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writes:I need some help. I have no idea what to do. im five months pregnant, and need wise advice. Please do not judge... My babys father is an emotional wreck most of the time, he yells at me when we argue like a 2 year old having a tantrum, and he is on disability. He is a convicted sex offender she was 15 he was 23. I have told him the baby is not his, just so i would not have to deal with the trouble if he ever decided to file for custody or anything. the thing is, i feel wrong for cutting him out. I doubt he can help me out with the baby a whole lot money wise, but every child wants to know both parents right?? please help...thank you guys so much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2011): There is never any time to be dishonest with your man about your child's paternity.
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reader, yesmeansyes +, writes (15 August 2011):
He sounds like he's already put you through some verbal and mental abuse, and the fact that he's a sex offender is the icing on the cake. I honestly think you did the right thing for your child. And please know that you have legal options if he ever found out he was the sperm donor - with his criminal history and the fact that he would not be fit to participate in parenting (financially or otherwise) you can seek an order of protection. Keep yourselves safe. Best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthe baby is his. I said it wasnt so he would just get out of my life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2011): I'm confused....is the baby really his or not?
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reader, cheers  +, writes (13 August 2011):
 I support you to tell the truth.You are a Brave Woman who stands on your belief.Good work!
If he accepts& supports you,that's very good news. PRAY hard,my Dear. Hope things will turn out smoothly
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (13 August 2011):
 No you weren't wrong to tell him that. if the man changes in future which I doubt he will, maybe but for now he isn't worth the trouble. Goodluck
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