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Dont know what all that really meant. Does she like me?

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Question - (6 November 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 9 November 2012)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, *entarif99 writes:

First of all, she is my crush. I have only spoke to her just 3 times. On the 3 occasions, i had ti start the conversation. Even though the 3 conversations only lasted a couple of seconds, they all did end nicely

In lesson she forgot to bring her notes from last lesson. She looked at me and said is 'that your notes from last lesson?' I said it was. She asked if she could read it. She held my paper in her hands. Im sure she was not really reading it. I asked her where her notes were. She looked completly at me and said, she left it at home. Why did'nt she just ask the girl next to her? Yes, she has been lately giving me stares/glances/holding eye contact etc

The teacher said something funny. Again, it look as if she was not really reading my notes. Then she placed it back by me and said friendly, "can't be bothered to read it".

Dont know what all that really meant.

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A female reader, franny1297 United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2012):

franny1297 agony aunthi, there could be a chance that she likes you, a good chance. because you like her, you could show her signs that you like her back like glancing/holding eye contact etc. it's worth a try, and im a girl myself :) . here are some tips: Spend time with her before assuming anything. It's important to get to know her better and to give her the chance to get to know you too. Find a shared activity, like a sport, a hobby, a club, or even just hanging around chatting during lunch hour so that you can simply be around one another long enough to get the vibe.

you can tell through her body language:

She will seem to stand taller, pull her shoulders back, and pull her stomach in.[1]

You'll see her licking her lips, touching her neck or lifting her head so that more of her neck is exposed.

She may lean toward you more, or move closer to you. She might lean in to whisper as an excuse to get closer.

Flared nostrils can be a sign of interest, although this might be hard to detect without looking a little too interested in her nose!

She might start playing with her hair and wiping imaginary dust off your clothes.

Look for the blush; that's a fairly good sign she's keen on you.

Watch for her touching you and mirroring your movements. These are signs too that she's interested.[2]

If she looks down at the ground, it may mean that she is shy and nervous to make eye contact.

Take a moment during class, after studies, or whenever she's around to check out where she's looking. If she's watching you or looks at you and then quickly looks away when she spots that you've seen her, she's interested. These little glances mean that she's thinking about you, a lot. Focusing her view on you is a great sign of interest.

Avoid showing embarrassment about catching her glancing at you. That is the last thing she'd want to make you feel and in turn this would make her feel embarrassed. Act naturally, smile and look away to give her the space to recover.

Be wary if she is staring at you but not smiling, ever. This means she is not interested in you; either she is daydreaming or she's having thoughts about how to get you back for a slight she considers you've committed toward her. No smile at all means you're doing something wrong.

look for signs such as her being bubblier, quieter, or somehow different from her usual self when she's around you. Such changes indicate nervousness in your vicinity and this nervousness is a sign she has a crush on you.

Strike up a conversation about things that she is interested in.

Does she talk to you more than she talks to other people (anybody not obviously a friend)? If she's usually not extremely talkative, and usually waits for someone else to start a conversation, it's a good sign for you! It means she's trying hard to gain your attention.

Pluck up the courage and tell her that you like her. Don't beat yourself up if she says no. Sometimes you'll get all the signals because a girl is naturally flirty with everyone. She isn't doing it to be mean, it's just who she is and you'll need to keep looking.

bit long but hope it helps xx

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