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I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks since I found out his devastating news!
Q. Ok,I need some advice. I've been to ashamed to share this with family or friends yet. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I'm 28 and he's 26. I found out recently almost by accident that before he started dating me he was involved...
A. 14 October 2011: Whether this happen five days ago or five years ago he needs to be put away for that crime with the young girl. If you don't report him he will continue on to other underage girls. If you were or are a parent wouldn't you want his sick ass caged ... (read in full...)
I haven't spoken to him in 2 weeks since I found out his devastating news!
Q. Ok,I need some advice. I've been to ashamed to share this with family or friends yet. I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. I'm 28 and he's 26. I found out recently almost by accident that before he started dating me he was involved...
A. 14 October 2011: Pedophile. If the age is not of consent in your country report this immediately. Please get up from the computer and contact the authorities you can remain anonymous. This is disgusting. Good for you for getting away from this perv. ... (read in full...)
I'm 18, single and unemployed but I want a baby
Q. I have posted a question on here before and received good advice, therefore I wanted to ask for opinions on something that has been puzzling me for some time. I am 18 and my boyfriend is 20, despite my young age, I am desperate for a child. My ...
A. 14 October 2011: Your boyfriend is the bread winner and you are unemployed. You say you two have discussed children and he stated he wasn't ready. That should have been the end of it. It would be very selfish to trap him when he has already expressed his desire NOT ... (read in full...)
Is my female best friend falling for me?
Q. I've read questions on here about this type of situation before, potentially one or other opposite sex best friends falling for the other. The questions is how easy it is to tell without, if getting it wrong, making your friend feel awkward. I th...
A. 13 October 2011: It could be she's lonely and does want comfort. Many single females do that to their males friends. When I was single I slept with my male best friend without the sex and cuddling. I honestly saw no harm. But u do need to make it clear without ... (read in full...)
Sex has fallen off of the map for way too long. How do we bring it back into our lives?
Q. My wife and I have not made love in quite some time. Between the two kids, job stress, general tiredness, various health issues etc., it has just fallen off of the map for way too long. Now the question of how to bring it back - I think things ...
A. 13 October 2011: Before u physically do anything, get her in the mood. Continue to complement her and tell her how u feel. Make her feel beautiful with your words...and even flirt with her not to have sex though just show her extreme desire and love. When you lay in ... (read in full...)
He seems happy to have a FB relationship, but I find myself wanting more
Q. I met this guy online a year ago.Yes it was based on sex.. but mind blowing sex. a year later and i find myself wanting something more, im just not feeling fulfilled any more. We see each other once a week or once every two weeks. He wont just come ...
A. 9 October 2011: I would leave this guy alone. He wants sex only which is how u both developed what u have...only now you're not so fulfilled by this sex only deal. Yeah it happens.....only advice I can suggest is leave him. Then go get tested bc he may be sleeping ... (read in full...)
No sex in months in an otherwise turbulent relationship
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 18 months. Quick background...We met online on a dating site and after 3 weeks we moved in together. Sex life was great. Then it started slowly down. At that time I thought 2 months without sex was a ...
A. 6 October 2011: Sweetheart, I'm sorry to be the bearer of bad news but this guy is 100%without any uncertainty using you. You unfortunately without a shadow of a doubt are allowing him to use you bc u refuse to face the situation. Also there is another issue that u ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend gives me the silent treatment and I don't know how to deal with it
Q. Hye, I'm 25 and is currently in a relationship with my girlfriend for a year who's a year younger..we're both still studying but at different colleges...the thing is i'm a very sensitive guy (in a bad way), even if she doesn't reply my texts or ...
A. 5 October 2011: It could be the sparks are gone now that you two are really getting to know one another. It seems that you two are compatible...yeah you may have hit it off well when you both met but that's the case for most ppl. She obviously likes space in a ... (read in full...)
Why are so many people homophobic? Is it fair to hate someone for something which they have no control?
Q. I was at work today and two male coworkers came in to install new lights. I was alone. I'm a lesbian and i haven't disclosed that to anyone at my job. And I look very feminine. These guys also think I have a boyfriend, I guess bc an attractive smart ...
