Does some guys always go after beauty and sex even when they have a girl who loves them?
Q. Hi My bf be cheated on me and when i told him i am done with him, he claims every man will cheat if they are presented with an opportunity. I can swear not all women will cheat even if they find that opportunity. Does some guys always go after...
A. 1 April 2011: "I lost faith in men." Please, get this idea out of your head. NOT all men are created equal. There are good guys out there, running like elusive shadows. You need to find them! "Will i ever find love again." Yes, you will surely find love ag... (read in full...)
I'm feeling unsettled about boyfrend's porn
Q. I have been dating a guy of 35 for 18 months who is lovely and kind and caring and we get on really well. However it really is bugging me that when we first met I found he had a huge collection of porn and I mean huge. He has downloaded years and ...
A. 1 April 2011: "I am just feeling unsettled about his porn." There is nothing you can do about it. Don't pressure to delete his years of free porn. He might have porn addiction, as most of us guys do. Fact: 99.99% of men watch porn, unless they are blind. If you g... (read in full...)
What exactly is good sex?
Q. How do you know you're good at sex. What exactly is good sex? ...
A. 1 April 2011: Good sex is the one that you never want it to end. It doesn't matter what you do, even if you don't orgasm or even be penetrated, as long as you feel safe, loved, desired, and you feel trust in your partner. Good sex is about pleasing your pa... (read in full...)
If you've been friends for a long time, is there NO chance that he or she could ever fall for you?
Q. I've had something on my mind for a long time and I could use some wisdom in this situation. I would never try to steal, or break up someone's relationship... but, what I WOULD like to know is this: Suppose that you've been friends with someone...
A. 1 April 2011: Yes. As a male, it have happened to me. Although right now I'm in a relationship, before I got into it, I had some feelings for other girl. If my girlfriend dumps me, I know who I am going to pay a visit. While in a relationship, I totally forgot a... (read in full...)
Boyfriend stopped getting me little presents...am I right to be upset about this?
Q. hey everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. At the start of the relationship he was so lovey dovey, would send me cute msgs and all those things, but now it seems like he thinks he doesn't need to do all that stuff anymo...
A. 1 April 2011: "effort meaning me telling him i love him and sending him msgs and hugging him and things and just showing my love to him. im scared hes loosing interest in me" Try a different approach. Try hugging him and telling him that you Love when he hugs you... (read in full...)
How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable??
Q. Advice pleease!! How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable?? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2yrs and I have taken on the role of the "pursuer" he has completely distanced himself, he's disengaged, disinterested, doesn't ...
A. 1 April 2011: Well, you probably have a case of social network addiction here. When I was a kid (I'm 26), I used to get very addicted to chat rooms, and chatting with strangers [not to mention watching porn]. It gets very addictive, really [both activities... (read in full...)
Boyfriend stopped getting me little presents...am I right to be upset about this?
Q. hey everyone. I've been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. At the start of the relationship he was so lovey dovey, would send me cute msgs and all those things, but now it seems like he thinks he doesn't need to do all that stuff anymo...
A. 1 April 2011: "So my question is does anybody relate to me?" I really can't relate with you. "And should I just stop giving so much to him?" The answer is NO. You should always give him more than you receive. That will make him love you more. Also, try tea... (read in full...)
How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable??
Q. Advice pleease!! How do I deal with someone that is emotionally unavailable?? I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2yrs and I have taken on the role of the "pursuer" he has completely distanced himself, he's disengaged, disinterested, doesn't ...
A. 1 April 2011: I myself got claustrophobic when I lived with my girlfriend for a year. Too much intimacy sometimes creeps us out. You need to get a little distance from him. Don't ask him many questions, and don't pressure him to talk. Just tell him something like ... (read in full...)
I keep falling out of love. Is this a pattern, or just a coincidence?
Q. So me and my partner seem to by losing our spark, i hardly feel attracted to him anymore but i'm seeing a trend appearing. My first love i started to feel the spark had gone but found out he had cheated so we broke up. My 2nd serious relationsh...
A. 1 April 2011: Listen, your problem is that you are not used to being treated well. You are used to be in a relationship with big dramas [like cheating]. It is very normal for you to feel awkward when you are truly being loved. If you loose this good guy, you... (read in full...)
