What does cum taste like?
Q. hey guys, I was wondering what 'cum' really tastes like? I have heard on here and friends that it tastes real bad and can anyone relate what it tastes like to a certain food or something? so then at least when the time comes I will be ready, so wha...
A. 15 May 2009: Love your dimples, satin - and your new picture. But then, you always look good.... Harry.... (read in full...)
No sexual desire and can't get an erection
Q. Hello! i was wondering if anybody has this problem. I don't feel sexual desire, and I can;t get an erction . So my wife is very frustrated, because She thinks it her. That ,she is not turning me on anymore, and she thinks,I just don't tell this ...
A. 14 May 2009: Satin is once again right on the mark. No chemicals that operate as Viagra does will ever do it for you without desire on your part. Now, I did hear a few years ago of a tablet called "Aprima" or "Uprima"; goes under both names. This DOES operate ... (read in full...)
Need sex education about the difference between a clitoris and a vagina.
Q. hey. I just learned that there is a difference between vaginal and clitoral contact (during sex). could you please enlighten me as to what this difference entails? Thanks!...
A. 14 May 2009: Oops! A senior moment, there, sorry! Harry.... (read in full...)
Need sex education about the difference between a clitoris and a vagina.
Q. hey. I just learned that there is a difference between vaginal and clitoral contact (during sex). could you please enlighten me as to what this difference entails? Thanks!...
A. 14 May 2009: My apologies for repeating myself from a previous answer to a similar question, but I think you need to do this.....
Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be disturbed, I want you to examine your pussy.
Closely.
Prop yourself up in b... (read in full...)
Husband's rubbish in bed... I've talked to him, how can I make him change?
Q. Ok so how do I put this. How do I get my husband to help me get turned on during sex? Usually when we have sex he just does what he needs to and we are done 10 mins at the most. I have talked to him about it but it still has not changed anything. ...
A. 14 May 2009: Agreed, Gina - foreplay is ESSENTIAL - otherwise he is treating you like "a hole in the mattress"!
If he can't be trained into being less selfish and inconsiderate of your needs, either go to the bathroom and give yourself a couple of orgasms by y... (read in full...)
Having trouble with sex, he can't get inside me!
Q. My boyfriend and I are having trouble having sex and we have been trying for quite some time now. The problem i think is with me. His penis will not go into my vagina. He can get his fingers in there with some pain but when he gets ready to insert ...
A. 13 May 2009: The lovely satin has it right again; we are not legally competent to comment on medical issues and can only offer opinions - and recommend a trip to your GP, of course.
However, I suggest that you Google "vagisimus".
I think this is what may be ... (read in full...)
How do I help my friend clear her name up? They had sex in the school park & everyone is talking about it
Q. Hello cupids, ok so my friend and her boyfriend (now her ex) has had sex in a school park..so while they were having sex this one girl claimed that she seen them.so now the girl who have seen them been going around our whole school telling ppl what ...
A. 13 May 2009: I would lie, lie, and lie again!
Why? Because lying is far less bad in this case than letting your friend down, especially as the consequences for her of letting this get back to her family are FAR worse than a few mendacious words from you.
She's... (read in full...)
When and why do guys get erections?
Q. okay. i really dont understand this erection buisness that well.i know that guys say they have one when they see a girl they fancy and she does something sexy. but do some gusy just have random one's?or just have one when they see a person they fan...
A. 10 May 2009: An erection starts in the mind, so yes - YOU don't have to be doing anything sexy, he just has to be thinking sexy things about you!
As has been said already, he obviously is interested in one of you, so be flattered. It doesn't have to be a perv... (read in full...)
Why do girls make things so complicated?
Q. ok so there i was sittin in the library revising. opposite me was a girl who was also doing some work. i asked her "i kno ur busy but would u like to grab a bite quickly?" she said no but is goin for a smoke later and i could come with if i do ...
A. 10 May 2009: I agree that writing correct English is important because you are judged on that immediately, and your true meaning can be concealed by slack presentation.
I say that because I want to be sure that she said exactly..."when she asked me to smoke with... (read in full...)
Why don't I get pleasure from didos?
Q. Hi, My question is why don't I get any pleasure from dildos? I'm a virgin, but I'd like to break my hymen beforehand and be more comfortable with penetration on my own before I decide to have sex. The thing is, I think I already have broken my hymen ...
A. 10 May 2009: I ask the indulgence of regular readers here, because I've already posted a similar answer, but can't remember the reference to direct you to.
As the wise and wonderful satindesire has already pointed out, you are barking up the wrong tree try... (read in full...)
Masturbation help!
Q. I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite ...
A. 10 May 2009: I am not one to disrespect another's religion, but this site can do without the sort of dangerous rant from evelast653.
