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writes:Need advice on a three way relationship. I am a straight guy dating a now bi girl, another girl came into our life and we both took her into our relationship. Only she's more gay than bi so her and my gf spend a lot more time together than I do with either of them. We Still all have fun sexualy though my gf has put a few boundaries on me when it comes to sex with the new girl, even tho they have none. And last night they were skypeing and sexting, things I haven't done with either of them for a long time. I guess I just want to know what others think about my situation, and if they have any advice, because I feel like I'm loseing both of them Instead of having two girls. Reply to this Question
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reader, grymsoul +, writes (29 March 2012):
 I would have to agree with iAmHereToHelpYou.
It must have sounded great on paper or even in words. Two girlfriends, no boundaries, right? You can't cheat if they both agree to share you, right? I bet you didn't think about them taking off with eachother. Have you thought about the reason why she sets boundaries with you and her but not with herself and the other girl? It's because she's falling for the other girl. She doesn't want you to get in the way of that so she's slowly kicking you off the wagon. Pretty soon it's going to be just the two of them.
It's hard enough trying to make one relationship between two people work, but three? Oh boy, you sure did invite the fox into the hen house. I'm sorry to say but you are losing her. She found herself a new toy and it probably identifies with her more than you did. I mean, they're both girls AND gay. Without realizing it they suckered you into thinking that your luck was great. Now you can clearly see who's the one holding the four leaf clover.
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