I'm lucky to "get lucky" once a week...
Q. My fiance and I have been together for seven and a half years. During the past two months, he has been showing symptoms of hypothyroidism..such as hair loss in patches, dizzy spells, fatigue, and most concerning, lack of libido. We used to have sex ...
A. 16 February 2012: I lived with my girlfriend for a year. I had to work everyday, and she stayed at home.
During this time, we sometimes had sex twice a week . Most of the times I came home very exhausted, and all I wanted was to eat and get some sleep. I don't know... (read in full...)
Bf does not pay attention to my breasts...but he does look at those of other women!
Q. I have a wonderful boyfriend (we have been together for almost a year now.) Our sex life is pretty great except for one thing... I get upset because he doesn't take my top off during sex and doesn't pay attention to my boobs. I admit that i am ...
A. 16 February 2012: Please! Don't ever get surgery! I think you are over reacting . You say you are thin and tall, and by what you say about your man, he likes your "ass" . I think he really likes you how you are. Yes, big breasts might call his attention, and ... (read in full...)
Bf does not pay attention to my breasts...but he does look at those of other women!
Q. I have a wonderful boyfriend (we have been together for almost a year now.) Our sex life is pretty great except for one thing... I get upset because he doesn't take my top off during sex and doesn't pay attention to my boobs. I admit that i am ...
A. 16 February 2012: Please! Don't ever get surgery!
I think you are over reacting .
You say you are thin and tall, and by what you say about your man, he likes your "ass" . I think he really likes you how you are. Yes, big breasts might call his attention, a... (read in full...)
Am I asking too much from him? I feel sad and confused and unloved.
Q. Hi, I'm hoping you can give me some advice or even help me get my heart and brain around me and my partner... It will be 2 years this month for our relationship, we should still be in our honeymoon stage wouldn't you think.. I feel unworthy...
A. 7 April 2011: I think you should approach to him and talk about your feelings.
I know that it feels like. You give a lot of affection, and you barely get a kiss back. And you crave for something more.
It takes two for a tango. By talking calmly with him,... (read in full...)
Would it be ok to give my ex some self help books?
Q. I know I am going to get a lot of negative comments about this, but I would like a suggestion nevertheless: I am just out of this thank god short relationship with a guy who clearly falls in the commitment phobe category, lots of push and pull, ...
A. 7 April 2011: What do you mean with commitment phobia?
I think many many guys out there have that.
On my part, it is more a phobia of not being able to support a family with my current economic situation.
Why don't you just leave the book on his ma... (read in full...)
I earn more money than my B/f. Is this going to affect our relationship long term and will he resent me for it one day?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for just over a year and a half and we have a very good relationship. I studied at university for 6 years while he started working right out of high school. At the moment I earn more than him and I think thin...
A. 6 April 2011: No! He won't resent it , unless you make him feel bad about earning less. Some woman, don't ask me why, brag to their less earning male counterparts about their income. This is a dealbreaker. It is ok to earn more than your man, but not to loo... (read in full...)
Why don't I think about my girlfriend when masturbating?
Q. Here's my story. I have this great woman who I love so much. I would feel dead inside without her, that's how much I love her. BUT, why can't I fantasize about her when I masterbate? I think about younger girls and their cute small breasts or past ...
A. 6 April 2011: Yes, that totally makes sense. ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't believe in long distance relationships, what should I do?
Q. These days we discussed a lot about our relationship but I couldn't make her understand that I'm trying to change, trying to be the man she's been waiting for. The problem is she doesn't believe in long distance relationship, she told me she needs a ...
A. 6 April 2011: Sorry, I wrote it wrong. What I wanted to say, is that 5 days ago she STOPPED any contact with me... Before that, we talked almost every day through skype. She still has not talked to me. I am in a very deep despair. "I seriously don't ... (read in full...)
I'm taking to a divorce lawyer Thursday, but I really wish I could work things out with my wife
Q. so me and my wife are sperated, and have been for 2 weeks. i've already begun to evaluate our assets and im talking with a lawyer on thursday. my head is telling me this is the best thing for me, but my heart desperately wants her back. the reas...
