Why do people think its okay to berate women who sleep with married men?
Q. I'm so fed up reading people taking the moral high ground on every topic, especially that of married cheats and 'home wreckers' There is so much contraversy surrounding cheating at the moment on this site and I would like to express my views as...
A. 17 August 2011: as a man i have never cheated. I have also never entered into a relationship with someone who is in a relationship. I am 100% loyal to any partner i am with. As any person in a relationship should be. If your even thinking of looking else where you ... (read in full...)
My gf is really not reassuring me!
Q. My girlfriend is not reassuring me! She deletes stuff from her phone, deletes messages. When asked why, she tells me because she doesn't want me to know, or she doesn't want me to overreact. But... she does not seem to be doing an effort to reassure ...
A. 12 August 2011: if she Cant be honest with you and is hiding stuff like that talk to her about it. If she is still doing it after your chat leave her and save yourself the heart ache.... (read in full...)
My inexperienced boyfriend has a small penis. How do I improve our sex life? HELP
Q. Hello, aunts and uncles. Any advice or suggestions is well appreciated. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few months. We have been becoming increasingly more intimate over the past few weeks. He is 21 and was, until tonight, a virgi...
A. 12 August 2011: it was his first time. He was probably nervous give him time. Next time pamper him a bit so that he relaxes and is not nervous. Being new to it all he Will be open to ideas so if you want more stimulation get him to try oral on you before you have ... (read in full...)
I'm scared this girl is too perfect!
Q. I’m seeing this girl who is the most incredible person I’ve ever met!! But I think she is too perfect and too good to be true that i'm skeptical whether to carry on seeing her. Guys what do you think… She is so beautiful, knock out figure, grea...
A. 8 August 2011: if she is too good to be true count yourself lucky and get to know her. Give it 4 or 6 months together as after that amount of time people tend to relax and you should by then know the real her.
No one is perfect everyone has there flaws. If your... (read in full...)
I've got a girlfriend but I miss my ex SO MUCH
Q. I have a girlfriend at the moment, but that isnt the problem. The problem seems to be that I have been very depressed lately over my ex, I have been dating my girlfriend that I have now for 5 months or so.. and my ex... I miss her dearly. we ...
A. 4 August 2011: either forget your ex or leave your girlfriend. Im sure she does not want to be second best.... (read in full...)
Am I just helping her back to health so she can go on to meet someone new?
Q. I have talked about my situation before but will give a bit of context. My ex left me 5 months ago for another man claiming that although she was still in love with me she had major issues with my family, especially my mother, ex-wife and daughter ...
A. 4 August 2011: yes she is. Your like me the sort of guy that no matter what someone has done to you, you will be there and support them. Dont get your hopes up. Your familia she knows you and that she is safe with you. She also knows you will support her when ... (read in full...)
Could I only be considered beautiful if I were white?
Q. Is white beauty the 'ideal'? I'm brown skinned, black haired asian female and I'm getting a bit disillusioned about being brown. Blonde hair, thin lips, blue eyes and all that is meant to be the 'ideal' of beauty and quite frankly without gouging ...
A. 4 August 2011: to me it sounds like you have lost your self confidence. Your skin color, hair color, race etc does not matter. Its who you are as a human being that matters. I have dated many different women for all sorts of different backgrounds i have never ... (read in full...)
I am so lost it's unreal. IDK what my current bf will think. Should I just tell him?
Q. OK guys i have a problem. So I am currently in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful soldier man. I love him dearly and feel safe with him. He caught me and held me after my ex dumped me and was with me through all the crap my ex pulled after ...
A. 2 August 2011: you dont even have to tell him anything cut him off completely and keep it that way.... (read in full...)
Why did I have these problems with my first time?
Q. A few words before i start my story: 1) i got to warn you that this post is going to get graphical! 2) i have a lot of doubts , its going to be a long text i'm 22 yo , male, and i was a virgin until yesterday, i went out and hooked up ...
A. 1 August 2011: its probably just because you was nervous. If you get together with her again. Tell her your nervous and just relax make it fun and take it slow.
As far as condoms go i used to use some called feather light. They give you a lot more feeling. Or if y... (read in full...)
I am so lost it's unreal. IDK what my current bf will think. Should I just tell him?
Q. OK guys i have a problem. So I am currently in a wonderful relationship with a wonderful soldier man. I love him dearly and feel safe with him. He caught me and held me after my ex dumped me and was with me through all the crap my ex pulled after ...
A. 1 August 2011: if you love the man your with cut communication with your ex. Especially as the ex caused problems in the past. The guy is your ex for a reason remember that and let him go.... (read in full...)
Why do guys have sex on the first date and then think the woman is a slut?
Q. I met this guy about a month ago, and we were having a nice time watching TV and we held hands, not sure if we were attracted to each other and then we moved to the bedroom and started foreplay which was okay, and then he stopped and said "sorry, ...
A. 14 July 2011: my opinion is its your body do what your happy to do with it. I have been with people i have slept with on the 1st date and some its taken months to happen. I dont think any less of the person. To me what matters is who the person is as a whole. If ... (read in full...)
Stuck in no-man's land between together and broken up
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together nearly 2 years. It has not been a smooth ride - I cheated on him 6 months into the relationship but he decided he wanted to stay together and work through it. We currently live together, but for a long time now ...
A. 12 July 2011: you cheated on him in the past and later now are springing this on him. Make your decision and stick to it. He deserves better. He deserves to give his love to someone that will love him in return.... (read in full...)
Going out with a great guy, but I have liked this other guy for 2 years! What should I do?
