Whenever my boyfriend gets drunk or high he holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. Last night he choked me until I was unconscious... but I love him, it's not his fault.
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and for the first 2 years things were going great but now he hits me whenever he gets drunk or high. Sometimes he even holds me down and forces me to have sex with him. I don't want to leave him ...
A. 6 March 2007: get rid of him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! you dont need shit like that around you things will only get worse hell only get more violent and yeah like the guy at the bottem said bullshit! I know alot of people including some on drugs who have ... (read in full...)
I'm going on holiday next week and will have my period! How can I still go swimming while on my period?
Q. heya well im 13 and im going on holiday next week but ive realised that i will be on my period that week and im worried that its going to ruin the holiday!! As i love going swimming in the pools and on the beaches but does anyone no how i can stil...
A. 5 March 2007: TAMPONS!!!!!!!... (read in full...)
I think I might be gay! How can you tell if you're gay? Realm????
Q. ok.I'm confussed. I might be gay, but I'm not sure. I like always hug boys.......like all the time.....and i had feelings for one once. any ideas?...
A. 5 March 2007: ahh hunny I know how you feel! I'm going through the same problem my self!!!! it could just be that you look up to some of them and stuff I wouldnt worry about it just sit down and think...are you atracted to girls at all? are you bi? just enjoy it! ... (read in full...)
After 3 kids, my body isn't what it used to be and hubby is not as attracted me! What can I do?
Q. I have recently had my third child...and unfortunately my body will never be the same as it was before kids. I have worked out hard and lost all the excess pregnancy weight but still have scars and sags that my doctor says are 'just part of being a ...
A. 5 March 2007: hunny! your beautiful! and I don't think your husband deserves you! (sorry to say that but its true) personally I think he should be really really greatful that you had those kids and not to mention that he has no clue what it feels like to be a ... (read in full...)
My friends tease me because my boyfriend's so young, should I dump him?
Q. Hey, This Sounds Weird But Im 13 Years Old and I have a 10 Year Old Boyfriend.. I Know its Wrong But I really love Him! Everyone is Picking On me at School Because Hes Still at Primary School.. But I dont See Why its Sick cause We havent Kissed or...
A. 5 March 2007: if you break up with him that could be the worst decision, my sister did that and she regreted it dont listen to what they say if you ask me people who do that are just jealous you know? hope this helps! =)... (read in full...)
I am really into my boss who is female and married. I am also female.
Q. i am really into my boss who is female and married and i think she is into me too, i am a female also, how can i tell before i make a fool of myself?...
A. 5 March 2007: nooooooooo if shes married don't do anything! that will only hurt you and a her!
liking some one who is taken is only damaging to the soul believe me!... (read in full...)
My bf's mom and older sister hate me for getting pregnant w/ my guy!! Help!
Q. I am 6 weeks pregnant, and my boyfriend's mom and older sister really hate me. They are angry at my boyfriend for getting me pregnant. ...
A. 3 March 2007: but it says your a male? how does that work?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend just dumped me as I have a big nose!! Im now scared to date again!!!
Q. my boyfriend just dumped me becase i have a big nose. im scared now to go back out into the world and find another man incase he doesnt like my big nose. what shall i do signed bignose...
A. 2 March 2007: oh for goodness sakes! your last boyfriend abouslty has some self esteem isuess him self to be saying that.
just get back out there im pretty sure your ex was talking shit and i know that when some one says something like that even if its not true... (read in full...)
How do I know if my hymen is broken??
Q. Heya, Im 12 and have already had periods. I started in year 7 and im perfectly used to them. But sometimes, my period comes when im planning to go swimming..im fine with the idea of tampons..but i dont think my hymen is broken!! Im scared that if ...
A. 2 March 2007: don't worry! believe me when I first got my period that was the first thing i used just read the instuctions properly and youll be fine ... (read in full...)
What can I get my boyfriend for his 16th birthday?
Q. I've use this site for lots advice with love situations and queries so i may aswell ask my favourite people who give me the best advice. Im 16 and its my boyfriends birthday on the 4th of march and i dnt have a clue what to get him..plus hes really ...
A. 2 March 2007: like chachacha said ask him
either that or make him something
i find that the made gifts are the best! =)
make him something simple like a mixed cd of his favorite band or artist or something you know? ... (read in full...)
He says he doesnt know what he wants out of life or what path to take.. do I just sit and wait till he decides!!?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been living together for nearly 2 years now and have been talking, about our future and the possibility of getting married when we're ready. Everything seemed fine at first, but recently he's had an aggressive tone with me ...
A. 2 March 2007: no don't wait for him thats not fair on you
just get on with life and until he figers out what he wants then maybe something might happen
but if you do wait you may be waiting forever and like i said before thats no fair on you
you gotta move o... (read in full...)
He's too tall for me to kiss him! What should I do?
