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My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   13 June 2014: Hello Tom. I am glad that things have calmed down. Based on the way that your wife changes her mind so much, perhaps it would not be a good idea to agree to sell the house. You might have agreed, based on the renting together idea, only to fi... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   6 June 2014: Yes, show her where the money has been spent and ask for an apology. In a way I am pleased that you have become a bit more irritated yourself. I am sure if she had simply asked, you would have provided the answers. It was rather unforgivable. In ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   31 May 2014: Well how horrible and how deluded. The fact that she is paying the mortgage now, does not negate the fact that this has been a partnership. She can not simply kick you out or sell the house without your permission. However you get the advice, do ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   30 May 2014: Tom, you can go to mediate or to a solicitor. Mediation first would be useful because it will describe both of your positions in an open, balanced way. Either way make sure you get advice and do not fall on your sword. Remember that you will have ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   30 May 2014: You can't do anything that isn't part of divorce proceedings. Who will the children live with? You, she doesn't want the responsibility of them any more remember. In which case you get most of the money. How can you have a mortgage with so little ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   28 May 2014: Hi there. I am really chuffed that you enjoyed your trip and yes, it is really nice that you were all being thought of. Wonderful memories to share with your kids. The counsellor is probably just answering the needs expressed by your wife and ty... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   24 May 2014: Oh Tom, so sorry to hear your sadness. You are doing the right thing though. It may take a long time for her to come around. She has a lot to test out first. My husband tries to do a lot for me as well, to the point where it makes me feel in... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   22 May 2014: Sorry I made you repeat some details, I'm afraid my attention to detail is a bit erratic for various good reasons. Please bear with me. After exchanging all of the words and ideas as we have, it does seem to come back to your original posting... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   22 May 2014: As usual I do like CMMP's answer. ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   21 May 2014: I see, she feels she is carrying you financially. So does she think you are being lazy then? Being honest, are you picking up the housework or is she doing that as well? Hope you don't mind me asking, but speaking personally, I know it can be a ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   19 May 2014: Of course it is OK. You all need use of the French house to save money, so she will have to cooperate over dates. I suppose she isn't planning to hog it for the whole summer?! (Apologies for sounding miffed when I don't even know her). This situ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   19 May 2014: Good news about the phone. I would have thought there would be something there if that guy was making moves. Since she has been honest, perhaps there is just some peripheral flirting there and nothing more. Hope so. There is a whole lot of diff... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   18 May 2014: I sent a fuller answer which doesn't seem to have been published. Anyway, your instinct has prickled you. It isn't the same as guessing or overthinking. It is a moment when a penny drops, or a block of cold lead falls into the stomach. Those ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   18 May 2014: CMMP's reply is very realistic, again. Whereas my instinct is to want to know and therefor investigate, his is to wait it out and simply tell her your expectations. I don't envy you, how very painful and difficult this must be.... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   18 May 2014: This is your instinct speaking. Pay it some respect. The previous lies justify your feelings totally. Of course it all needs handling with care and you must not mention it at all if you want to carefully follow it up. Is this who she sees on ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   15 May 2014: Well done! I am so happy that you got your time away booked. Interesting that he got angry about you going to the cinema don't you think? I certainly do. Asking how you can afford/take the time is just her way of showing a slight miff. She will ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   12 May 2014: Not wanting you to see her naked is not odd seeing as she wants to separate.... not sure why you think it is? Mind, sleeping in bed together still is, so combined rather a bag of mixed messages. Her shopping list is child like. Aspirational ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   11 May 2014: PPS I really like CMMP's answer. Shame one of you can't do VSO or something. ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   11 May 2014: If you are both truly stuck, stay pleasant but start living your life and as some of the others say, give her a load of space. Be friendly but not a loving husband, not intimate. ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   11 May 2014: With hindsight do you think sticking to your concert plan would have been best? I suspect maybe. I also think her explosion was about feeling cross with herself for caving in. Then cross with you. Old habits and comforts die hard! I suspect you ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   7 May 2014: Sounds as though you are doing really well. I know what you mean about the Christian angle to that book. I admit I used it myself, but I had to overlook the religious side and filtered the common sense bits. I liked the way it invited a person to ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   7 May 2014: Not that I think you will need those other ladies, I hope you save your marriage.... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   7 May 2014: I do think walking from the room is the correct idea because it shows that there are consequences for talking to you as she has. Not nasty, but your feelings are affected. The thing I do not understand is how she will take her independence and above ... (read in full...)