The "hellfire and brimstone" tub-thumping evangelism is such a caricature that I can't believe people still exist that think and ... (read in full...)
He prefers bigger breasts and mine are small...how do I deal with his remarks about that?
Q. My boyfriend wants me to stop being insecure, but I don't know how. Granted, never been the most self confident chick in the block, since I'm not the prettiest. But when we started dating, he used to compliment me a lot which gave me a huge ...
A. 10 May 2009: I don't think your breast size is the issue here - it's all about respect and maturity, and I'm afraid your boyfriend doesn't seem to have either.
The kind of behaviour he is exhibiting towards you should have been left behind with his boyh... (read in full...)
Masturbation help!
Q. I recently asked about masturbation and whether it was a sin or not. I'm catholic/christian. I'm pretty sure it is. However, I wanted to make sure that it doesn't affect young girls from becoming infertile in the future or lose their sexual appetite ...
A. 10 May 2009: As usual, the delicious satin is quite right!
I would add just one thing to what she says; the clitoris has only one purpose - pleasure.
Sexual pleasure.
Would you have been given it if it were wrong to use it for such a purpose?
Harr... (read in full...)
He won't let me swallow his semen
Q. My partner wont let me swallow his semen? How do I persuade him. I have had it only once and loved it as I accept it as part of him. Any suggestions....
A. 9 May 2009: I'm a little bemused by the male answerers here; no disrespect, gents, but have you ever tasted your own? Sorry if this sounds gross, but some time ago, a reluctant swallower said to me..."you wouldn't ask a woman to do that (swallow) if you knew... (read in full...)
He keeps asking me if I'm a virgin!
Q. I went out on one date with this guy, and then the next day we were talking through text messages and he asked me if I was a virgin or not. I told him I didnt feel comfortable answering that at this stage yet and he said thats ok I dont have to ...
A. 8 May 2009: Don't tell him!
I suspect he has a thing for virgins and wants to pop your cherry! Maybe if he discovers that you aren't he would lose interest and pick on someone else?
Regardless of whether my feeling is correct or not, I think it's an impe... (read in full...)
My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!
Q. I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't ...
A. 7 May 2009: It would still be informative for us to hear about those control issues, but if you feel you can't say, that's understandable. However, in the meantime, a task for you; just a simple one... Tonight, when you are alone and not likely to be dis... (read in full...)
My inability to orgasm is really frustrating me and my boyfriend!
Q. I can't orgasm! It's really starting to frusterate me, as well as my boyfriend. We've talked about it and at the beginning of our relationship he used to get really mad at me, but he realized that just put pressure on me so now he says he doesn't ...
A. 7 May 2009: It might help us to help you if you can go into more detail regarding when you "had the control taken away from you", if you feel you are able to and doesn't disturb you too much?
Once this issue is addressed, I think we will be better able to guid... (read in full...)
Am I diabetic?
Q. My mum is dibetic, and i had symtoms of diabities, dizziness,blurred vision,thirsty all the time and going to the loo alot a feel like am gonna faint all the time. so i used my mams one touch to take my blood sugar levels and it came back as just ...
A. 7 May 2009: PLEASE go and be checked properly. The inconsistency of your readings is worrying.
If you are really OK, then no harm will be done by seeing your GP for confirmation: he truly won't mind seeing you even if all is well, and if there is a prob... (read in full...)
Am I diabetic?
Q. My mum is dibetic, and i had symtoms of diabities, dizziness,blurred vision,thirsty all the time and going to the loo alot a feel like am gonna faint all the time. so i used my mams one touch to take my blood sugar levels and it came back as just ...
A. 7 May 2009: I am diabetic, and urge you to get checked as soon as possible.
Your reading of Blood Sugar Level should be between 4 and 7 mmol/litre. That figure of 19.5 is a cause for immediate concern.
Keep off the chocolate and go to your GP as soon as possi... (read in full...)
Facebook about to ruin another relationship?
Q. I would really appreciate people's opinions / advice on this particular dilemma...Nothing new, but I'm sure lots of people have had similar experiences. Damn facebook... Me and my girlfriend (both early 30s) have had some problems lately but we ar...
A. 6 May 2009: This is tough on you; what a dilemma.
Gina is right: she needs to know that you know and stop putting the counselling at risk, etc.
However, you will instantly be the bad boy if you own up to snooping, however justified.
Plan B?
This friend y... (read in full...)
Married and need good tips for giving head.
Q. hi to all I'd like a few tips please, im a happily married 28 year old with a great sex life but im rubbish at giving head and really want him to like it and ask for more. Any tips or hints please? thanks...