Q. hi i really wanna kiss my bf! but how? he is about a head taller than me so i cant just go for it cos he is too tall. even if i reach up on tip toes i wouldnt be able to reach to kiss him. we havent kissed yet. how do i make the move and kiss hi...
A. 1 March 2007: you should try siting down and kissing him or wear high shoes or like cd said find something to stand on and kiss him or sit on a counter and pull him towards you ... (read in full...)
He says I'm fat, wants to leave me and wants to have sex with other women... but I love him, what do I do?
Q. hi me and my bf are together for 8years now.a year ago he started to swear at me then he changed alot towards me he got very rude and had a bad temper, he gets angry quickly. He told my yesterday he actually wants to leave me coz its my fault he ...
A. 1 March 2007: hun! you deserve better! abously he doesnt aprectate you! dump the bastard!!!!!!! you can do sooooooo much better!!!
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Wanted: Your feedback and ideas for DearCupid... !
Q. Hi I'm looking for your feedback and ideas for DearCupid. Either reply to this thread or send me a private mail :-) Got an idea for a new feature? Want to tell me what works well? What's not up to scratch? If you're in the UK hope you're n...
A. 1 March 2007: I looooooove this site but I can't get in to my mail!!... (read in full...)
I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago and now I'm getting itchy! I'm married and he is seeing someone too although he said it's not serious. Help!
Q. I had dinner with my ex from 25 years ago. We had such a great time. He sent me an email afterwards saying what a great time he had and asking if we can have dinner again in the near future. He is dating someone on and off but did say he wants to ...
A. 28 February 2007: think about this....theres a reason why hes your ex
the grass isnt always greener on the other side
and plus doing this is really mean to your husband! I agree with what eddie said your on the verge of doing something teribly stupid
you need ... (read in full...)
She's married... should I tell her how I feel?
Q. hi i have this woman i my life and i really like her more than friends.the trouble is she is married should i tell her how i feel.any advice would be good....
A. 28 February 2007: no this wouldnt be a good idea
if you really love her you want to see her happy right?
and desturbing her marriage would more then likely hurt her and you would also lose a friend
trust me I know how you feel I use to have the same problem and ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I've always wondered what it would be like to kiss a girl but I'm not a lesbian.
Q. i have a boyfriend but i think its strange because ive always wonderd what it was like to kiss a girl. i am a big fan of christina aguilera and have weird thoughts about things i would like to do with her but im not a lesbian i dont get it, help me ...
A. 25 February 2007: your young trust me I've had the same feelings so don't worry you'll evatally get over it
its just horrimones you know?
its nothing to worry about... (read in full...)
My friend and I like the same boy but I would be heartbroken if they got together, what can I do?
Q. I like a boy but my friend does to but i think he likes my friend and i would be heartbroken if they got together what shall i do?...
A. 25 February 2007: leave it, it will do nothing but ruin a friendship you know? friends are worth more a new guy will come along ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend raped me and I don't know what to do about it, I feel so dirty.
Q. Help me please i thought he loved me im 14 and my 15 year old boyfriend Raped me :'( i havnt told anyone what shud i do i thought he loved me, He was walkin me home and he suggested we go the long way round so we have longer to talk and then he ...
A. 24 February 2007: tell some one!!! hunny like all the other people who have been on here and said its not your fault
you need to tell some one and get this guy put away
so that he doesnt do it again to some one else, you know?
tell your parents they will underst... (read in full...)
Am I in the wrong when he expects sex when we go to bed to sleep at midnight and I'm exhausted?
Q. Everytime i see my boyfriend its always late at night and when we go to bed around 12 he wants sex, but im just too tired to even think about sex and he throws a tantrum saying im boring and i make him feel uncomfortable in bed. Then we have sex in ...
A. 23 February 2007: he should not expect sex! your boyfriend sounds like a total brat if this is all hes showing up at your place for then best Idea is to drop him ... (read in full...)
Hubby had an affair and I just found out! Do I throw 10 years away or give him a chance?
Q. I found out three weeks ago my husband has had an affair. We have been married for 10 yrs and he has just turned 40. he has spent since christmas being very moody and distant and said it was just things getting him down, fed up etc, however 3 weeks ...
A. 22 February 2007: get rid of him! you deserve better guys like that I dunno when their doing that it completey destroys the trust and it will just make things go sour in the end any ways and if you ask me guys like that don't change... (read in full...)
I am going to court soon for a rape assault on me. I am really scared, how do I cope?
Q. I am going to court for a rape assualt on me and i am really scared i need some advice because i feel like i want to run away or take an overdose becuase i would rather do this and wake up in hospital than going to court. i need advice n how to cope ...
A. 22 February 2007: Hun!
my gawd I'm really sorry to hear that!
yeah I'm sure like the others who have said it that you could get it done on video tape or something
but just keep thinking your helping put this person away
if you want message me ... (read in full...)
