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I'm Indonesian living in Singapore. Teaching is my career which i enjoy so much. I really grateful to my Mom & My late Dad. They introduced Music as career path. My hubby is a caring guy. Whenever hv time,we'll travel overseas to explore, relax.
I'm a breast cancer survivour under remission 4yrs. After surgery,doctor asked me to hv chemotherapy to get rid undetected bad cells for 6 months(16 injections) plus radiotherapy& hormone therapy(5yrs). With determination& family support,i endure the pain, hair loss& hot flushes. I wore a hat and juggle to work, eat healthy diet plus exercise regularly.
My motto: I'll come out ALIVE frm this misery. I'm not afraid as I'm still young & don't want to lose the battle.I face it.I survive. Yes..yes,I did it!
I learn hard lesson how precious the life is. Health is the most important things. I become even more caring person,keep learning, take things easily, more patient& brave to face any situations, do more charity.
I'm proud to be agony aunt. though not experienced as Top Experienced Agony Aunty or uncle, I'll constantly learn, keep myself updated. The experience make myself become problem solver, motivated to help and act of giving& sharing. indeed priceless!
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He won't put pictures of us together on FB but will happily post pictures of a female colleague!
Q. Hi everyone. My hubby recently get hook with facebook, with his photos posted alone. when i handed him, some photos were taken together with me.But on facebook screen, he cut it without me inside.He remark he didn't want people to know he's ...
A. 16 August 2011: Hi everyone. Just to update that he'd realised his mistakes & apologised. He display my photo there &change marital status:married and remove that female colleague photos.
When he text me to inform my photo already in Fb, I reply,"you're so thoug... (read in full...)
He's left me after 3 years... to go back with the ex!!!
Q. The love of my life has left me after 3 years and gone back to his ex and I'm completely devastated. He says its for the kids sakes and he's broken his own heart by leaving me, that I was also the love of his life, his soulmate and that he will nev...
A. 15 August 2011: Pull yourself together. Your kid still need you as a STRONG MOM to carry the life. For ur son sake,please do anything to get over what already happen. Move On! You can DO it!
(Be sure to delete/REJECT any emai regard that woman& him).Don... (read in full...)
Help!!! Should I be worried?
Q. I think my best friend likes my guy... you see me and my guy only started seeing each other about a month ago (not really official we're going out, just that we meet each other etc.) and she is constantly asking about him and saying she wants a guy ...
A. 15 August 2011: of course.First think about yoursef.Do you care him & Crush feeling? If yes,you have to FIGHT FOR WHAT YOU WANT.Don't give in to others.You aren't wrong to do that,instead it shows HOW DEEP your love is to your BF.Show him that you care and Love ... (read in full...)
We already know my brother has been fired. Why is he keeping it a secret?
Q. Hi,Pls HELP.Any advises are greatly appreciated. My brother who's married,was fired frm work. He never tell anyone. but his wife secretly tell me but not to break news as she afraid in trouble later. Reality is he hide the truth and lied whenever...
A. 14 August 2011: Hi VSAddict. Thanks for your valuable opinions and I totally agree and respect his own privacy. just an info,His wife is a teacher.i understand she's sad. I did offer financial(money) but he still refuses.Hope he can find new job soon... (read in full...)
Was I wrong to tell him the baby isn't his?
Q. I need some help. I have no idea what to do. im five months pregnant, and need wise advice. Please do not judge... My babys father is an emotional wreck most of the time, he yells at me when we argue like a 2 year old having a tantrum, and he is on ...
A. 13 August 2011: I support you to tell the truth.You are a Brave Woman who stands on your belief.Good work!
If he accepts& supports you,that's very good news. PRAY hard,my Dear. Hope things will turn out smoothly... (read in full...)
He wanted to spend so much time with his friends. We were missing out on more intimate moments. Was I out of line in this ?
Q. Hi all, Ok so my boyfriend of 3 months broke up with me suddenly on Wednesday night over the phone and I have not heard from him since. The situation is as follows: Things were always really good when we spent time alone, although we also spe...
A. 13 August 2011: Sad how he treats you within 3 months.He's selfish person(sorry to say).He has his own world. He's angry& unhappy cos you mess up with the plans.He CHOOSE to LOSE you than soccer friends.How do you rate this person?
