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anonymous
writes:i had a breakup because of some problem...she was one of a kind smart decent responsible polite extremely caring inshort a unique personality and a GREAT GURL! but our relationship had to end one day because i didnt feel for her that way! she was kinda very serious about relationship whereas i wanted to stand on my own feet first and just wanted to date her because she was a real sweetheart to be with!it has been 2 days to the breakup and i cant control my thoughts ...i miss her talks and the way she took care of me! im rather confused about my feelings towards her 1) when she is with me i kinda regret it and remind myself that she isnt the one i was looking for and that i should let her know about my true feelings! 2) when she is not with me i miss her badly and cry every 10 minutes ! is it just the addiction we have? even she must be suffering at the other end crying like hell! we have taken a break for a week before starting our friendship because neither of us can afford to lose each other completelyotherwise i'l end up marrying a girl i dont love and i dont wanna spoil the poor girl's life as she was damn serious about us! i understood the seriousness of the situation ,took the initial step and departed! i am idle for 2 months and dont have any work...this is worsening my condition and i feel like going back to her which will again invite unwanted feelings in me... how to overcome this ? what if she tries to contact me ? should i respond to her in this week's time ? everytime we talk after the breakup, those old feelings come back and we cant control our emotions ...and we find each other back into it again!
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reader, bobbles32  +, writes (3 April 2009):
 Well, make up your mind. You can either be with the girl or you can't. It seems like you two either A) Love Drama or B) Have no idea what's going on. It's quite simple really, If you want to be with her then be with her. If she's taking things too fast then let her know and talk to her about it. Don't just run away.
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