I feel like it's tarnished the beginning of our relationship and don't know if I can get past that.

Q.   I started seeing a guy 5 months ago. At the beginning we weren't serious and he took some time out when he had a few problems with his daughter. Things are now good between us but the trouble is I have suspicions he slept with 1, maybe 2 people when ...

A.   6 May 2014: The reason you would feel betrayed is because (I presume) that he specifically asked for time out to help his daughter. So, if he slept with other women of course you would feel like that. It would have been a lie. If you are right. He could ha... (read in full...)

Should I ask him why he exaggerated the length of time he was single and why he led me to believe he's been living by himself?

Q.   I'll try to keep this short Basically I met, dated and fell for this amazing man roughly two months ago. Never have I connected so well with someone, shared so many likes and tastes with, which he reciprocates. During this time frame we've got ...

A.   6 May 2014: Perhaps he didn't want you to know that she split with him. The Facebook evidence is enough, it might seem a bit much to have been reading letters etc. Do you think you sensed a rat? Perhaps that is why you were checking him out. Yes, you really ... (read in full...)

How do I give her support? My friend has been her Bf for month. Now he wants to spend his Birthday with his guy friends, not her

Q.   hi, please please tell me what i should do? A friend of mine have been dating with her bf for 1 month. On this friday it will be her bf's birthday, and her bf said that he doesn't want to go any where with her, but instead wants to go with the...

A.   6 May 2014: It is a shame to worry. In the next few years his mates will all have girlfriends and there will likely be parties for all. If he wants to celebrate his youth with male friends he has known for years, it will be one of the few chances. I would tell ... (read in full...)

I am not a needy person but I feel like I need an explanation. HELP!

Q.   Hi all, just looking for a bit of advice on this one as myself and all my close friends are stumped! Basically I met this guy last summer and we were meeting for about 2 months. He initiated everything but he told me that he had literally just ...

A.   5 May 2014: He enjoyed the chase but knows that this would be over if he decided to be with you. Just let him get on with it, he is still not ready to settle. He just wanted to touch base and I am sure you made him feel better because he really likes you. But ... (read in full...)

I went out of my way to accommodate them, and they couldn't be bothered to return the favour

Q.   This probably may come across as me being picky but I would like some opinions. I threw my husband a birthday party at our home 2 months ago and we invited a few of his colleagues and their families from his work. 1 particular colleague had ad...

A.   5 May 2014: Don't let this experience stick with you and upset you for too long. You know them now and if thy don't make it up to you soon, I wouldn't worry about making an effort or them any more. You have high standards and they have been a bit remiss. Be ... (read in full...)

Could an attractive real woman make a guy less interested in porn?

Q.   Right here is a question I possibly know the answer to. Lets say a guy likes a lot of porn, glamour mags, sexy photos etc. is here any way him finding a real woman who is attractive in looks and personality can change this or at least lessen it? ...

A.   2 May 2014: Well if they were like that it would put women off, so they would tend to be alone with their pictures quite a lot. It would do no harm to tell this person how off-putting it is, but unless they were spectacular in every other way, give money to ... (read in full...)

He's an awesome boyfriend but I just can't come to terms with his past

Q.   I feel like such a dumbass for writing this question. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months or so, and he's an exceptional boyfriend. It's been great, I'm really happy. Except I'm having problems accepting his past. I know, I know... it shoul...

A.   2 May 2014: Although he has had a lot of sexual partners he has been highly selective in choosing an actual partner. I do believe it is the depth of his previous hurt that contributed to those wild days. Comparing yourself is not relevant and the thing you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend gave another girl his number just to be friendly

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and a half. A couple of months ago he was at a party with some friends and he met a girl there. (she wasn't just some random girl, she's good friends with some people at the party) My boyfriend s...

A.   2 May 2014: I think he needed a hand because he got out of his depth. It is so easy to do with Facebook, everyone is friends. Then why not give numbers? Before you know it an assumption is made. You were upset because by being friendly he gave a wrong ... (read in full...)

Should I be selfish for once or be the good girl?

Q.   Hi, I have this problem... I have this friend I've known for two years now and we always kind of liked each other. He's much older than I am and is in a relationship. Because we were such good friends, I know his girlfriend really well now too. Bu...

A.   2 May 2014: You are being tempted like a moth to a flame and all you will find is destruction. You will have to live afterwards knowing that if you are ever betrayed you have no reason to feel self-righteous. Because you have hurt someone and betrayed a friend. ... (read in full...)

I feel like he just wants to go around and sleep around and then I'm just stuck here waiting for him to be done. How do I move on with my life?