Q. Okay well i like this guy ive known for a bit over 2 years and he knew i liked him for a while. he thinks i got over him and i went to the easter show with him his friend and my best friend we had such a great time, he told my bestfriend he had ...
A. 12 July 2011: i feel sorry for the guy your with as i know only too well what its like to be in his position.... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex 4 times a day?
Q. This is the second man I've ever slept with. My husband and I had sex four times a week tops during our whole marriage. This man and I have sex more than four times a DAY if we can. I just want to know if it's normal or if it means he only wa...
A. 10 July 2011: there is nothing wrong with 4 times a day. It will slow down after time.
As for thinking of your husband well for that if he is into you i feel sorry for him. Thats not a good sign in my book. Clear your mind and have him for who he is or let him ... (read in full...)
What do guys prefer?
Q. Do guys who normally prefer the "bimbo" look on girls (meaning bleached or dyed long hair, tanned skin, skinny, revealing clothing,) also like "average" girls or not so much? ...
A. 17 June 2011: i like the natural classy look. Wear cloths that look sexy but dont show everything off. Save the rest for a special person in your life to see.
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Will my stretchmarks put him off me?
Q. My long-term boyfriend and I are so in love. We are truly made for each other and we're planning to sleep together for the first time. There's just one problem, I've lost a lot of weight as I was extremely overweight a few years ago, and now I have ...
A. 15 June 2011: if he loves you, you will be fine. Tell him your worried about it so he realizes why. He will love every little bit of you Im sure :-)... (read in full...)
Still living with my ex, and have met someone new. Should I have sex with him? Will I regret it?
Q. Me and my boyfriend of 6 years have split up but we are currently still living together as I dont want to chuck him out as we have a son, he is moving out in the next month. I love him with all my heart but, It wasnt working as he has anger issues ...
A. 15 June 2011: if you are completely over your partner you will be ok. If not you might feel bad or confused after.
My current gf and myself had a simular start and for via reason i insisted that at the start we did not have sex. We just laid next to each othe... (read in full...)
How do you know when you're ready to move in with your girl/boyfriend?
Q. How long do couples date usually before moving in together?...
A. 24 May 2011: with me it was after two weeks! ... (read in full...)
Should I go blonde because my boyfriend prefers it?
Q. Hello Everyone, Me and my boyfriend were talking the other night about music and we were both watching the video to this song. I said one of the girls in the video was pretty and he said 'Yeah but the blonde is fitter'. I asked him if he likes ...
A. 13 May 2011: dont change your hair. Im sure your lovely as you are and if he loves you he should love you as you are. ... (read in full...)
I cannot have an orgasm my body cant handle it
Q. I can't cum when i reach the point of a orgasim i have to stop my boyfriend as i cant handle the feeling in my body. we brought a vibratour to see if i could do it myself when he wasnt home but still when i reach the point i have to stop cause i ...
A. 8 April 2011: Im a guy and i Actually had the same problem as you. My advise is to just keep going. Once you have allowed yourself to let go and had an orgasm you will not have any worries the next time. Have an evening and spoil yourself. Have a relaxing ... (read in full...)
Men, do you like to kiss the vulva during foreplay?
Q. Are there any men here that like to kiss the vulva during foreplay? If yes, you get a lot of pleasure out of it? When you do, do you give short quick pecks, or longer ones?...
A. 6 April 2011: i love to kiss my girlfriend everywhere. If she is enjoying it im happy too :-)... (read in full...)
Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them?
Q. Do temptations make you a cheater even if you don't give into them? I am very in love with my girlfriend and we have been together since the beginning of 2010. A few months prior when we were "dating" I put myself in a very bad situation. We all ...
A. 6 April 2011: you did not cheat yes you should not have gone in the first place but dont beat yourself up about it. ... (read in full...)
Men what is the right number of times to call?
Q. Men how often would you like for a woman, or your partner, to call you in a day or a week where you would not get aggravated when you two don't live in the same house. Thanks...
A. 6 April 2011: it depends what the situation is. I dont mind however often my girlfriend calls. Obviously dont constantly bother him if he is with friends or family but to know someone is thinking of you is lovely.... (read in full...)
Do men become immune to small fights?
Q. **Sorry to re-post my question but I didn't receive any answers :(** Is it normal for men to become 'immune' to small fights and arguments? My fiance just doesn't seem to care about talking things out, but would rather sweep it under the rug and ...
A. 6 April 2011: my girlfriend also gets mad for no real reason. when she shouts i dont, i stay calm. But one thing i always do is try to get her to talk calmly about why she is upset in first place. My advise to you is next time you know your getting wound up stop.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants us to stay in different rooms for a month!
Q. my girlfriend turned round to me as i was about to get into bed last night and said she wanted us to stay in different rooms and not have sex for a month so she can work herself out and that it wont be a problem if i love her. Someone tell me how i ...
A. 11 March 2011: your right. We do need to talk more. Though getting her to talk is hard. She is not being so affectionate towards me either Im gonna give her some time and see but if things dont improve in a few days i will have to talk again.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend wants us to stay in different rooms for a month!
Q. my girlfriend turned round to me as i was about to get into bed last night and said she wanted us to stay in different rooms and not have sex for a month so she can work herself out and that it wont be a problem if i love her. Someone tell me how i ...
A. 10 March 2011: We sat down last night and talked through everything which seems to have helped. I'm back in bed but have agreed to sick to the no sex bit a month is nothing and our relationship appears fine. Though I still don't quite know why it happened. Am a ... (read in full...)
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