A. 5 October 2011: I actually try to avoid these two male coworkers bc it makes me uncomfortable when they hug me. The first time they hug me I thought nothing of it. But then after that if they would see me alone or see me going somewhere they would follow me to try ... (read in full...)
My wife was adventurous with men in her past but I have to beg her for sex
Q. Can someone explain why is it that my wife could have sex in every sort of way possible with different men and now that I am her husband I am stuck with just nothing. I literally have to beg her for sex...she never wants to experiment like she did ...
A. 4 October 2011: Let her past be her past and focus on the current problem, which is the sex life you have together. Sex drives change due to a number of reasons: hormones, stress, interest or lack thereof. If you've been married to her over a year and or less than... (read in full...)
How do I deal with feeling so Betrayed? My husband told family intimate details of our sex life.
Q. My husband recently told my family that I let him try anal sex. This was really rude, disrespectful, and certainly uncalled for on my part. I am really upset that he felt it was 'ok' to share this private and personal information with my family of a...
A. 2 October 2011: Your husband unfortunately is very childish. That is not adult like behavior that is exhibited in a marriage, to share the bedroom intimacy. Unless there were intimacy issues, then and only then would he share it with someone....obviously a paid ... (read in full...)
In a troubled argumentative relationship... Should I stay?
Q. Please help me... I've been with my partner for a year now. We used to get on like a house on fire and we could go out and always have a great time. She has never been a brilliant drunk and for the last 4 or 5 months we fallen out a lot more when ...
A. 2 October 2011: If she can see her alcoholism as a problem for the growth and communication of the relationship then I would suggest talking and taking one day at a time. It's okay to drink but in excess is when the problems begin. All relationships have issues, ... (read in full...)
I used to be bullied and vowed to never do the same but these two classmates are making it really hard!
Q. I have 2 classmates that annoy me to no end. I'm not the only one who feels this way; they're basically outcasts to the class. Now, I used to be bullied when I was in highschool. Not the usual stuff everyone deals with some time in their lives, but ...
A. 1 October 2011: I think "You Wish" stated it best and I concur. Focus on the task at hand... graduating. All of this is petty nonsense, especially your position and how you want to take sides. Really...put your big boy pants on and be an adult. If something has ... (read in full...)
Husband accidentally left message on my phone calling me a dumb bitch!
Q. my husband accidentally left a voicemail on my cell phone where he is talking to his friends and saying " the dumb bitch won't answer her phone" I feel very hurt I never thought he would refer to me as a dumb bitch and I feel disrespected and he ...
A. 1 October 2011: I'm sorry to read that he said such a thing. I can only assume he uses his friends to vent out about his marital situation and when doing that he just calls you that out of anger. I believe although he would do this behind your back, he could do it ... (read in full...)
He says he is straight. But is he?
Q. I am a bi male. I have a friend who I believe is "straight" but have doubts. Now ordinarily I wouldn't care about another persons sexual preference. But I have feelings for him. He knows that I am bisexual and has known since the beginning of our ...
A. 29 September 2011: If he has already told you he is straight then that's what you'll have to believe. Do not try to interpret what his idea of straight means, just respect his no. You could very well lose a friend over this. Allow him if he so chooses to tell you his ... (read in full...)
The man I loved made a complete volte-face after marriage and my life is hell with him. What do I do?
Q. I kindly need your opinion regarding my marriage situation.I have been married for 5 years with the man I loved with all my heart.We've been together for 11 years prior to marriage(since high school).We couldn't marry and live together because of ...
A. 28 September 2011: It seems as though he's being stubborn. From your latest update you stated " Yesterday he seemed to finally take me more serious when I told him I need time away from him and he seemed willing to talk rather than yelling" It seems as though he's ... (read in full...)
The man I loved made a complete volte-face after marriage and my life is hell with him. What do I do?
Q. I kindly need your opinion regarding my marriage situation.I have been married for 5 years with the man I loved with all my heart.We've been together for 11 years prior to marriage(since high school).We couldn't marry and live together because of ...
A. 28 September 2011: It seems as though he's being stubborn. From your latest update you stated " Yesterday he seemed to finally take me more serious when I told him I need time away from him and he seemed willing to talk rather than yelling" It seems as though he's ... (read in full...)