A. 6 April 2011: A marriage takes two to work. If she is not willing to make any change at all, or at least try, it is a bad sign. But that does not mean that your marriage is not salvageable. Sometimes, the distance [physical separation] help your marriage to... (read in full...)
How much do appearances matter?
Q. I recently met this guy whose family was from my hometown originally but he was born and raised in this country. He obviously likes me a lot and we had a lot to talk as his major is similar to mine. We've met twice but nothing was awkward and he ...
A. 6 April 2011: Whatever decision you take, it is the right one. For males, appearance is very important. But in case of woman, not everything is about looks. For some of them, how they feel when they are around this guy would be more important. I ... (read in full...)
I'm confused and wonder if she is using me until she finds someone else
Q. I met a girl on a dating site 8 weeks ago. We only see each other every weekend, I stay at hers, cause we live over an hour away from each other. Every thing seemed brilliant until today when she let me take away her laptop to fix. I found she...
A. 6 April 2011: Does she even thanks you? It is a good idea not to shower a girl with gifts/money. You'll get disappointed if she dumps you. Some girls are really good at using man, and man are very dumb to be in the game. [I was once like that, and I allowe... (read in full...)
Should I tell him when he give me butterflies?
Q. I was just wondering, do guys want to know when they are turning you on? Only because my boyfriend sometimes does this thing when he starts drawing on the back of my hand with his finger and then he sometimes runs his hand gently down my arm and it ...
A. 6 April 2011: There is no bigger turn on for a guy than a woman telling him "you are making me wet" that, and a slight moan of pleasure. ... (read in full...)
Any men like being adult breast fed?
Q. Hey men, just wondering if you have ever been adult breast fed by your partner. If so, do you like the taste of the milk? What is your best description of the taste, and which do you enjoy more, the feel of the nipple on your mouth, or the taste of ...
A. 6 April 2011: I have not tasted breast milk... But I will when I get married and my wife gets pregnant! I can't wait! I just get turned on by just imagining being breastfed by my partner!... (read in full...)
Overly long labia???
Q. okay im 14 and my labia is really long and i absolutly hate it! i cant bare to even look at it.. i swear its not normal for them to be this long? and im too scared to ever show it to anyone which will affect my sex life when im older.. someone ...
A. 6 April 2011: I get turned on by long labia minora! If you guy loves you, he won't care how long they are. I bet your labia look beautiful! ... (read in full...)
I had to break up with my boyfriend because of my family, now I don't know what to do......
Q. Right, well i'm 16 and im going uni next year and i have been with my now ex boyfriend for about 6 months, we were getting on perfectly together, we was happy. there was hardly any problems and when there was we sorted everything out and ...
A. 5 April 2011: 4 years is like an entire lifetime.
You should think positively and focus on your education. It is very painful being on a long distance relationship, and I'm glad you broke it off.
Whatever happens between this guy and you, you need to keep... (read in full...)
What made this happen? And is there a way to stop it?
Q. dear cupid, okayy...brace yourself. this is kind of a weird question. buuut it's been bugging me, and i really don't know of anybody that can give me any answers about it, soo...well, you get the idea. hopefully, some other girl on here can help...
A. 5 April 2011: I heard my girlfriend had one of those. I didn't laugh at it, but she felt really embarrassed. She explained to me what a vaginal fart was.
Vaginal farts come because of air being pumped into you, and then all of a sudden, it comes out.
Don't... (read in full...)
I'm not cut out for FWB relationships, can I get my new guy to change his mind?
Q. Hey, I've never done this before, but I just have a question. I've recently "split up" with my fuck buddy, and it broke my heart, because I started being in love with him, and as soon as I told him, he started withdrawing and not returning my cal...
A. 5 April 2011: I don't think that guy from Madrid is interesting in a LDR. He already told you that he don't want something serious. Take his word as a fact. Now that you have experienced what being a fuckbuddy is, and you know that eventually you fall in love... (read in full...)
Why don't I think about my girlfriend when masturbating?
