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I'm feeling neglected and unloved in my marriage. What can I do?

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Question - (4 April 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *mmaxlouise2011 writes:

My husband been weird lately, he doesn't seem to want to hug me or kiss me, or do anything, when he gets home from work i go to hug him and he says 'i got other things to do'.

He works Monday-Friday, so on the weekends i hope we can do things together but when i ask him he says 'ive got other things to do'

I'm just feeling so neglected and unloved, when i try and talk to him about it he just says 'well i need to do these things' what can i do.

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A male reader, IHateWomanBeaters United States +, writes (4 April 2011):

IHateWomanBeaters agony auntThis is not something that should be happening.

He needs to open up.

IF he doesn't, then leave him.

You are way too young to act like you cannot find a partner that will communicate even when he is a little stressed.

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A male reader, honestman Mexico +, writes (4 April 2011):

Is your husband having economic hardships?

Is he working overtime?

If your answer is yes, then your husband might be stressed.

Try approach him in small burst. Kiss him while he is distracted on the kitchen looking for food or water. Take any opportunity to show him your love, but don't over do it. Also, try talking with him, to find out what is happening with him. Tell him how are you feeling lately.

Don't get upset if he does not returns your affection. When he feels better, he'll do it. Nevertheless, if this takes too long, then you should probably get a counselor or family psychologist.

I hope this helps!

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