The man I loved made a complete volte-face after marriage and my life is hell with him. What do I do?
Q. I kindly need your opinion regarding my marriage situation.I have been married for 5 years with the man I loved with all my heart.We've been together for 11 years prior to marriage(since high school).We couldn't marry and live together because of ...
A. 25 September 2011: My heart goes out for you. You seem like such an amazing trophy. I guess your husband want Martha Stewart, Florence from the Jefferson, and Betty White all in you....cooking, cleaning, working forever. I think you should definitely sell the house ... (read in full...)
Am I reading too much into his visit? Help me!
Q. i am gay and recently have had a reunion with a friend from 10 years ago, which then i liked him, but nothing happened as the circumstances where strange. we have met again and i have fallin for him, we spent a holiday together with another fri...
A. 25 September 2011: If he knows your sexual orientation I would let him lead so that things go at his pace. And even if he doesn't know your orientation let him make the moves, you just go along with it. And if he stops you stop. It sounds like he wants to get out and ... (read in full...)
My parents are disgusted by me after they caught me masturbating
Q. Okay, so I'm around 19. I'm asian, and my family are catholic nuts. (No kidding, it's all they talk about) So lately i've been kind of stressed out because i recently got unemployed and looking for another job and school work was taking it's toll...
A. 24 September 2011: You're totally Normal. And its natural and safe. I honestly wish you could go to college and actually live on campus. Maybe you can transfer schools and get some workstudy. You may or may not have to get loans but u do need to be away from your ... (read in full...)
Why does it seem that women when they go to college just lose themselves and become slutty?
Q. Ever since I graduated high school 3 years ago I have noticed that out of all my guy and girl friends that it seems like all the girls that where once nice and respectable have become party whores and seem to have lost their good morals. I really ...
A. 24 September 2011: Nothing to do with being American. Females become like that bc of standards and rules maybe strict set by their parents. And for years they have to act this way or that way while boys will be boys and don't get reprimanded for dating or going out or ... (read in full...)
Fiance not holding up his end, should I move back home?
Q. It's been a year since I've moved from California to Nebraska with my fiancé and our 16 month old due to employment for my fiancé, I was able to transfer companies. He is no longer working and is now in the court system, things are not what he ...
A. 18 September 2011: This is a testament of his faith. I think it is a trial God has allowed you two to go through. Maybe you asked yourself or prayed is this the right move, is he the "one". Your finance is struggling, and he may not have anticipated this. He's ... (read in full...)
Sticky "love triangle" If she doesn't know, should I tell her? That her ex is bi? That he asked me out?
Q. ok so im gay, been out for a while now so short story: a bi guy "came out" to me i guess last year long: This guy would come to my school to visit his girlfriend, but we'd socialize to (i didnt know him before he'd come to visit her, nor did I eve...
A. 15 September 2011: There really isn't drama here. If the guy doesn't want to speak then don't greet or text. But that doesn't mean go around sharing his confessions with u to other people, that's confidential. As a lesbian I would be quite devastated if I disclosed my ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend went through my emails and went ballistic over an innocent email from a co-worker
Q. I've been with my live in boyfriend for 4 years. He is 12 years older than me. I don't expect marriage (even though I want to be), but that is another topic. He's always been on the insecure side. I don't have a facebook anymore because young guys ...
A. 13 September 2011: You cannot prove innocence but you can be proven guilty. So there's really nothing u can do to convince him youre not cheating. I would just tell him to relax and he's putting undue stress on u. Let him know that his insecurity causes problems. ... (read in full...)
We only see each other 4 times a month. Is it enough?
Q. my man is military and has a busy job he allway tell me he loves and miss me he really a bachelor..but when we are together we have so much fun..but my question is by him being so busy we only see each other about 4 times a month .. does he really ...
A. 13 September 2011: Not really enough info given to conclude or assume much. How does he treat you when you two are together? Does he give u gifts and take you out? You didn't specify how long the two of u been seeing each other. Has it been this way since you met him ... (read in full...)
Why is a married woman telling me about her sexual past?
Q. I need to know why a married woman would tell a guy she knows that she has only had one sexual partner in her life, which is her husband? If you were a guy and a married lady told you that, what would you think her intentions were? I don't think ...