I feel so empty and lost. Has anyone ever felt this way?
Q. I feel so numb lately, I spent the last 25 years of my life i am twenty, pleasing people, and living up to other peoples expectations. After i got out of my emotionally abusive relationship of five years, and finished my masters I FEEL worse.. ...
A. 1 April 2011: @Oneofthegirlygirls I think, with no offense, that you should take natural antidepressants such as Remotiv [it is St. John's wort extract]. 6 months ago, my girlfriend moved 300 miles away... and I haven't seen her ever since. We are now on a lon... (read in full...)
Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!
Q. Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I ...
A. 1 April 2011: "He says all hes thought about the last 3 years is us, but he doesnt know what to do." Ok. Well, now, I want yourself to ask this question: What is that you really want with this guy? If you also want to have 'fun', 'uncomplicated thing', th... (read in full...)
He was once married and never told me!
Q. Hi there, I met my boyfriend 2 years ago and we have been living in the same house with his parents who own a big house and we wanted to save before we move out.About a year ago in April I found out that he was married and nobody told me,neith...
A. 31 March 2011: Listen, perhaps your man is not very proud of this marriage with that woman. Also, their marriage might have been broken since the miscarriage, it is a very painful experience... technically, it is like if someone died. Some relationships find it ... (read in full...)
Three years later....I'm confused on what to do!
Q. Hi, I am very confused as to what is happening at the moment. But I will start from the beginning, 3 years ago I was "going out" with a guy, and we were both virgins, but about 2months later, my dad died, and I went off the rails. By this I mean I ...
A. 31 March 2011: Many persons have issues trying to trust you if you cheat on them once. But if he really loves you, he should leave your past where it is, and think in a future and present with you. Sit with him. Talk about what happened. Ask him for forgiveness,... (read in full...)
How can I get my husband to make love to me, rather than just having sex?
Q. [MOD NOTE] User has written duplicates of one question, so we have combined the two in one post. I love my husband dearly, but he doesn't know how to make love to me. He thinks that having sex is making love. How do I make him understand the d...
A. 31 March 2011: Listen, buy your man this book:
http://www.amazon.com/She-Comes-First-Thinking-Pleasuring/dp/0060538252
Kindly force him to read it.
Talk with him about it. Tell him that you need a little more romance, caressing, and cuddling. Seduce him as p... (read in full...)
Confused that BF interrupted love making to use bathroom.
Q. Can someone explain this to me? Woke up when the alarm went off this morning, bf of 7 months was kissing my neck...so we ended up having sex, and kinda half way through, he stops and says "gotta go, baby"...I was like, "go where?" and he jumps out ...
A. 31 March 2011: Most of the times, when I'm having intercourse, I got a very high urges to go to pee.
My girlfriend gets upset... but she has to understand.
Men are different, and some of us need to pee or else we'll cum very quickly!
We'll never pee inside y... (read in full...)
It's time we had sex. Tips please?
Q. I have been in my first relationship now for 3 months. So i am a rookie. What i want to know is when should i suggest having sex with my gf. she isn't a virgin, and i am. we haven't done anything like orals/handjobs, but do we need to do that before ...
A. 31 March 2011: Dude, you are on the right track. Just wait a little. She'll give you what you need soon. I watched naked my girlfriend after a 1 year in the relationship [I didn't penetrated her until after the 3rd year, but that was personal choice. Some gir... (read in full...)
Worried about my penis size
Q. i have a 5.7 inch erect penis length and 4.3 girth is this enough to satisfy a girl?......
A. 31 March 2011: Hi,
any penis size is good for a woman. They really don't care your penis size.
Listen, girls like for you to please them. Focus on giving her pleasure first. Don't force yourself or her into orgasm. Just make her relaxed,
make her feel confort... (read in full...)
Guys: Would you dump a girl if she didnt have sex with you?
Q. This question is for guys and guys alone. Now i want you to be completely honest with me. If you were dating a teenaged girl and you were a teenager yourself, and you wanted to have sex badly and she didn't, would you dump her?...
A. 31 March 2011: I'm a 26 years old men.
I would not dump her. If you dump her, you will be saying to her (implicitly) that you want her only for sex. Women don't like to feel like sex objects... they are humans, and have feelings, just as you.
If you are just... (read in full...)
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