A. 5 May 2009: Jessica has offered you good advice as usual.
A friend of mine has a wonderfully detailed how-to description, but I will need to send it to you privately as it is very explicit and will be moderated out of existence in this public forum.
Sorry... (read in full...)
I had sex while menstuating 2 weeks ago. Could I be pregnant now?
Q. Please help me out.. I am in need of a pregnancy test which I can only buy tomorrow (everything close today). I am panicking because today it struck me I might be pregnant because: I am 2 weeks after my period, in which I had full intercourse ( no ...
A. 4 May 2009: Hi. As a male, I'n not an expert, but the way I understand it, it depends upon when in your period you had sex. You stand a better chance if it were day 1 or 2, but if at the latter stages, sperm could still be in you and viable when a new egg i... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and female and my friend (female) kissed me... thing is I liked it. Is this wrong?
Q. hi well here's the story and its long but i really need help so please read it all. im a girl, I'M 13 and i spent the night at my friend M's house last night and my other friend C spent the night too. we went to M's house right after school and we ...
A. 3 May 2009: Sorry, "anonymous", but I don't think this is all down to the dare; if it were simply that, C wouldn't have done those things in bed, especially as M was already asleep and not available to be impressed! Questioner, you and C are just starting... (read in full...)
He can't keep an erection and I am too young to forgo this part of my life! Help?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year we are both in our late forties and married for 20 years and divorced. He shared withme while we had been dating for 2 or 3 weeks that he had diabetes and therefore can not get an erection. I do love ...
A. 2 May 2009: I also have diabetes, and have weak, but workable, erections. I'm 65, by the way, and still interested in having a healthy sex life! I doubt whether a specialist will help if he has tried all sorts of Viagra-type treatments. A bit drastic, but it I... (read in full...)
Is a polygraph test the answer?
Q. I am in a real dilemma and don't know what to do. I am engaged and have been with my fiance for 9 years now and never imagined this horrible nightmare i am now in. We were shopping on the weekend when some girl approached me and said your ...
A. 29 April 2009: Why not get HER to take the test? That way, you won't seriously offend your boyfriend.
Harry... (read in full...)
Any advice on new sexual things to try?
Q. i want a more adventurous sexual expiences w/ my husband but we dont have a lot of tricks up pur sleeves, and i can only cum when i ride him, i want to try new things but i have no idea what to suggest. im pretty flexible when it comes to advice, ...
A. 28 April 2009: Hmm. The biggest sexual organ is the brain. "anonymous" is right about flirting, etc., but I would suggest going a little further. Try abstaining from anything sexual for a week or so (even touching, etc.), but teasing each other daily and promis... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...
A. 28 April 2009: xngels, I think you are right to carry on ignoring him, as you said. Nothing but trouble can come from any other action.
How to get over him?
The standard (and unhelpful) answer would be to advise you to concentrate on other activities or sports, ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make sex more enjoyable for both of us?
Q. I have been having sex but for only a few months now. My boyfriend is pretty inexperienced as well only being with two other girls. Anyways he really likes doggy style, but I can't cum like that... is that normal or are we doing something wrong....
A. 27 April 2009: If you have read many answers on here about similar questions, you will have heard that what you are experiencing is quite normal.
It's not your fault, or his. Mother Nature is the culprit, placing the thing that stimulates you and gets you off,... (read in full...)
I think I should make the first move, but what to say?
Q. i met this guy a while ago, but didn't think I'd ever see him again. The other night I bumped into him, and he invited me into his house. We ended up kissing after a couple of hours, and exchanged numbers. He said things like 'when are we going to ...
A. 25 April 2009: Text him.
"I'll be away for a couple of weeks and won't be able to see you, but it would be great to keep in touch by phone. TB."
That should provoke some sort of reaction, and you will know where you stand.
Also, less embarrassing, texting, if ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher have feelings for me?
Q. Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...
A. 25 April 2009: Are you the only one he regards in this way, or one of many? If one of many, it won't be long before he gets discovered and lose his job, or arrested. Or both. If, as I think from your writings, it is only towards you that he has these feelings a... (read in full...)
"Boys don't work like that!!!"
Q. My boyfriend and I spend a lot of time snuggling and we haven't seen each other for the last week so I asked him if he was missing our cuddles and he said boys don't work like that. Is that right or am I overthinking things and being worried for no ...
A. 24 April 2009: Excellent, Emily. I was going to respond...."No, BOYS don't, but men do" as I read the posting, but your answer is perfect. Picking up on what Uncle Phil said, I'm not in full agreement there. I was definitely not love as a child - never knew cuddl... (read in full...)