Q. Here's my story. I have this great woman who I love so much. I would feel dead inside without her, that's how much I love her. BUT, why can't I fantasize about her when I masterbate? I think about younger girls and their cute small breasts or past ...
A. 5 April 2011: You don't have to feel bad if you can't fantasize with your girlfriend. I do fantasize with my girlfriend because she has been my only girlfriend.
It was actually a bad idea of telling her you don't fantasize with her. You should tell her you fant... (read in full...)
I think I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship
Q. i think i'm in an emotionally abusive relationship, although i'm not quite sure. some of the signs i read online just aren't quite suiting, although i just feel something has to be very, very wrong. i've been cheated on and found out, and she beg...
A. 5 April 2011: That girl is no good for you.
If she one day tells you she is sorry, and the other she makes you feel like crap, it is very probable you are in an abusive relationship.
Run to the hills!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't believe in long distance relationships, what should I do?
Q. These days we discussed a lot about our relationship but I couldn't make her understand that I'm trying to change, trying to be the man she's been waiting for. The problem is she doesn't believe in long distance relationship, she told me she needs a ...
A. 5 April 2011: I don't know what to tell you.
I have been 6 months without seeing my girlfriend.
We are in a long distance relationship.
I'm also very depressed [but now I'm taking meds to overcome it]. We do chat every day, but a couple of days ago she s... (read in full...)
Pregnant, BF doesn't want anything to do with the baby, and this might be my only chance to conceive because of a family history of medical problems...
Q. so im 19 years old and just recently broke up with my boyfriend after being with him for 2 years, we were madly in love aand i still care so deeply about him, but i broke up with him because all we ever did was fight and argue about everything. i...
A. 5 April 2011: Is there any way you can get support from the government? At least in UK I think some woman get government money for their kids. This is a very difficult decision, and I think you should talk with your mom/dad about it, and decide what to do. Ha... (read in full...)
Husband cant satisfy me because of premature ejaculation.... perhaps I need to have my physical needs met elsewhere?
Q. I love my husband very much. We did not have a lot of sex before we married, so it wasn't until after our wedding that I confirmed that he has premature ejaculation. This has effected every single time we have had sex for the past two years, without ...
A. 5 April 2011: I'll give you a quick tip. Let him please you orally! Don't seek an orgasm, just enjoy the feeling. Get a vibrator, and tell him to pleasure you with it. Spend as many time as you need to climax. After you feel satisfied, let him penetrate you [t... (read in full...)
Boyfriend and I have completely opposing views on porn. Is this a possible deal breaker?
Q. Hi everyone, I'm 24 and I've been with my boyfriend, who's 25, for about four months and all had been going great; he's kind, caring, generous and always puts me first. However, I noticed on his internet browser history a couple of week...
A. 5 April 2011: Hi! "and was told that 'all men watch porn'. I just cannot believe this. Many maybe, but not all." Well, you are right. Not all men watch porn, just 99.999% of them. It will be very , very hard for you to find a man that does not watch porn. ... (read in full...)
How can I have good sex with my wife?
Q. I am 24, my penis is small in 5". I am going to marry, how can I have good sex with my wife?...
A. 5 April 2011: You can have good sex with her if you give yourself to her. Don't rush things. Keep it slow, and calm. Pleasure her first, and if possible, make her orgasm orally. She will be very thankful if you pleasure her first. Then, you can penetrat... (read in full...)
B/f wants to have sex without a condom
Q. im 15 and my 15 yr. bf finaly got me 2 give him a b.j after 2 mounths of dating and now after 3 mounths he is trying 2 get me 2 give him my vergenity and he said we should not use a condom cuz it feels better w/out 1 then he said he wnts r 1st time ...
A. 5 April 2011: You should go to a doctor, and ask about prevention methods. Without a backup plan, you CAN'T have safe sex, and you'll probably get pregnant. You don't want to get pregnant at your age honey. You need to start finding out about prevention methods ... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I can't seem to forget my first crush
Q. Hello Aunties! Okay here is my question i finally have a boyfriend! yay! the problem is i can't seem to forget about my first crush i had since i was 9. i really love my boyfriend with all my heart but when i see my first crush i freeze to death ...
