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*ranny1297
writes:well, in primary school, now that i think of it, my crush really really really liked me. we don't go to the same high school now, but we kept in contact on facebook a year later, we used to talk,it would be smileys and hi's and stuff like that. now i like him then all of a sudden he stopped talking to me, even started ignoring me so much, it seemed as if i was a complete ghost to him, if i comment on something he literaly ignores everything. it was his birthday a month ago, and i posted happy birthday on his timeine on facebook, i just went back on his profile again (not stalking!!) and only my happy birthday post was not there, really it was gone, and everyone elses post was there. is he trying ti block me out of his life. im not even asking much, just even be his friend. i don't care i just want to know what's up with him? im shy by the way, so i would be really shy to just sriaght up tell him anything. what should i do, what is he doing, why is this happening???
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reader, franny1297 +, writes (9 January 2013):
franny1297 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks soo much, i just wanted an answer :)
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (9 January 2013):
 In primary school, relationships between boys and girls are very innocent and easy going. The awkwardness comes in when puberty hits. Usually girls mature faster than boys. You went to different schools and grew apart. Some people don't see a point in continuing friendship when there are plenty of friends to be made in the same school. Your crush did not know how to deal with you after he learned that you liked him. He thought by ignoring your messages you would get the hint that he was not interested. When you sent him a happy birthday message he felt uncomfortable so he deleted it. If he replies he worries he will be leading you on. He also doesn't want to hurt your feelings directly by telling the truth. Again he hopes that by ignoring it the thought of you would go away. It's not that he hates you. You don't have to take this personally. You should focus on people at your school. Maybe someone is crushing on you too.
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