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writes:i am gay and recently have had a reunion with a friend from 10 years ago, which then i liked him, but nothing happened as the circumstances where strange.we have met again and i have fallin for him, we spent a holiday together with another friend, all as friends, and we grew very close., again nothing happened.however since i have returned home he has contcvated me to say he really enjoyed the holiday and i made his holiday what it was , and he does not want to leave it another 10 years until we meet again.we have been in constant contact since we came back from holiday which is 2 weeks ago.he has now booked a flight to visit me in spain, for 4 dayshe does not want a busy time, just to chill, and when i said me and him and some quality time, with a bottle of boosze on my terrrace he said perfect,we have not discussed our feelings, but we have told each other we miss each othet.im i reading too much into this, as im unsure whats happening, and i am so nervous for when hi visits in 3 weeks time.help me im going mad... Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (25 September 2011):
 I agree with the previous poster. Just go with the flow! If he knows your sexual orientation, then the ball is in his court. I think during his visit, you'll figure out what direction he'd like to go in. So, I'd go with the old 'no hope, no sorrow' approach until then. I'd just assume that you guys will just be hanging out as pals... then if something ends up happening, it is a pleasant surprise! If nothing happens, then you won't be dropping too far down. Good luck, sweet and have fun!!
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reader, cmarieky +, writes (25 September 2011):
If he knows your sexual orientation I would let him lead so that things go at his pace. And even if he doesn't know your orientation let him make the moves, you just go along with it. And if he stops you stop. It sounds like he wants to get out and enjoy himself with you and it could or could not mean romantically. I'm lesbian and if I were in that situation I would just enjoy the ride. If it only means a close good friend then fabulous.....life is meant to be enjoyed. Likewise if it means a relationship of romance then most definitely....life is meant to be lived. Stop thinking so much and enjoy this wonderful moments, and if it blossoms to more then invite it. But in the meantime take one day at a time and try not to over analyze anything. Best wishes.
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