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Very confused by his mixed messages

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Question - (24 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I don't really know what to do or how to feel. There's this guy at my school who I really like. I think he likes me too, but I am confused because he sends me mixed messages. Sometimes he's really friendly and wants to be close to me a lot, but sometimes he's very quiet and he hardly says a word to me.

The other day, completely out of the blue, he asked if he could kiss me. Normally, I would have done it in an instant, but he had been in one of his weird introverted moods lately and I felt kind of funny about kissing him.

Now I regret that I didn't, because I really do like him. What should I do? What does he think of me? I'm very confused. Thanks for your help?

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A female reader, Emaz help United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

Emaz help agony auntAt this very moment in time, i feel the same with a boi i've liked for over a year!

And to be honest i haven't got a clue what to do!

Boiz r weird these days, it sounds as if he may like you, and it's kinda of good in a way that you didn't let into him, and kiss him, i think you should find out if he actually likes you before you do anything.

Juat ask him, is my advice!

If he doesn't like u then trust me, it's not the end of the world

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A female reader, Emj85 United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

Emj85 agony auntHiya hunny, have you known this guy quite a while? It sounds like he may be shy at showing if he likes you or not, then again on the other hand, he might only be after what he can get. If hes being moody, he cant be that interested. I went out on what I thought was a date and the guy ended up going to put his hand up my top!!! Just be careful, get to know him a bit better before you start letting him be intimate like kissing you, your first kiss should be shared with someone you trust and like and who likes and respects you back. Take it slow hunny, if he likes you he might ask you out, enjoy being friends and dont do anything you dont feel comfortable with - as i say just be careful that hes not only after all he can get. Good luck chick, hope this helps x

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