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... Send *ranny1297 a private message | | | *ranny1297's profile:Hey, my nikname is Franny, im 16t is a bit young to be an agony aunt, but im a great adviser, and can manly help out with teen, home, dating, crushes, friends, family problems as i have experienced all. I am great with babies, toddlers and little kids . My desired job is to be a teacher. I even help out my friends at school when they have a problem and i give the best advice i could.
Sometimes i do have problems of my own and come to dearcupid for help, when im truly stuck. I take that advice on board and use it when other people need the same kind of help. I may be young but i have experienced more than anyone could think.
.NEVER trust a lier, they will lie again and again, if you don't tust them there's a reason for it, LISTEN to it.
.We all have a conscience and instincts, listen to them because your conscience is always good.
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My wife wants to get a house, but she won't help pay!
Q. I have questoin my wife want to get a house and ther is only one income i take care of all the bills as it IS. I tell her she need to helppáy for a house but she dont wont to help ...
A. 1 February 2013: Striaght up tell her that you will not get the house if she doesn't do her part, if you do end up paying it all, then warn her that you will not spend a penny on her and that she will do the house work. if this doesn't happen then warn her again ... (read in full...)
I think my crush hates me
Q. well, in primary school, now that i think of it, my crush really really really liked me. we don't go to the same high school now, but we kept in contact on facebook a year later, we used to talk,it would be smileys and hi's and stuff like that. now ...
A. 9 January 2013: Thanks soo much, i just wanted an answer :)... (read in full...)
Should I be worried that my crush might like this other girl?
Q. this guy I like and this girl are really close. they joke and kidd and talk with each other alot. there is quite a slight age gap but he has had a crush on someone a little older before. Sometimes if I see them both online it's like they talk back ...
A. 1 January 2013: 'let him go, if he comes back he was yours, if he didn't he never was' think about it, if two people are happy together leave them, i know crushes are difficult but you must find a way to stop crushing on him, the other girl might even be close to ... (read in full...)
Has anyone else had a back brace for scoliosis? I need one but I'm worried. What is the procedure?
Q. hi, i need to get a back brace for my scoliosis and i've been told by many others that when they take a mould of your back to make the brace, they will ask you to take your clothes off and only stand their in only your underwear and nothing else. p...
A. 30 December 2012: Thank you everyone! :D xxxxxx... (read in full...)
Friend or more? Is she playing games with me to get me interested?
Q. So there is this girl I've been liking for a while. Her friends tease her with me and she acts casual about it, some times she continues the joke herself. As of recent, another guy seems to be interested in her and she's nice to him and speaks to h...
A. 28 December 2012: she's probably just playing around with you, playing hard to get, or knows you like her but just likes to feel control and have power over you,there could be a slight chance she's trying to make you jealous. if i were you i would straight up ... (read in full...)
Why can't I ejaculate when I'm with girls?
Q. Hi all, Just a quick question that has been bothering me for some time now. Ive slept with around 12 girls, mixture or sober and drunken experiences as you would expect, but only one of these girls has ever been able to make me ejaculate. Ha...
A. 10 December 2012: try lots of foreplay, while that, think of things that get you horny.... (read in full...)
I can't stop thinking about a teacher I used to have a crush on. How can I forget him and move on?
Q. So I'm 19, in my second year of university and in a succesful and happy long term relationship. However, I cannot seem to forget about the teacher I had a massive crush (I used to think it was love but now I'm a little older I'm not so sure) on from ...
A. 4 December 2012: yes, e-mailing him would definatly help. you don't have to have a serious love relationship with him. you could just be friends, just...friends. besides your over 18 arn't you, it's not illigal anymore to have a friendship with a teacher. i don't ... (read in full...)
GIrls: Do you like hairy guys?
Q. Hi This question is for mostly for girls. Do you find attractive "hairy men"(hope you understand), who has hair in chest,back and legs,or maybe you will dump them.Also do you think guys with classic beard are attractive, even I think this depen...
A. 3 December 2012: facial hair - definatly not, shave it all
back hair - some hair, but not too hairy.
chest hair - a little
pubic hair - a little, keep it trimed... (read in full...)
Why is she ignoring me and should I talk to her about it?
Q. I have a problem with a friend. So I am still in high school so i met this new amazing girl and in so little time we got to know each other alot in a week we are already calling each other and it turns out that she has a boyfriend and she calls me ...
A. 3 December 2012: ahh im a girl myself, if i was in a relationship with someone i loved, i wouldn't want to hurt that person by risking cheating, hurting that person emotionally ect. she might like you alot, but she doesn't want to break up with someone she loves, ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, am I ready for sex?
Q. I am a 14 year old girl...i am from india...the question i want to ask is that am i ready for sex?...i know this guy since 8 months..we are pretty much good friends...we share everything with eachother..no secrets...he wants to have sex with me...so ...
A. 28 November 2012: yes, it's hormones. don't have sex you are too young. most people take their virginity for granted, BUT, once you lose it to a man you'll never have it again. wait till your married, older, and more mature. you can get pregnant even with a condom ... (read in full...)
How do I get girls to dance with me?