Q.   So me and my boyfriend recently broke up. Maybe about 1 week ago. Our relationship has been very difficult, we dated for a little over a year. (14 months) our biggest issue was trust. I have caught him texting other girls throughout the ...

A.   2 May 2014: Do not make the mistake of sacrificing your life on this. Enjoy your life. Do not give it another thought. Let him get on with things and go get everything you want for your life. If you meet someone worthy you will know. He can not be what you ... (read in full...)

I don't want to seem weak when I end it

Q.   I've been casually seeing a guy for about 6 months and I think for my own sanity I need to end it. He's probably the most rude and arrogant person I've met and he makes me feel worthless with the way he speaks to me. Now do I tell him that's ...

A.   2 May 2014: Just tell him that being with him is not a pleasant experience. He is rude and you do not look forward to seeing him. So you have decided to end the relationship. Don't let him start a discussion. He will not change the facts by being more rude. ... (read in full...)

I'm too afraid to ask him for help financially!

Q.   I'm 23years plus i'm dating a guy of 29years plus getting to three years now, l love him so much but despite my love for him i'm shy to ask him when i need help financially because of my two reasons my first reason is that i'm thinking its too ...

A.   2 May 2014: Only if you were married would this be appropriate, by which time you would be working as a team. There is no way it is OK to ask for money. Whatsoever.... (read in full...)

Is my online date a bit weird?

Q.   I've been chatting to a 45 year old guy online who was keen to meet new friends and go dating. I was going to meet him at the weekend and we've been chatting for a week. He works from home and is also renovating his place. He boils up batches of ...

A.   2 May 2014: If he I'd doing up his place it would explain the catering arrangement. Something about your description makes it sound odd, rather than it probably being the case. Curry is always best when it has been done this way. however, no holidays? No meals ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   2 May 2014: Just going out on Wednesdays is not much of a sign. I am sorry if I introduced the idea. I have been cheated on obadly in the past which probably caused me to refer to it. Not now thankfully. In the past I would have been checking things. I try not ... (read in full...)

How can I defend myself against this worker?

Q.   Hi Everyone. I apologise for the length of this problem. OKAY so I am quite an easy going person. I respond to banter, even the odd jokey name calling and can take a joke as well as the next person. But I am also very shy, sensitive and som...

A.   30 April 2014: There are some possibilities to consider. One, she is trying too hard to fit in and sees you doing jockey banter with others, so joins in, not understanding that her style is upsetting you. She is basically being over familiar. The next is that your ... (read in full...)

How much does porn influence a mans expectations of how a woman should look naked?

Q.   Ok please help aunts and uncles .... I'm single and ready to date again after a lengthy marriage. I have met a few guys but one really nice one and I'm pretty sure things will become physical soon I'm just a little worried thought as I know he has...

A.   30 April 2014: I don't think you were vilifying him for using porn, just asking reasonable questions. The use of pornography is an issue when starting out in relationships. I know some people for whom it wrecked their sex life because the male was unable to have ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   30 April 2014: It would do you no harm to start looking outside the home for some activities. You might insider going on a short break by yourself, doing activity that you always wanted to do. It might be a wrench but it would be healthy. For you, it would be a ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   29 April 2014: I can never be sure whether my responses go due to our awful internet access. Hence repetition. Apologies! ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   29 April 2014: As the main breadwinner she would have to pay the montage if you stayed to look after the kids. Do not fall on your sword, she is taking you for granted. See a professional and find out. Start to protect your position and do not be a yes man. She ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   29 April 2014: She may have to continue paying the montage if you stay and look after the kids. That is why you need advice. She is the main wage earner, so is in the position that men usually are. Please do not fall on your sword. She needs to understand the ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   29 April 2014: Another thing to stress. If she wants to separate it must be her that goes. Do not leave your family home. You have every right to stay there and continue to care for your children. She needs to be clear how this separation will be achieved. If you ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   28 April 2014: Another thing to stress. If she wants to separate it must be her that goes. Do not leave your family home. You have every right to stay there and continue to care for your children. She needs to be clear how this separation will be achieved. If you ... (read in full...)

My wife wants a separation. How can make her love me again?

Q.   Been married for 28 years - have two teenage children. My wife has said she has no feelings for me any longer and wants to separate. I am so hurt and upset. She has admitted the separation is purely selfish on her part but does not want to thin...