All you want is more time tog... (read in full...)
I missed a payment, I'm in tears I'm so worried.
Q. im very worried as im in an iva which ive been paying 3 years and in july missed a payment because my sisters had extreme cancer and her work stopped her pay so i helped her out. i didnt know what else to do but now the iva place has emailed me ...
A. 13 August 2011: Hi.Sad to hear about your sister.How's she now? still under treatment?what cancer?
Actually I'm Breast cancer survivor,under remission for 3yrs. I did went thru chemo& radiotherapy and now yearly check up. I can see, you LOVE your sister very muc... (read in full...)
For a year and a half he told me he loved me and begged me to move in. Now's he's dumped me. How do I get over this?
Q. How do you get over someone you love? It just seems so impossible at this point. I've been in a long distance relationship on and off for about a year and a half! I've never met him in person.(And were only 5 hours away from each other. I know ...
A. 13 August 2011: He doesn't show any respect and already reject you. Pls don't visit or begging him anymore
Why do you make life so miserable? Not worth it! Forget him.Start new begining.Take this as learning experience,so don't make same mistakes. At least yo... (read in full...)
Why can't I move on from the ex that took my virginity?
Q. Why can't I move on from my ex that took my virginity and it's sad because it's been months already and I still haven't moved on. But he has and he found a girl that he wants to spend a long time with and it's killing me inside. How long ...
A. 12 August 2011: Let go the past! Tell yourself that I'm strong enough & never afraid to face the reality. Tomorrow is totally new day which truly exciting encounters waiting to discover.
As soon as you can clear these frm the mindset, soon you are already a New ... (read in full...)
Would you date a girl who had many sugar daddies??
Q. So I met this girl. Real pretty. Grew up in Europe (Czech Rep.). Dated a few times. Then she tells me about her sugar daddies. For those who dont know a sugar daddy is an older man who gives money to young women in exchange for sexual favors. ...
A. 12 August 2011: With her complicated backgroundS,you should be bother. Think & discuss first with friends.Can you accept the way she is,both the good& bad? The way she treats them, might affect your relationships for sure... (read in full...)
We cant go anywhere because he used to go to these places with his ex!
Q. My bf and I live in a small town, so there is only one cinema, one shopping cnetre etc. Now his ex also lives in the same small town (whereas I am from another city). Because him and his ex used to go to the cinema, shopping centre, coffee s...
A. 12 August 2011: ridiculous person. He's low esteem& totally AFRAID to FACE the reality. I suggest you talk to him to LET GO the past.Carry on the routine as normal. Tell that you don't like the way he is behaving at the present. His behaviours make you feel sad ... (read in full...)
Is it wierd if I propose to him?
Q. Hi everyone ! Please help me...i like a boy who works for the same company as i do, but we work in different state. Im 27 and the boy is 24. Will it be weird if i propose him...coz of age difference ?...
A. 12 August 2011: Hah,are you sure?
Give him a hint or espress that YOU LIKE HIM. See how he react.If he likes you as HOW MUCH as you love him, naturally he'll propose to you,instead of you take the first move. Love is pure& should come frm BOTH SIDES that comm... (read in full...)
Why isn't he doing the little things like kissing and forgiving me?
Q. Should I stay or go? I have on and off (more on) with my bf for about 18 mos. now. He s divorced and has full custody of his kids one girl 4 and one boy who is almost 2. He works alot and sometimes it seems that he just don't have the time I need ...
A. 12 August 2011: If you love him, pls be loyal.
He's a divorced,he endure the pain of broken relationships before. So he's very sensitive person. Yet you cheated on him. If you r on his shoes,what's your reaction then?
Time will heal the pain. Observe him ... (read in full...)
Am I going to end up hurt by my older man?
Q. I've been dating a 39 year old man (I'm 24) for 2 weeks now and last night we had our first little discussion about 'us'. Nothing too major as its too soon for that, but a few things he said concerned me and now my question is am I going to end up ...
A. 12 August 2011: Sorry to hear that.Don't be sad,instead face it! He'doesn't derserve your LOVE. There are always Better one outside there....Keep looking
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I miss how we used to be....is there any way to make it good again?
