or 2 years into the relationship [she is my first girlfriend]. Also, my girlfriend has told her sister, and her father. Not her brother or mother [her moth... (read in full...)
Is it normal to masturbate just because you're bored?
Q. Is it normal what I do here...whenever Im bored and cant think of anything to do or look up online I masturbate. Sometimes I just lie and think thoughts of me and my bf and it all comes or sometimes if I cant quite get myself in the mood I watch...
A. 4 April 2011: Yes, it is normal. When I'm bored, I masturbate. ... (read in full...)
I'm useless with women!
Q. I've just turned 22 and never had a girlfriend, it's made me realise I'm actually useless with women. I've had a few drunken one night stands (Protected of course) but never experienced a relationship with a girl. It's easy enough going clubbing and ...
A. 4 April 2011: I got my first girlfriend at 23. I never used alcohol, so I never had 1 night stands [although some alcoholized girls wanted to have sex with me though]. With her, I was first his friend. I was very in love with her since the first time I met her.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend can't handle it when I am over-emotional! Is this normal?
Q. Hello all! My question is quite general and refers to the possible differences between the sexes. I really love my bf and he loves me. He’s a great guy with loads going for him and he is very loving and affectionate. We are planning to have kid...
A. 4 April 2011: Well, I think that this is very common and normal in guys. I myself almost shut down when girlfriend is crying. It will be hard for you to find a partner that does not get upset when you are. If you get to find one, it would be probably an Anti... (read in full...)
My desire to experience physical love...
Q. I'm facing a dilemma and don't know what to do about this, and could really use some advice! I imagine that some people won't believe me but I'm STILL a virgin at 31 years old. I never explicitly made vows to save sex before marriage, but at...
A. 4 April 2011: If you feel like you want to do something you never experienced, it is your body telling you so. The thing about waiting until marriage is a very old idea, in order to avoid undesired pregnancies in ancient times. But now we got the pill and co... (read in full...)
Do I have a reason to be mad at my bestfriend?
Q. Hey I have a question.. Sooo I don't have a car right now, I need one tho to start college. And now, I'm single. I've been single for almost a year. Meaning no dates no sex no talkin on the phone no nothing. But my best friend has because she has ...
A. 4 April 2011: You don't need a car to meet guys. You need to hang around places where there are the right kind of guys you are looking for. Perhaps some of them will even have a car, and the problem will be solved.
If I were you, I would not depend on your fri... (read in full...)
How can I overcome the hopelessness and low self-esteem I feel due to being called ugly?
Q. How can I overcome with the hopelessness and low self-esteem I feel due to being called ugly? I remember being a very happy, confident and fun child growing up. However, everything started going downhill since grade 3. During grade 3 I moved to a ...
A. 4 April 2011: I'm going to tell you a story, I hope that you can relate.
There was this girl, who had a family where all her brothers and sisters were blond with blue/green eyes. Also, her father, mother, aunts, uncles, and cousins were also blond.
The only ... (read in full...)
I just want him to be happy. I don't know how!
Q. PLEASE PLEASE ANSWER...and im sorry if its lengthy. So ive been in a LDR for 2 and a half years now. Ive been to see him a couple of times usually for 2 sometimes 3 weeks in a row. He is the love of my life, I cant ever see myself without h...
A. 4 April 2011: Well, most of the guys out there have a very hard time expressing their feelings to other persons, even to their best friends! It is a very bad habit most of us males have, but we can't do much because our brains are hardwired to be like that.
... (read in full...)
My best friend doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am in love with my best friend , also my neighbour , and I don't know what to do , if I should tell him , or leave it alone. Here's my story. Let's call him , Cody. Cody is my best friend. Not just best guy friend...he's my number one best ...
A. 4 April 2011: I had my very best female friend in high school. Our relationship was the same as the one you have with this guy. She was very attractive. I never told her that I loved her. I think she also had some feelings for me, but she never told me. The thi... (read in full...)
Am I making a mistake in getting married?
Q. Ok so this is going to be a long question and I really need your help. You can be as blunt as you want because I just want to know the truth so thanks in advance. I'd like to know if I am making a big mistake in getting married to my fiance. We met ...
A. 4 April 2011: Girl, I need to be very honest with you. You don't want this guy as a husband. There are guys out there that hate alcohol and smoking [Just as I do]. I don't drink nor smoke because I know they are unhealthy habits, and that alcohol it is v... (read in full...)
Wife of many years asking to be spanked
Q. Hi my wife and i have been mnarried for many years and we have had a good sex life. A few weeks back we went on a cruie and one night could hear the couple next door having sex which turned us both on. then we heard the wife asking to be spa...
A. 4 April 2011: My girlfriend asked me to spank her once.
I did it, but very gently. She didn't liked it.
Now, I haven't been near her in around 6 months, but I am craving to give her some very good spanking.
As long as your wife feels pleasure, do what it... (read in full...)
Every time we fight he breaks up with me
Q. He breaks up with me every time we fight. today was the third time, so 3 fights in 8 months not bad but last time we talked it through and i was left feeling like i talked him back into being with me. This time I'm resolved to let him go...3 s...