A. 5 April 2011: It is easier to forget your first crush when you are with a new boyfriend. You just need to be patient, in around 1 or 2 years in your relationship, you'll barely remember your first crush. So be patient!... (read in full...)
Is it possible a co-worker has a crush?
Q. Does a co worker have a crush or just being nice if she Laughs at your crap jokes Asks how you are and notices if you're down and wants to help Tells you all about herself Brings up things that you have said before that made her laugh P...
A. 5 April 2011: Yes, or perhaps she is just flirting with you, or that is the way she drives herself with other guys. ... (read in full...)
Sexually Frustrated and in need of Suggestions.......
Q. I am trying to find a way to express to my boyfriend of 9 months that I am sexually frustrated, and something has to change now, or I'm out. Age shouldn't be an issue as he is 32 and I am 42, we are both experienced, and we have both had long term ...
A. 5 April 2011: I would suggest that he stop masturbating. Masturbating reduces the amount of energy a man haves to offer to his girlfriend. The less the porn, the more sex you two will have. When I lived with my girlfriend, I dropped porn to start having more sex... (read in full...)
I can't erase the imagine of me being in her mouth
Q. I formerly formulated a question concerning how I and my girlfriend had some bad experiences with oral sex. I got answered quite well but one thing still rests in my mind. It's as though, when I look at her mouth, I can't help but thinking ''My cock ...
A. 5 April 2011: Kiss her even more. The more you kiss her, the more you'll be able to erase the mental image from your head. ... (read in full...)
He wanted to meet and then cancelled. Does he just want sex?
Q. I met a guy online, we have been texting and phoning eachother for 3 months now, the prob is that im unsure if he just wants sex. When we first started texting he asked did i want to meet up and spend the night with him. I made it clear that I ...
A. 5 April 2011: "Please help, does this man just want to get me into bed or what?" Yes, this guy seem like he wants to get you in bed. No guy should treat you badly if you refuse having sex with him. Listen, I have had many friendships before, and many girls wh... (read in full...)
I'm not sure I want to kiss him
Q. Well I have this boy that I really like and he asked my if i would be his girlfriend. I said yes because i relly like him. But now he wants to kiss me and I am not sure if i want to. What can I say to him and what can I do?...
A. 5 April 2011: "What can I say to him and what can I do?" Tell him you don't feel ready for kissing. But that you would like something like hugging , or holding hands. Be creative. He needs to respect your decisions. Later in the relationship, you'll know when... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and treats me like his mistress
Q. Hi, I am 19 years old, and i haven't been in a relationship before, which means i haven't lost my first kiss either. I would say that i do not fall in love easily either. Last year, I met this guy, J in my college and I fell for him. I managed to ...
A. 5 April 2011: I think you should be with him intimately only when he break up with his girlfriend. If you get intimate before that, he will be technically cheating on his girlfriend, and that might happen to you if you get together. I think you don't deserv... (read in full...)
Is it true that once a friendship has been damaged its hard to make it right again?
Q. Okay, I am inlove with a guy who likes my bestfriend and my bestfriend likes him too. Like any love story, I decided to let go of him (for them to be happy) and retain the friendship I had with my bestfriend. But why is it, my bestfriend and I ...
A. 4 April 2011: "What should I do? Should I stay or should I leave her?" I say you stay, but don't expect anything from her. Expect her being mad and jealous with you. She will see you as a competitor, and will do anything to keep her man with her. "Is it true ... (read in full...)
Is there any way our fooling around could have caused pregnancy?
Q. I'm extremely scared, probably freaking out a little too much. But I need help. My boyfriend and I were in his car fooling around this past weekend. Clothes were on. By accident I put my hands on the inside of just the top of his jeans and it felt ...
A. 4 April 2011: NO! Sperm are not that magical entities. If he didn't introduced you any liquids, or touch your vagina's inner walls, then there will be no pregnancy. You are just scared right now, and you need to calm down. If you are still afraid, get an o... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sleeps at his ex's house when he goes to visit his son!