Q. Hello, I have got out of a 4 year relation ship about a year ago and trying to get back out in the dating field or at least the meeting women field but I seem to have the hardest time getting a girl to dance with me at a club or talk to one at a...
A. 26 November 2012: hey, im a girl. if your at a public place, look around for a girl how seems nice, fun, gorgeous, and an optomistic person but not slutty. look at them (not stare), once they look at you hold eye contact for two seconds only then smile in a cute way ... (read in full...)
I feel frightened when I talk to girls!
Q. When I get closer to girls I feel so frustrated. and even when I talk to them I feel the same. I just ignore girls, I loss the confidence to talk girls. What's wrong with me? ...
A. 26 November 2012: aawww don't worry us girls find it cute. anyway, try becoming friends with a girl you might know. there's things on the internet that will tell you how. You have to force yourself to come out of your shell, if you planned on getting married,... (read in full...)
Should I get a second ear piercing?
Q. i want to get a second ear piercing because i think they are cute and catchy. i just really like them and almost obsessed with them. it's just whenever i want to go and get a second piercing i always wonder if it would ruin my ear, as i've always ...
A. 14 November 2012: Thanks everyone! :P... (read in full...)
Dont know what all that really meant. Does she like me?
Q. First of all, she is my crush. I have only spoke to her just 3 times. On the 3 occasions, i had ti start the conversation. Even though the 3 conversations only lasted a couple of seconds, they all did end nicely In lesson she forgot to bring ...
A. 9 November 2012: hi, there could be a chance that she likes you, a good chance. because you like her, you could show her signs that you like her back like glancing/holding eye contact etc. it's worth a try, and im a girl myself :) . here are some tips: Spend time ... (read in full...)
My crush ignores me all the time, it's frustrating and I want to know why!!???
Q. why would my crush ignore me, when we talk it's always good. i don't really talk to him anymore, he ignores me, he wont talk to me. i makes me think im not good enough for him, or im too ugly and that there are other prettier girls out there, i've ...
A. 9 November 2012: Thanks xxx... (read in full...)
Does she like me?
Q. Hi,i'm a 15 year old guy and there's this girl at school i like and i think she likes me. We've been locking eyes for a month now,but never for over a second.We have 3 classes together and i haven't spoke to her yet. I've been in a group with her...
A. 6 November 2012: hiyya, im a girl. sounds like this girl might like you, i suggest go talk to her. after all this happening between you guys she might like it if you talk to her. dosn't matter if she's a bit taller than you. i once liked someone that was a bit ... (read in full...)
Our first Kiss. What's the best time in a school setting to kiss her?
Q. Hi all. I've been dating my girlfriend for about two weeks now, we have told each other that if one or both of us is uncomfortable with the speed we are taking the relationship at, then we tell the other. So far, so good. We get along great, s...
A. 26 October 2012: take her to the park, your place or some place where no-one will see you, get her to really like you. edge close to her up your arm round her and when you feel like it's the right moment look deep into her eyes and kiss her. done.
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I have to have surgery and I'm afraid
Q. im really really really scared about my scoliosis surgery i have the feeling im going to die or something will go wrong, or i will be paralysed forever. what is the chance something will go wrong? is it as bad as i think it is? i don't like the i...
A. 24 October 2012: Thanks everyone you all made me feel better. wish me luck!... (read in full...)
Claim to be my friends. Make plans in front of me. Then exclude me. What can I do about this?
Q. i hate them all!!! you have no idea!! first off they're always make plans without me, and really cool interesting plans every week which really irritates me. they plan then out loud in front of my face and block me out the whole group, the w...
A. 20 October 2012: aunt honesty, what if i say that and they just say to my face that they don't like me. they would all start laughing at me and i would look like a complete idiot.
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Could my crush be hinting about things?
Q. me and my crush hugged, face to face, my arms around his neck and his hands on my bum, does it mean anything?. we r quite close, we joke about, hug allot, he squeezes my bum, we wait for each other after classes and talk all the time, he admitting ...
A. 19 October 2012: yes yes yes, you've got him, chances are he likes you, don't ask him out, take the process slowly, first try asking him of he wants to come over to your place or to the park, shopping centre, chill etc. but just act normal just like your friends, ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to stop my period even though I'm already spotting?
Q. Hi, I'm currently using the Nuvaring for birth control and started spotting this morning. It's brown and only shows up when wiping, which is typical for when I'm at the end of my period, but I'm thinking it could just be old blood since I didn't h...
A. 12 October 2012: i don't think there is, and i there is it's not a good idea. it's healthier if you just don't use anything and continue just using pads it's easier. you know.... (read in full...)
Does first time sex really hurt?
Q. Hiiiiiii everyone..my question is does sex really hurts for the first time..i was talking with my bf on this topic nd he told me that it hurts..i have never ever done sex..nd when i try to insert my finger in vagina it hurts like hell i cant insert ...
A. 12 October 2012: yes i agree with the above comment. however another reason why sex hurts for the first time because you have a thin layer of skin that covers the vagina on the inside, that has a small hole in it to alow period blood through. when that breaks only ... (read in full...)