A. 4 April 2011: Hi
well, I've been in a relationship with my girlfriend for 4 years.
At the beginning, we had lots, and constant fights. Most of them were because I didn't wanted to tell my parents I had a girlfriend. [She was my first girlfriend, and I was re... (read in full...)
Has anyone else felt like the ugliest, wherever they are?
Q. I have always been the ugliest everywhere. In family, school, college, everywhere. Neither am I very intelligent. This has led to a low self esteem. I have made peace with the fact that I am really ugly. My question is has anyone ever been through ...
A. 3 April 2011: As CaringGuy says, you Should get some counseling. Listen. My girlfriend is a very smart, attractive, and sexy girl (at least for me). All her family members are blond with blue/green, while she is the only one that has black hair and grown ey... (read in full...)
I have hidden the truth/lied to the love of my life for 2.5 years. Can this be salvaged?
Q. The love of my life, and I met and began dating about 2.5 years ago. We seemingly had similar expectations and values despite our very different upbringings, and insane chemistry. About a week into our relationship she was told that I had previously ...
A. 3 April 2011: Wait a second, she doesn't allows you to watch bikini girls on a pg-13 film? She sees wrong in your life, but can't see she is wrong about herself, even if she did the same "wrong" things? Man, I have also lied to my girlfriend. She is very, v... (read in full...)
I have rusty feelings...I'm not sure if this is love or something else?
Q. okay so, its been a long time since ive really "LOVED" someone this girl i have my eye on has me confused. i really just don't know if its lust or love. its like when i think about her i can barely breath and i start to get that warm feeling of happ...
A. 3 April 2011: I don't think is love. Is certainly infatuation. But if you get to know the girl, and you find some compatibility and you hang around well, it will surely become into love+infatuation. ... (read in full...)
Will I ever find the Mr. Right for me?
Q. Hai. My name is Theona, i'm a 16years old. I like very hot, charming and a bit silly guys. My problem with this guys is that my relationships with them it always end up as a big mistake! That scares me alot, im afraid i will never have a good guy...
A. 3 April 2011: Theona, I think you should not look for neither Mr. Right nor Prince Charming. Every single human being on this planet has deep flaws, and most of them can't get fixed. Mr. Right is an invention from Disney to fool little girls into thinki... (read in full...)
Unerotic water sports?
Q. A girl I'm seeing is wanting me to pee on her. I know lots of people will do this for the erotic pleasure, but she insists that this isn't the case for her. She says its more about the intimacy of it. I'm a little confused by her reasoning. Anyone ...
A. 3 April 2011: I do think it is a fetish. I think you should try it, at least once or twice. Clearly tell her that you are just making an effort, but if you don't like it, then you'll never going to do that again. Some times a partner needs to open up to di... (read in full...)
Will going on a dating site make me feel better?
Q. Your Open Question: What should I do? am really hurting:( ? I loved my ex boyfriend so much, but he lied, cheated on me and dumped me. He says he felt out of love with me:( last time I saw him I was really vulnerable and slept with him b...
A. 2 April 2011: Listen, I have observed that many persons on online dating sites seemed like persons with lots of troubles. There are good men in there, but they are very scarce. Avoid entering those dating while being vulnerable. Also, if you get to meet someb... (read in full...)
He's my best friend, but I want more. Should I risk it?
Q. I'm 19, female, and a freshman in college. It's been a great first year and just like high school, I have a small small group of close friends. Actually, only really one who I hang out with and do everything with. And I'm afraid that I've started ...
A. 2 April 2011: Please, do yourself a big favor, and tell him your feelings. If you can't find words, get him to a place you can be alone, look into his eyes, and kiss him. Don't tell him nothing until you get tired of kissing. From my own experience, it is fa... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to bother with girls anymore.
Q. Hey guys, Me and this girl liked each other for a while and we kinda went on a date. but nothing else really happened for a while. Then i met this girl and we hit it off quite a bit, flirted a lot u know. so i told the first girl that i liked th...
A. 2 April 2011: I think you are a little young for this stuff. I had my first girlfriend at 23. I gave more priority to my studies, and now I have a job. Nevertheless, do whatever you feel like doing. If you want to tell the first girl you love her, go ahead. D... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy seems to prefer jacking off to having sex?
Q. I know every guy jacks off but why is it? What does it mean if he barely has sex with his girlfriend and always jacks off? I just don't understand!!!...
A. 2 April 2011: It means he is addicted to porn. As many men out there. It doesn't means he doesn't love you. If you are constantly scorning him and restraining sex from him... then every time he masturbates, it might be because he needs relief, and you aren't a... (read in full...)
Are men turned off by women who wear braces?
Q. Are men turned off by women who wear braces? I had them fitted last week, I really hate them and feel they make me look unattractive! My long distance boyfriend is due to see me again soon, we're in love but I'm worried he won't be attracted to...
A. 2 April 2011: I fell in love with my girlfriend when she was using braces. If you are a beautiful person, braces won't do any harm. A good man's heart can see through your braces, and know that they are temporary.... (read in full...)
Did I do the wrong thing in this relationship and is that why we broke up? Is it Karma?