A. 12 September 2011: I think from all the other female response you received that unanimously women across the board enjoy having male friends they can share the truth with. That's how the majority of us women think and see things. She may not have being saying that and ... (read in full...)
My husband is hiding packages from his ex and other women's phone numbers....is it just me?
Q. My husbands high school ex girlfriend, that he reconnected with through facebook, sent him a package in the mail with old love letters and old pictures. He did tell me that she was gonna send them but he had to because ive got the only mail key to ...
A. 11 September 2011: You're suspicion is justified. Reality of it is there may not be any concrete evidence currently but the hold situation smells of fish. Do what you have to but don't confront him anymore. Allow him to get comfortable and get a covert security camera ... (read in full...)
Is she a bot, is this a scam?
Q. alright this girl friended me on facebook and I was suspicious to begin with because she is the typical facebook bot. really pretty girl and has under 100 friends. well here is what made me change my mind. My number is on my facebook and she ...
A. 9 September 2011: I would leave her along bc by law u can be charge with statuary rape in many states. Even if its legal its best to leave others along once u turn 18 and they are younger. There are other girls out there. Better safe than sorry. You don't want spend ... (read in full...)
Should I dump my b/f because he isn't sympathetic when I'm having my period?
Q. My boyfriend isnt sympathetic when i am on my period, should i dump him ?. He calls me moody and says that he wont put up with the way i am every month when its my time of the month. I get severe cramps and it really gets me down. I know men dont ...
A. 9 September 2011: For ur cramps try working out regularly especially the week prior. Do some walking or jogging about 2 miles a day. Drink plenty of water n eat lots of iron. If it bothers u while ur own.....masterbate. I know it may sound gross but the contractions ... (read in full...)
My wife angry because I was helping a student online
Q. My wife has a big driving test today. Last night I couldn't sleep so I thought it was fine to go to the other room for a couple of hours (before midnight) and a student of mine (grade 12) came online and was asking for my help with her college ...
A. 9 September 2011: U do have an angry wife, n its not bc of the student issue. She seems generally like the Grinch. I think she needs some help, but I hardly believe she think she has an issue. But something is the matter with her, maybe job stress or past issue she ... (read in full...)
I'm married and can't get over a crush!
Q. Help! I am married and can't get over a crush. The guy is married too and is not as good looking/hunky as my husband. I think I fell for his wit and sense of humour. I did enjoy flirting with him. I don't know why I am feeling this way. I've ...
A. 9 September 2011: Put spice back into ur marriage. Date nights, vacations, hot sex, romantic gifts, surprises, love notes, massage, etc. Do these things randomly for no special occasions n have it read just because. You want attention from others bc ur husband isn't ... (read in full...)
I felt betrayed! He proposed to me and then kisses my best friend??
Q. ok i have a boyfriend and we have been dating for six months and he proposed to me last week. then yesterday i saw him with my best friend kissing and i shouted at him and now he won't stop calling what to do?...
A. 9 September 2011: Sweetheart if u saw him kiss a girl with ur own eyes imagine what ur eyes have not seen. Seriously, ditch the dude. He is not worth any more than u have already invested. He's calling bc he wants forgiveness n if u forgive him n take him back he'll ... (read in full...)
Kicked BF out of my apartment for online cheating - did I over-react?
Q. I kicked my boyfriend of 9 months out of my apartment after I found evidence he had been flirting with a girl online and even gone as far as to give her his phone number. He also invited her to come visit our town and he'd be a "tour guide". When ...
A. 13 August 2011: Your intuition never lies especially when its not being influenced by what this or that person is telling u he's doing. You did right by trusting self. This guy isn't worth ur time. You haven't even been together long and already his eyes are ... (read in full...)
My husband left me so I got someone else. Husband wanted me back so I got an abortion for him, now he doesn't want me
Q. Help please.....my life has taken a complete turn. I was with my husband for nine years. Married for six.separated for two years. Well he left me two yrs ago. I died that day. Well I was so hurt and in grief I met someone whom I liked. My husband ...
A. 5 August 2011: This is a simple one to the outsider-me. Follow through with the divorce and don't look back. If you have to file full custody of your child so that you can move on emotionally financially and spiritually. This man is no good. He doesn't want to be ... (read in full...)