A.   27 April 2014: Get yourself someone 10years younger? Pity's sake CMMP! I can see you love her. Real love can be hard to find. It involves comparability, not just age, or hair colour or anything else. You also have a shared history, which creates a very strong ... (read in full...)

Should I get rid of this guy because he seems to be hiding something? I'd love to hear your interpretations of his text messages

Q.   I have had the most awful experiences with online dating, and am really skeptical about every man I meet now. I'm not sure if I'm looking for red flags because I'm so afraid of not spotting them. I've been on three dates with this 29-year-old...

A.   24 April 2014: Tell him that you want to see where he lives as part of getting to know him better so arrange to meet at his for coffee first, on your next date. Insist. You need to know who he is and more about him. If he won't let you,don't see him again. ... (read in full...)

If it's over, why does he care?

Q.   I had recently connected with an old boyfriend via Facebook. When I was 20 and he was 28 we dated on and off for 3 years but he ended up breaking up with me to marry someone else. We went our separate ways, both married other, had kids etc... ...

A.   24 April 2014: I met my husband under exactly the same circumstances. I should not have rushed into it and believed that the relationship was over, because it wasn't. He had to grieve, it took 6 years for the end of his 25 year marriage to be got through. I ... (read in full...)

Should I call or let it go?

Q.   I have been dating this guy for 8 months. He says he loves me,he compliments me,but at time he nick picks me from my head to my toes. I have told him it makes me feel uncomfortable, he says I am too sensitive. He is good when he is good and he is ...

A.   19 April 2014: He is emotionally abusive. I married someone like that and it was one of the worst decisions of my life. Things ratcheted up and he made me feel I was being unreasonable, then complimented me. He would show me up in front of other people. He would ... (read in full...)

No longer engaged because of his habit of staring at other women. I don't know what to do!

Q.   I've been seeing a guy for 2 years. We generally get on well and plan to live together soon, we got engaged recently - that's on hold now... and I'm really not sure about it all because of one massive aspect of his behaviour. He has had this sta...

A.   19 April 2014: I once had a boyfriend who wanted to move our relationship to a higher level and he was almost perfect. However, I was troubled by the same thing as you. He would fix his eyes and linger way too long on other women. I know they noticed. It was ... (read in full...)

My friend down the street is befriending my worst enemy who also lives on the same street!

Q.   A few months ago my neighbor (who used to be a friend) called my husband up and proclaimed her love for him and with no inhibitions said she wanted to sleep with him and divorce her husband. My husband told me right away and we have shut this ...

A.   17 April 2014: One thing Honeypie said.... was there something in it? What happened to make this woman tell your husband she loved him offer to get a divorce (?!) and for him to tell you to keep away from her? Has she been getting comfort by speaking to Jill about ... (read in full...)

Recently single and want to take it slow

Q.   Dear Aunts, I recently ended a very serious long-term relationship with my girlfriend of many years. This was a woman I felt I might marry and the breakup was difficult for me. It made me question a lot about my judgement and indeed whether p...

A.   17 April 2014: You had a long term relationship but did not marry. Perhaps you are not the marrying kind? Plus you have several empty? houses? If I were she I would wonder why. If she had the same economic profile as you it would be better, but she does not. ... (read in full...)

Should I stop seeing him if he doesn't pay for tomorrow's date?

Q.   Is this going to be history repeating itself, and if so, what should I do ?. I used to date a guy whose money would go really quickly when he got paid, and then the week after he got paid, he would ask me for money because he didn't have a...

A.   17 April 2014: Agree from next time agree to split the bill as a general rule? Also if one of you is a bit broke why not make a picnic and have a nice walk, or cook dinner. Don't get obsessed. It can be the thought, or effort that counts rather than the money. It ... (read in full...)

He changed his relationship status and I'm confused!

Q.   Hello all:) okay so here is my question... i met this guy online about 6years ago. A year later i finally agreed to meet him, and it was great - no awkward silences etc. It felt as if i had known him my whole life. he works on cruise ships, an...

A.   17 April 2014: I agree with the others. If you would like to have a meaningful relationship with your boyfriend treat him as you would like to be treated. Playing with fire is fun but if one of your aims is to have a family and all that it would be better for you ... (read in full...)

Why won't these lusting feeling leave me alone about a man whom I know is taken?

Q.   Dear Cupid , I am really in lust with this guy I have tried to fight my feelings but my feelings always win.He is a brick house stallion this man is taken and I know this. But we flirt back and forward with our eyes that's all but i really want to ...

A.   17 April 2014: Imagine him in the bathroom making a lot of wind or blowing his nose. ... (read in full...)

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