What is it like to live with an alcoholic?
Q. i would like to know from anyone who knows how is it like to live with someone who is an alcoholic but can carry himself well when drunk. The reason i ask cos i think i have fallen for someone who drinks a lot (but make perfect sense while chatting) ...
A. 21 February 2007: Hun message me with this one... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has gained weight, but if I say something she'll hate me! How do I tell her?!
Q. My girlfriend is gaining weight and won’t do anything about it. I need help with my communication. How can I help her? I have a wonderful girlfriend whom I’ve been dating now for the past 13 months. Since the day we met she has slowly been gaining ...
A. 21 February 2007: you don't tell her simple as that... (read in full...)
He hit me and threatened to do it again! But I love him so much and I can't live without him. Help!
Q. hi, im 17 and my boyfriend is 20, i love him so much. Yesterday he hit me and threatened to do alot more for no big reason. It wasn't hard but he still did it. He hurt me so much but i still have the power to forgive him. I sent him a message to ...
A. 21 February 2007: stop making excusses about him hiting you!!!!! dump him I think guys like that are coward pieces of shit! (I'm sorry but this one just really pisses me off)I know how this works because it happend to my mum and my sister they get a hold of you ... (read in full...)
Does my teacher fancy me?
Q. Hey, I need help! My teacher is a bit older than I am and I need to know if he likes me or not. He always talks to me and I usually talk to him, but if I don't he asks me why I'm not talking to him. He comes out to my locker to talk to me and alwa...
A. 20 February 2007: ahhh yeah this is a question that I've answered before but in this case it could just be that he wants to befriend you, you know? ... (read in full...)
We aren't actually together but he lied to me! Should I confront him?
Q. Hi, Well im "seeing" this boy from school. Well, I'm not actually seeing him but i meet up with him sometimes and we have a cuddle and that but he has a gf! I feel really bad and a total fool. I met him today and he told me he had 2 go home earl...
A. 18 February 2007: No!hun your not over the top confront him! what he did was wrong! if you want to talk more about this just message me ... (read in full...)
My BF is away for work and is writing me explicit pornographic letters but we haven't had sex yet!
Q. BF writing me explicit porn. I'm in a new relationship, like 6-7 months now, but he's in the service far away, so we write to each other. Lately he's started giving me really, really detailed information about the size of his penis, how he is...
A. 18 February 2007: hun I'm not a man but I can tell you I've had this same problem enough times to tell you its not worth it you know? if you want message me and we'll talk more about this ... (read in full...)
I'm bullied at school and everyone hates me! What can I do?
Q. Everyone In my Year Hates Me. I only have one friend and everyone else picks on me in lessons and Kicks me and hits me and says its an accident. I told my teachers but they dont Do anything. I dont want to move schools because I dont want to leave ...
A. 17 February 2007: Hi hun=)
I know how you feel cuz this has happend to me as well
I think you should move schools thats the way I got out of it all you know? you do what makes you happy =)
if you would like to talk about this more message me k... (read in full...)
Is it okay for me to like my cousin's cousin? She's 12 and I'm 14.
Q. im 14 and thers this girl that i like. shes only 12. im writing to ask if this is ok. and also she is my cousins cousin. is this ok to....
A. 15 February 2007: yeah I think it would be ok 2 years diffrents isnt alot you know? and liking your cousins cousins that isnt really anything either I think it's ok if you want to talk more about this just message me ... (read in full...)
We fight about her friendship with her ex! How do i get her to admit to me whats really going on?
Q. I have been with this girl for 9 months now (my longest relationship). I love her like no other. Our relationship has been pretty good except for one thing... her ex. They were bairly speaking when we first got together and now they are best ...
A. 14 February 2007: Well first of all do not read her emails k thats the thing that will make her close up second go about it very softly with her it may take time but you got to get her to trust that your not going to freak out completely on her for it just sit ... (read in full...)
Bf has anorexic porn on the computer! How do I talk to him about this?
Q. I recently discovered pornography on my computer that I share with my boyfriend. I don't have a problem with pornography but I was shocked by the kind of porn it was. The women and men were all anorexic, skinny and emaciated. Some of the photos were ...
A. 14 February 2007: Hunny
just ask him about it he's your boyfriend just tell him what you told us say you found it on the computer and you want to know whats it all about
just say hey I want to talk to you about something I found on the computer the other day can ... (read in full...)
It's so offputing when he stares at me. Is my teacher just being normal?
Q. i'm in 11th grade and at my school there is this teacher who doesn't even teach me but he acts really wierd with me. Hes like the strictest teacher in the school to everyone but me. Once he took a photo of me and started going on about how much he ...
A. 14 February 2007: Hun
Listen to the little vocie in your head...
this guy sounds like a total creep, I really don't think it's normal for a teacher to be like that
you should ask around, see if he has ever done this to any one else you know?... (read in full...)
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