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writes:For the past several months, I have had an ongoing "thing" going with a fellow colleague. We are both Senior Managers, both married, and yet whenever we meet, there is a clear spark. The way he looks at me is unsettling, and I find myself also giving him very suggestive looks. It is hard for me to imagine that this feeling is one-way, the looks and electricity are too intense. My marriage is pretty empty and my husband incredibly neglectful. Anyhow, my colleague and I are going away together this week on a business trip to New York (other colleagues will also be there). Our trip is Wednesday with a return on Thursday. I just found out that my colleague will be traveling back to NY on Friday with his wife for a pre-arranged birthday trip. Is there any point in trying to use these two days alone to see if there is anything more to our collegial relationship?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 September 2010):
Go home to your husband and tell you need to work the marriage out, or you'll leave. As for this other married guy, why do it? You'll only ruin your reputation as a decent woman who is honest, and that neglectful husband of yours will come out of your marriage smelling or roses blaming you for it's breakdown.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (27 September 2010):
 No. Do not pursue it.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 September 2010):
 Nope, no point at all.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (27 September 2010):
 No this spells trouble and its not fair on your husband or his wife, if your husband is being neglectful then that is your problem dont try and come in between another marriage that could be a perfectly happy home. If your husband is treating you badly then leave him but dont use this as an excuse as this would only make you a worse person than your husband if you are not happy with him leave him but dont start trying to get with married men.
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