Q. Here's my situation. My ex, (and it was a long distance relationship), and I have now been broken up for over 6 months now. We were together for almost a year, and the entire experience has been difficult to say the least. It wasn't a typical brea...
A. 2 April 2011: I don't trust in karma that much. I'm kind of between atheist and Buddhist. Man, get over her. She is now gone. Make a no-contact policy for a while. Avoid seeing her facebook or any other thing. You sound like a very good guy. I bet there are lo... (read in full...)
We are both very shy. How do we overcome our reserve and start kissing?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and we were best friends for 4 years before dating. We've well broken the touch barrier with hugging and such and I have even made some moves myself by kissing him on the cheek multiple times. Th...
A. 2 April 2011: If you really want to kiss him, take him to a place where you can be alone to kiss each other. Then, push him against the wall, and keep staring at his eyes. Make a sexy smile while doing this. Then, close your eyes, and kiss your guy up! He ... (read in full...)
My guy loves to give me some love down there. Does that make him a freak?
Q. In discussing how much he loves going down on me, he said: "That's when I take in how beautiful you are" What did he mean by that? Is this dude a freak?...
A. 2 April 2011: He is not a freak. He is a man, and all he wants is to please you. Let him do the deed. Enjoy it, let him take the time of the world to please you. Tell him what you like, and what you dislike. Guide him. Moan (it's a very powerful aphrodisiac). Get ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is not 'good in bed'. How can I effect some improvements?
Q. i really need help with my bf we have been together for a long time he is an absolutely amazing person but in bed he sucks and he also isn't really open about things the only plus is that he loves to give oral but that's not cutting it anymore. i ...
A. 2 April 2011: "he is always to dominant and tries too hard we skip foreplay because with it sex is like 5 minutes." Listen. You got to tell him, clearly, not to rush things up. He needs to please you, with his mouth and his fingers. He needs to enjoy you, and g... (read in full...)
Do women wish there was a world without men?
Q. Hello Fellow Peers Once Again. I Am Dimario. And... a complicated individual. i am easily hurt when it comes to relationship matters. well i was watching television and It was this feminist show and how she said how the world was bad because of men, ...
A. 2 April 2011: Hey man, it is Ok to cry. But don't let her crappy feminism turn you down. The world might actually be a worse place if crappy feminist woman ruled the world. Just before you throw tomatoes at me, I actually encourage woman, and I make a s... (read in full...)
How do I move on from a relationship that left me feeling so bad?
Q. I just ended a two year relationship. It wasn't what I wanted in my heart, but I was being treated very unfairly and I felt I had no choice in the matter. It was really unhealthy and filled with so many problems and heart ache. I've tried to end it ...
A. 2 April 2011: "Isn't it true that when you love someone, you should never make them feel this way? Please, help." Just answer this question. Who are they? You talk about THEM and not HIM. What's all about it? Girl, I really don't have that much experience.... (read in full...)
I do love my boyfriend. Is it cheating when I stop to talk to other boys?
Q. i am 19 years old and i have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. i know i love him sooo much but whenever i meet a new guy, or talk to any other guys, i feel like cheating. i never have cheated before and i dont think i ever will but ...
A. 2 April 2011: Hi well, this is a male opinion. I think you should talk to them. Just keep a healthy distance. Also, try asking your boyfriend about what he thinks of you talking friendly to other guys. I really don't think there needs to be a problem, and I do... (read in full...)
26 and no dating. Is online dating good?
Q. I'm 26 and quite shy. I don't really have any friends where I live and go on holidays on my own(whick i enjoy). I've not had a boyfriend since I was at school and I'm still a virgin. I would quite like a boyfriend, is online dating good?...
A. 1 April 2011: I have not dated online. I do have visited dating sites. They seem OK. Here is the catch: At least where I live, there are around 20000 woman looking for men [on a dating site], and round 1000 men looking for women. Therefore, if you are a w... (read in full...)
Should I tell my parents I can hear them having sex?
Q. I still live at home and my parents are in their 60's. I keep hearing them having sex and it's getting quite annoying and loud. Do you think I should say anything to them?...
A. 1 April 2011: Please, don't tell them anything. Let them enjoy!... (read in full...)
Insecure 18 year old seeking much needed advice....
Q. First off, before I begin, I want to make it perfectly clear that there's a pretty recognizable age difference in my relationship (in order to get the most understanding/accurate feedback): I JUST turned 18 and my boyfriend turned 26 in February. I ...
A. 1 April 2011: "We have been living together and I'm not sure if that's draining our relationship of romance" YES! Living together can sometimes take down romance. Get out of there, and find a way to keep a healthy distance with him. You'll see how the flame re... (read in full...)
Does some guys always go after beauty and sex even when they have a girl who loves them?
Q. Hi My bf be cheated on me and when i told him i am done with him, he claims every man will cheat if they are presented with an opportunity. I can swear not all women will cheat even if they find that opportunity. Does some guys always go after...
A. 1 April 2011: "I lost faith in men." Please, get this idea out of your head. NOT all men are created equal. There are good guys out there, running like elusive shadows. You need to find them! "Will i ever find love again." Yes, you will surely find love ag... (read in full...)
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