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She's married... should I tell her how I feel?

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Question - (28 February 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, *ust34 writes:

hi i have this woman i my life and i really like her more than friends.the trouble is she is married should i tell her how i feel.any advice would be good.

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A male reader, dust34 United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2007):

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hi no i dont think she had an idea how i feel but getting texts from her and her saying to me that she is good looking.but i just dont want to hurt her feelings.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2007):

Do you think she has any idea how you feel?

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A male reader, dust34 United Kingdom +, writes (28 February 2007):

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thanks for all your help i understand what your saying but this woman is around me for reasons i cant say on here.

but its not going to end that soon so i just put up with it?

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A female reader, rammsteinfan United States +, writes (28 February 2007):

rammsteinfan agony auntTo tell a married woman how you feel is NOT a good idea!! You could lose her as a friend, and it would probably make her feel differenly of you!

I think that you should look elsewhere for another woman who is not married!

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A male reader, Dagwood South Africa +, writes (28 February 2007):

Dagwood agony auntStay away! Don't even think about it! Affairs are dishonest and only lead to hurt on all sides! Find a nice lady who is unattached and charm her instead!

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A female reader, dollparts Canada +, writes (28 February 2007):

dollparts agony auntno this wouldnt be a good idea

if you really love her you want to see her happy right?

and desturbing her marriage would more then likely hurt her and you would also lose a friend

trust me I know how you feel I use to have the same problem and i know it hurts as well but really just leave it

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A reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2007):

No. No good will come of it. You stand only to lose her friendship and upset her marriage if you profess your feelings. For the sake of all involved, keep this one secret to yourself.

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