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Is this normal behavior for an ex girlfriend?

Q.   My ex girlfriend told me the other night she had a cry because she missed me even though i know she dating someone. I also have had drunken texts saying she missed me in the past. She dumped me and its been about 8 months since we broke up...

A.   24 March 2011: Is it normal??? Eh, there IS no normal when it comes to relationships that have ended. I would call her on it. Next time it happens, I would text back "What do you want me to do it about that? You dumped me!" and see what she says.... (read in full...)

Is it really wrong to have a relationship with my cousin's cousin?

Q.   Hi, my problem started on new years eve - I was drunk at a family party and my cousins cousin kissed me in the bathroom. Ever since we've been seeing each other and it's the best relationship I could've asked for but people (particularly people ...

A.   24 March 2011: A cousin's cousin, eh? I'm trying to do the math in my head, here... Is there any blood relation at all? Regardless, if you're both happy.. In the end that's all that really matters, right? If you can survive with some family disappro... (read in full...)

Two year relationship on the rocks, time to end it?

Q.   Sorry about the long read; I need help. I've been in a relationship for nearly 2-1/2 years. I love my girlfriend, however, things between us have gotten pretty rough, and last night, she really upset me almost to the point of walking out. ...

A.   24 March 2011: She definitely sounds spoiled and a little immature. Although i think it is fairly common for a lot of people to take a big trip after they graduate as kind of a "spoil themselves" gift... I definitely understand where you're coming from with... (read in full...)

What does my ex's behaviour mean?

Q.   Lately I've been trying to get Over my ex...we went out a year. Three weeks later she had a new bf. Everyone says it's a rebound etc. Today I was talking to a mutual friend who has been hanging around with my ex a lot (My friends and ex live clo...

A.   24 March 2011: ...eh, when a relationship ends, especially one that's gone on for a year or more, things are always weird and confusing. Her asking your friend when you'll be in town next could mean any number of things: She may actually be having regrets ... (read in full...)

Was I out of line for telling ex I don't want to see her again?

Q.   So my girlfriend/now ex-girlfriend broke up with me and started hanging out with a new guy friend of hers that had in the last few weeks made me jealous. I'm not going to make the assumption that they're already having sex but cuddling is a definite ...

A.   23 March 2011: I don't think you were out of line. In fact I feel like this is the natural way for two people who used to date but aren't anymore to behave. I had a girl pull the same stunt on me. I'll be honest with you: it was very painful to see her a... (read in full...)

Do gay guys flirt with straight girls?

Q.   So their is this gay guy i work with and I am head over heels for him. We flirt a lot together, but my friend from work told me that he is gay. Now i am just so confused because he was flirting with me, playing with me, tickling me, hugging ...

A.   23 March 2011: I've known a couple of women who were head over heels for gay men, and felt like maybe they could 'change' their orientation. None of them were ever successful. I remember one gay guy telling me "what do i have to do? Wear a pink tootoo?"... (read in full...)

I confessed to my wife that I went to porn sites and now she doesn't want anything to do with me

Q.   I have problems, my life, sucks and im to blame for it. I messed up the relationship with my wife, and my family. Let me get to the beginning, my wife gave birth of our first and possibly last child a little over a month a go. A boy whome we both ...

A.   23 March 2011: My first question to you would be how often is this porn stuff. I think you're wife needs to be a bit more understanding. Sometimes, after a nice night out, as a man (or woman) your body preps itself for a little something-someth... (read in full...)

I feel I'm wasting my life with my girlfriend, I want to date others

Q.   Hi Cupids. Im really was just wondering what your opinions are, Im twenty and I dont really go out much, because I lost most of my friends because of my girlfriend. Weve been together for five years and really I know I shouldnt have gone back a...

A.   23 March 2011: I would say it sounds like this girl is bad news and you have to let her go. I know it's hard. I had a situation similar to this. I had a girl who i changed EVERYTHING i was as a person for...Isolating myself from friends and family, only get... (read in full...)

Why does this good looking guy at the gym always stare at me?

Q.   The first day when i was joining my gym i noticed this good looking guy who was behind the staff room door just staring at me, it was off putting because i didn't know why they were or even who this guy was!? I thought nothing of it that time rea...

A.   23 March 2011: I think he likes what he sees. If you're interested, try striking up a conversation with him.... (read in full...)

Why does boyfriend keep me a secret from his family?

Q.   Ive being in a relationship for the last 5 months. This isnt an easy relationship as I dont get why my bf never asks me to meet his family. We live really close to each other but he never asks me round his house unless there no one there. This guy ...

A.   23 March 2011: Eh, this is personal experience here: I can tell you that as a guy, i pretty much never introduced my family to my girlfriends until it was incredibly serious. I just was never comfortable talking to them about the girls in my life. I think g... (read in full...)

Can ex's really be friends?

Q.   I cut all contact when my ex boyfriend broke up with me for reasons only known to him, but he asked me when I was ready to contact him because above all our friendship was the most important thing to him. I feel ready to talk to him again, I mis...

A.   7 May 2010: I don't think you can. It just allows for too much potential drama in the future, from a miscommunication in how you really feel to awkwardness with future significant others. Best to cut all ties.... (read in full...)

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