Funk on the chunk
Q. I'm supposed to go down on my boyfriend tonight and I don't want to. The first and only time I did it, I decided it should be the last. I've had other boyfriends and had no problem doing it, actually I liked it. But my boyfriend is uncut and there ...
A. 24 April 2009: I agree with all that has been said, but I have an additional worry. If he has a problem other than poor hygiene, not only is he potentially putting HIS health at risk, but in expecting you to lick, suck and likely ingest nasty things, who knows ... (read in full...)
I like older guys because guys my age are too immature
Q. Is it normal for a 14 year old girl to like older guys? Like all the boys my age are so imature!!! They get on my nerves! So I like some of my male teacher but the 1's i like, flirted with me 1st so I just do it back to them. The boys my age are so ...
A. 23 April 2009: Be careful with any "flirty" (ie disguised sexual) relationships with your teachers; he could lose his job and you are under-age anyway.
I agree that boys take longer to mature - some of us never grow up!
What are you looking for with these ol... (read in full...)
My boyfriend won't talk to me because I refuse to have sex, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex and I dont because hes not willing to wear a condom. If we're alone he'll pull me close, kiss me we usually start to make out and take off our (just a shirt or something) clothes and he'll try to remove my bra (Im ...
A. 23 April 2009: If you let him back into your life, the abuse will just start all over again before the flowers have even wilted.
Close that door and keep it closed; there is someone out there who is worthy of you and will respect you.
He doesn't love you, by ... (read in full...)
Does the areola size really matter?
Q. ok so heres the thing, im happy with my body and i like how things are portioned overall but theres one problem. My breasts are a 36C and i like the size but my areola [the part around my nipple] on them are like 2 inches and kinda dark sometimes ...
A. 22 April 2009: Oh, you don't know how lucky you are! Your areolae define your boobs and are just perfect - large and dark, what man could want more? And as has already been pointed out, so sensitive.
If you are concerned about nipple size (don't be: so long as t... (read in full...)
Sex life is great but she doesn't like foreplay!
Q. me and my girlfriend have an issue, i wouldnt call i a problem as we still haev an active and enjoyable sex life. the problem is foreplay when we are kissing sometimes i like to play with her tits and maybe even finger her pussy to get her turne...
A. 22 April 2009: It takes all sorts, in this strange world of ours. I suppose from your point of view, it is odd and maybe you have never had a partner who doesn't like to touch you there, but it isn't THAT rare when you consider how many women there are in the worl... (read in full...)
Question for the guys: How long do I wait to give him a blowjob.
Q. Ok so for sex, you wait about 4-8 months if you are looking for something serious. Hopefully by that time you have developed a close attachment to where the sex would add to the relationship. What about for oral and other kinky acts?? Do yo wait...
A. 30 March 2009: Kelly is quite right.
Where on earth did you get this timetable idea from?
As for putting out, as you call it; that's no way to view a relationship.
It should be something you both want and enjoy, not something you choose to offer and him to earn.... (read in full...)
Can you please give a few ideas on how can I tell this man about my feelings
Q. Hello, There is a guy at my workplace who really pleases me a lot. I think I have a big crush on him. The problem is that I don't know how to express my feelings for him, he is a difficult person to approach, he is a distant person. Everytime ...
A. 19 March 2009: Just sex, is it?
If that is your only motivation here, I urge caution: relationships in the workplace are fraught with hazard.
If and when they go wrong, or end, you have a very awkward situation, not only between yourselves but within the company,... (read in full...)
My fault she's pregnant...
Q. I recently found out my bf of 1 year has gotten another girl pregnant while seeing me. The child is 2 months old, I do not know what to do, he said that he was drunk. My bf is 15 and I am 14. This is my fault, I said that I wouldn't have sex with...
A. 18 March 2009: This BOY is an absolute arse! Listen to the good advice from the other answerers; he is using you and then blaming you for his own bad behaviour. He will never get any better, likely worse, and is not good news for you. If you MUST have sex at you... (read in full...)
Chasing pavements...
Q. Does anyone know or got their own meanings on what "chasing pavements" means? I would like to know others views on this thanks....
A. 18 March 2009: God, that's an old expression! It refers to any futile activity; like a dog chasing it's own tail. It's also a song by Adele. Harry.... (read in full...)
He says he loves me as a mate
Q. ok im so confused. Theres a lad whos a mate of mine that seems to have some sort of problem in talking to me... i don't know why its so weird. Like if we are alone at college in a morning before other people will get there he'll probably talk for...
A. 16 March 2009: Boys, and even some men, get tongue-tied and ill at ease with women they fancy, especially in front of their mates - they don't want them knowing how much they really care, because they'll be afraid of having the p**s taken out of them by their ... (read in full...)
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