Q. Basically i have been with my partner for 11 months and we are only young, but i really do love him. Recently i cant help but feeling that the relationship is dry, and i always think about how we used to be, compared to now, it really gets me down. ...
A. 12 August 2011: What's his hobbies or his interest? You can start frm there.It definitely DRAW his ATTENTION back. At same time, You whispers...YOU LOVE HIM
Pls don't argue over small matter.Now It's the Time of your EFFORT to get HIM back. Good luck!... (read in full...)
Do I tell b/f I know he kept a card a cheating ex?
Q. My bf was going through old boxes in front of me, and out a corner of my eye I saw him keep a card from a ex who he cheated on me with in our early relationship [they are not longer in contact]. I feel upset inside. Do I tell him? ...
A. 11 August 2011: Well,He still not let go the past. But doesn't mean,he doesn't love you.He needs time& bit more assurance frm you.Can you do that?
How abt this? Tell him directly that You love him. Let's move forward the future together thru thick& thin and be h... (read in full...)
How should I break the touch barrier?
Q. Hey all. SO I am fairly new to dating. I have only have had one girlfriend and that was a dorm relationship and those don't really start the traditional way if you know what I mean. So now after months of being single I finally met this amazing...
A. 10 August 2011: Come on,Guy. Since you LIKE her,be DARING to take steps forward.You don't expect her to take first move,right?. Pls express that you care about her. She'll get the hint that you're interested in her.
Simply ask," Can i hold your hand?". She'll n... (read in full...)
I'm very apprehensive about a job I applied for!
Q. Hi, I need some advice...I'm so confused re the job offer. I am absolutely broke and I have been looking for a job for 3 months now and I've been offered a manager role at a company. Ok salary, enough to pay bills and although company isn't dream ...
A. 10 August 2011: Hi.Be confidence.Start mail resume to get job. Don't be choosy.It seems like You'd been worrying too much.Sometimes things doesn't turn out as bad as you imagine
Wish you all the Best for job seeking.You definitely can do it!... (read in full...)
How can I be the right friend to someone so they want to be the right friend to me?
Q. I am looking for a help about how miserable I feel. How do I be a friend to other people so that they want to be my friend? i want to know, what can i do to have the right friend, a friend who I can trust. Hold his hand whenever i ask. Or ask for ...
A. 9 August 2011: Hi there. Look around you. Just be daring and Say HELLO. Next step,talk common topic like weather,foods & fashion where most people enjoy.
Some examples:
Isn't it a good weather today?
That's nice jacket. where did you buy?
I left my watch a... (read in full...)
He won't put pictures of us together on FB but will happily post pictures of a female colleague!
Q. Hi everyone. My hubby recently get hook with facebook, with his photos posted alone. when i handed him, some photos were taken together with me.But on facebook screen, he cut it without me inside.He remark he didn't want people to know he's ...
A. 9 August 2011: Hi everyone. Thanks alot for your valuable advises and opinions. I believe there's always a way to the problem.I'm working on it... frm CHEERS... (read in full...)
How can I feel homesick about my parents home when everyone there treated me badly?
Q. I'm in my late twenties and I was well overdue to leave home. I lived in the top half of my parents place. I paid my rent, cooked my food, did most of the household chores for everyone. I was living at home till my partner and I felt ready to ...
A. 9 August 2011: Hi there.I deeply touch with your story
U are indeed a STRONG & KIND Hearted person. It's ok to feel homesick cos that's the place where you were born. I Think It's THE LOVE you've shown to them,let you feel thta way regardless how they treat yo... (read in full...)
Am I going to end up hurt by my older man?
Q. I've been dating a 39 year old man (I'm 24) for 2 weeks now and last night we had our first little discussion about 'us'. Nothing too major as its too soon for that, but a few things he said concerned me and now my question is am I going to end up ...
A. 8 August 2011: Hi there. Just to share, when I got married,the gap difference with My Bf is 9yrs(he's much older,43 years old). He's hardworking& fillial son.I accept him the good & bad characters.
Frm your remark, I can tell u like him. then Let's get start! H... (read in full...)
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