Is she trying to bully me? This girl make my life a misery at school. What can I do?
Q. ok, so there's this girl at school who hangs out with us in our group, she's shorter than me but she's a real ****h. she always makes fun of my name, she greets me with a really embarrasing and mean insult. She makes fun of my past (which i don't kn...
A. 7 October 2012: Thanks everyone, this bitch is going down once and for all.
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I want to ask her out. Should I? What would be the best way to do this?
Q. Hi I've been talking to this girl online and we get on really well. I met her for the first time lat night with 3 of her guy friends. the guys seem nice and the girl i've spoke to is really nice too we got on instantly and she is very pretty too....
A. 6 October 2012: you are probably afraid of rejection. girls love being asked out, depending on the type of guy. you two must have really hit it off and got along. you said she was nice, if she is nice then if you ask her out but she says no she will be kind about ... (read in full...)
My husband is constantly putting me down.
Q. My husband who is in denial has been putting me down for years for one reason or another. I will point it out to him as he is doing but he sees NOTHING wrong with it. I have question his love for me, but im so sure that he is NOT nor has ever lov...
A. 4 October 2012: he doesn't love you. this is an abusive relationship. he's cheated on you. he puts you down. he makes you life a misery to live in. and he is not sorry for what he has done, draining you out like this adding his repuslive no-good insults. you are ... (read in full...)
I no longer know if I want to get married. So how do I bring up the subject to him?
Q. I found out my boyfriend has been looking up engagement rings lately. Im happy and flattered. We talked about marriage before and i used to be excited about it. I love him very much and i know he loves me. We have had our trials but we have gott...
A. 3 October 2012: Marriage is a big step in life just because you heard that your mum's friend got divorced after being married for 20yrs+ doesn't mean it will happen to you. Also it's a normal thing to feel nervous? anxious? akward? things will go wrong? the feeling ... (read in full...)
Should I confront him about what he is looking at on the computer?
Q. My husband and I recently just got married a little over 2 months ago, but have been together for over 3 years now. We just moved into our first place together and are getting adjusted to living together. For about the past week now though, I have ...
A. 2 October 2012: hey look it's only early days and he still trying to settle in. besides, how is you sex life. he might want to start having sex with you and make a child, but is to nervous to ask so he is (probably) getting his sexual tension out. the majority of ... (read in full...)
What can I do to make my teacher like me again and prove her wrong?
Q. ok so im in year 9 and i didn't do my homework for the second time. My teacher got really really angry with my and said, "are you trying to make my life impossible!!!!!" i felt really bad. at the end of the lesson, she kept me behind and started ...
A. 23 September 2012: thanks everyone :P... (read in full...)
I am having a serious clash with my boyfriend and I'm looking for some advice please.
Q. I am having a serious clash with my boyfriend and I'm looking for some advice please. I was raped about 7 years ago. It was very brutal (the guy was on a lot of drugs and had a knife) and it took me a long time to get myself back on track and ...
A. 11 September 2012: look honey, you love him right? if he loved you he would stop this, or at least tried. Tell him to try and quit. Besides smoking weed isn't good for him either. Tell him that if he doesn't stop he's not going to be with you anymore because clearly ... (read in full...)
Every time my g/f talks about her past I get pissed off
Q. Let me start off with introductions.My girlfriend and I have been together for like 3 months already. But we have known each other for 3 years already,took us long before we really bonded since we didn't really talk in the past. Well doesn't matter. ...
A. 6 September 2012: hi, you really love her right? stay with her. she shouldn't be talking about her ex, because of what's happening now. tell her that you really love her but you don't like it when she talks about her ex because she's in a new relationship and you ... (read in full...)
Is shyness a sign of interest?
Q. What is the meaning if the girl cannot look in your eyes or she is feeling awkward when you are talking to each other? she knows that I like her since 4 years ago but im shy so i cant show it to her. Only now im trying to talk to her. Is being ...
A. 5 September 2012: She probs likes you be nice gental and sweet to her. But DON'T be fake. NEVER be fake it will only ruin your chances. As for me i am a shy person to. She may just have a low self esteem about her self give it a try.... (read in full...)
He told me to repair my behavior or he wouldn't call anymore. He still hasn't called!
Q. 3 days were gone and he didnt call me , A year we are together never apart from telephone and calls, every time sayed to each other Ilove you and miss you , and qe really do, I think I have done e little mistake to telling him in the phone , I was ...
A. 5 September 2012: Honey listen up he probably isn't interested anymore. Have you told him you won't have sex? if so this could be it. He could be cheating on you . . . or he might just be busy with life. Whatever it is, confront him. Turn up at his door and ask him ... (read in full...)
How do I stop teacher from having a crush on me?
Q. hey all i need this site very important like me z story goes like this... Hellu is my teacher she is a little older zan me.she has a husband and a child despite z fact that she has a crash on me and has been calling and texting me till today. Even ...
A. 5 September 2012: dear anonymouse, don't block her just delete her, and tell her you did it because you felt very unconfortable that she likes you, and don't wish to have a relationship with a teacher in this kind of way. Just tell her she's human like you and will... (read in full...)
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