Q. my boyfriend still stays the night at his ex wifes house when he goes to visit his son. i have been told by a nother girl that he still has sex with his ex wife when he goes to visit, and that they dont sleep separately. of course i asked him and he ...
A. 4 April 2011: I think that sleeping at his ex's house is way too much. He should get a hotel room. You are on your right to ask him not to sleep at her house. Staying at his ex's house is not very healthy for him, for his ex, and for you, even if it is cheaper ... (read in full...)
I had to give up my friendship because he started telling me he wanted to be my boyfriend
Q. There is this guy that introduced himself to me last year and we begun talking and became good friends after a month or two went by. And he began telling me things about his personal life and ask for my advice on things, and I would always try my ...
A. 4 April 2011: "He agreed, but then continued doing so almost daily.." Well, if you talked with him, and he insisted with that conduct, well, that means that the guy can't hold his word, so you can't trust him. He should have respected your feelings and your rel... (read in full...)
Why do I not attract nice men?
Q. I'm 33yrs lasy year a guy i normally wouldnt be interested in asked me out he a farmer 40yrs came across shy at first everything was going well except he wanted to keep our relationship secret i was ok with this at first as we have same circle of ...
A. 4 April 2011: That guy doesn't seem to be a good man for you. Just keep away from him. Having that secrecy it is OK when you are younger, like in your early 20's [me and my girlfriend did that, because we were our first love, and didn't wanted problems at home... (read in full...)
Should I delete him completely? And how do I make him eat his words?
Q. So if you have read the previous messages you will be able to help me with this. So after all this with this guy I was dating I goes on Facebook today and he is in a relationship with another girl.. yess I'm completely shocked and beyond hurt. But I ...
A. 4 April 2011: Then go ahead and delete him. But attempt no revenge or making him eat his words. There are plenty of good guys out there.... (read in full...)
I'm feeling neglected and unloved in my marriage. What can I do?
Q. My husband been weird lately, he doesn't seem to want to hug me or kiss me, or do anything, when he gets home from work i go to hug him and he says 'i got other things to do'. He works Monday-Friday, so on the weekends i hope we can do things to...
A. 4 April 2011: Is your husband having economic hardships? Is he working overtime? If your answer is yes, then your husband might be stressed. Try approach him in small burst. Kiss him while he is distracted on the kitchen looking for food or water. Take ... (read in full...)
Toxic man, how do I get over him?
Q. I have just ended a very toxic relationship and am sufferring badly, so any help and advice is much appreciated. It's a long story, but in brief, I had an affair with a man who, at first, I thought was wonderful. We connected deeply on a phys...
A. 4 April 2011: Sorry if this might get long. Read my words: RUN AWAY FROM HIM NOW! "Then, very suddenly, toxic man backed off and went very cold." This guy has mood swings, which are not typical with narcissists, but are more typical of Borderline Personali... (read in full...)
I HATE those first kisses - I'm so nervous - what makes a good first kiss?
Q. Hi there, I HATE the first kiss. I can't do it. I'm looking for some advice, or even somebody to say I'm not alone. I'm not even 16.. i'm 30! I've fancied somebody at work for six months now. He tried to kiss me two weeks ago at a party, and...
A. 4 April 2011: Just kindly kiss him back. Small kisses will be ok. You don't want to stick your tongue right away, that is more intimate. Just stay calm. If a guy is kissing you, it is because he loves your lips! [My girlfriend have large natural lips... I really ... (read in full...)
Should I delete him completely? And how do I make him eat his words?
Q. So if you have read the previous messages you will be able to help me with this. So after all this with this guy I was dating I goes on Facebook today and he is in a relationship with another girl.. yess I'm completely shocked and beyond hurt. But I ...
A. 4 April 2011: So you were dating, but not were exclusively dating right? Dating someone does not mean that he or she is in a committed relationship, unless you both agree to. If while he was dating with you, he decided to be in a relationship with other gir... (read in full...)
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