Can't get over 4 year relationship, feeling depressed and lonely. Help.
Q. Hi everyone. It is me again. I just keep asking for help. Don't I ;) Well the problem is the same. But with a new symptom now. It is the 6th month since she dumped me after a relation of 4 years for another guy in only 10 days after my departur...
A. 18 July 2011: It'll get better in time, if you accept that most things are temporal. Your ex did u a favor. Better to let someone go then to use them marry them and take 25+ years of their life away. You're young, working, and taking up IT, that's wonderful. It's ... (read in full...)
I've finally accepted that I'm gay, now how do I meet someone?
Q. Hello Everyone, I am finally accepted that I am bisexual and stop to fight myself and now trying to find some dates but I have no idea how to find guys, gay or bi. I tried many good dating sites, I am currently in Germany and they have really n...
A. 18 July 2011: I would say just wear like a wrist band with the gay colors and when your talking to guys just talk using hand gestures. If the guy constantly look at the wrist band smile and keep talking. If someone should ask you why the wrist band you don't have ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's mood swings are a problem for me!
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for 4 years. She is gorgeous and giving more than 100% to this relationship. But we have one problem, my Girlfriend's unbearable mood swings....one moment she will make me laugh like crazy and after few hours ...
A. 17 July 2011: After four years you should be able to sense when her mood is changing or what her mood changes to. The more you understand what makes her tick the less likely u are to make her tick. N when something else not u make her tick u can agree and comfort ... (read in full...)
Depressed, Unhappy, I don't see the light at the end of the tunnel.
Q. I am 22 yrs. old from Europe living in Canada. I use to be full of life and the kind of person that would light up the room when I walk in ever since I was a child. Everything changed when I was 15 and I started to feel attraction toward guys, wh...
A. 17 July 2011: Hey poster, I'm really sorry for your depression. I can relate 100%. I once was straight engaged to be married to an incredible man. I however, was miserable, depressed, suicidal, and all that. I tried to be straight but that was why my mental state ... (read in full...)
If an identical twin turns out to be gay/bi, would the other twin also be gay/ bi?
Q. Lets say theres a pair of identical twins, and the one twin comes out, would the other twin also be gay or bi? I'm just curious. I was watching the simpsons episode where patti comes out, and I was wondering if that would that make selma gay, ...
A. 15 July 2011: To those of you are of you who are being really inconsiderate towards the poster bc she wants to know why and how certain things happen. Firstly you should consider her age. Now that is out of the way, the young girl obviously just wanted some ... (read in full...)
If an identical twin turns out to be gay/bi, would the other twin also be gay/ bi?
Q. Lets say theres a pair of identical twins, and the one twin comes out, would the other twin also be gay or bi? I'm just curious. I was watching the simpsons episode where patti comes out, and I was wondering if that would that make selma gay, ...
A. 15 July 2011: There may be a genetic link that predispose babies to homosexuality. However, other factors greatly play a role. Such as the environment and upbringing. So sometimes there are several factors. Not necessarily true both twins will be gay bc as a ... (read in full...)
Men and porn!!! Why do they need it?
Q. I need help! I don't understand why my boyfriend has 2 look at porn!! I'm beautiful why can't I be enough? He says I wouldn't understand. We have been together 6yrs an he's hid it the whole time until I cought him! I told him 2 make me understand an ...
A. 14 July 2011: It's normal to enjoy porn. I'm female and I absolutely love it. And I'm damn beautiful. There isn't a place that I can go and not get a guy trying to date me. Porn is sexual entertainment. It's also a way to relieve tension and stress. Porn can also ... (read in full...)
I have a girlfriend of 2 years who would never betray me, but then another woman who gives me what I need....who do I choose?
Q. i've gotten myself into a terrible situation and i need advice, please. i have been with my girlfriend for two years now. she's been very good to me and treated me well. i know she would move mountains for me if she could. and she's a great pa...
A. 13 July 2011: The grass isn't always greener on the other side. A relationship is about compromise, no two people will be able to satisfy one another 100%. You have to be willing to negotiate what's most important. If your gf is stable, supportive, loving, ... (read in full...)
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