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The number of my weight is causing a lot of anxiety and depression, and I can't get away from it! Help?
Q. I know it's not a love question, BUT... I'm a girl who used to suffer from anorexia and bulimia in high school. Now I pretty much just fantasize about being a stick again, ooh and ahh over thinspo, and feel incredible anxiety after eating ANYT...
A. 25 April 2008: I think ur weight is good for ur height, im no doctor, im 5 feet tall and i weigh 113.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to watch me with another man - healthy and normal??
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 months. We have always been very sexually active and comfortable with speaking openly about what we want in the bedroom. About 2 months ago, during phone sex, he brought up how he wanted to watch me ...
A. 24 April 2008: Dont do something like this to please a man or u will not feel good about it afterwards, he may also turn it around on you, u never know, i think i could understand it more if it were a woman he wanted to see u with. People r very open sexually now ... (read in full...)
We only dry hump so his penis has never even been near my vagina. Could I be pregnant?
Q. Now, I SWEAR to you, I’ve never had a penis in my vagina. My boyfriend and I have done just about everything else though. We commonly dry-hump in nothing but our underwear… and I give him hand jobs, but he’s never cum anywhere near my vagina. ...
A. 24 April 2008: how about trying a pregnancy test????? Go to ur local store and buy one that way u have a clear mind. Some ppl miss there periods like others said for different reasons. i have never heard of anyone getting pregnant that way but if u decide to ... (read in full...)
The number of my weight is causing a lot of anxiety and depression, and I can't get away from it! Help?
Q. I know it's not a love question, BUT... I'm a girl who used to suffer from anorexia and bulimia in high school. Now I pretty much just fantasize about being a stick again, ooh and ahh over thinspo, and feel incredible anxiety after eating ANYT...
A. 24 April 2008: God gave u tast buds so u can enjoy foods. Thin ppl eat all kinds of foods they just moderate what they eat. You are taking metamucil probably to make u go to the bathroom alot to get rid of ur calories but focus on what u are putting in ur body ... (read in full...)
I'm married and I want to avoid an affair at work. Will avoiding this guy do the trick?
Q. A guy (I'll call him Al) at work and myself are strongly attracted to each other. I am married and when I first starting working there 2 years ago he interested to know if I was married because Al wanted to get together with me. We look at each ...
A. 24 April 2008: An affair is a symptom of a marriage in trouble, the problem here is that. Find out what is missing in your marriage, if ur are looking for attention in an other man u will find it anywhere not just at work. Save ur marriage, the single life is not ... (read in full...)
I met this man who has a live in girlfriend. I really like him, but should I run?
Q. ok ppl here it goes, im getting divorced, i met a man, i really like him, he lives with a girl, not married no kids for 5 years says he is unhappy, i have not had sex with him. He wants to be with me and says it will take a while to leave her that ...
A. 24 April 2008: Thanx for the response he makes it seem as ""poor him"""no one loves him and i'm so nice, i am keeping my distance i hope i can be strong cause i feel really lonely and he makes her out to be such an unconcerned woman.... (read in full...)
I go to church, even though I gave head there, so I've changed! How do I let people know this?
Q. People make fun of me because of my "sex life" but it's passst ;; and i've changed ! in my "lifetime" i've given head to 3 people i have had sex once, but it was in a church, i've gotten fingered 4 times.....and i know it sounds bad but recentley ...
A. 24 April 2008: Go to a different church.... (read in full...)
He took advantage of me, and fooled around with my cousin, too! Is it my fault this happened?
Q. When i was at my aunts cottage in september this guy got my drunk and we ended up having sex. I only remember the end of it and how much i was crying cause i was upset about it being my first time and i didnt want to. but i dont remember what lead ...
A. 24 April 2008: No none of this is your fault, and dont think ALL men are like this!!! If you are a minor or your cousin is a minor i would report him that is sexual abuse and it is a CRIME!! I'm sorry your first time was so bad its not how it should be but now u ... (read in full...)
The number of my weight is causing a lot of anxiety and depression, and I can't get away from it! Help?
Q. I know it's not a love question, BUT... I'm a girl who used to suffer from anorexia and bulimia in high school. Now I pretty much just fantasize about being a stick again, ooh and ahh over thinspo, and feel incredible anxiety after eating ANYT...
A. 24 April 2008: it sounds corny but seek counseling for eating disorder, that does not mean u are crazy but somthing inside of u is making u look at this weight thing a little out of proportion and if u get to the bottom of it it will help you. its amazing the ... (read in full...)
My husband left me for his young mistress. Will they work out in the future?
Q. i am the typical story of the wife whos husband left for the young mistress. im sick of hearing that a husband never leaves in those circumstances because im proof that they do. He was happy until she came into the equation and then he completely ...
A. 24 April 2008: Statistically relationships that start as affairs hav e a 5% chance of working out, either he will leave her for someone or he will try to come back to you, there fore u have to decide if u wnat that or you want to be witha man that loves and ... (read in full...)
My new wife was not completely honest about her sexual past...how can I look at her the same way?
Q. I am married and recently me and my wife had another conversation about previous partners and experiences. I say "another" conversation because the answer this time around is much different than the first time we talked about it when we were dating. ...
A. 24 April 2008: she did not tell u cause u would probably not have married her, how many people have u been with? we live ina society that the more men a woman has shes a whore but the more women men have, hes consideres to be a better man or more experienced, we ... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant by my married partner for the third time, help me!
Q. im 24 years old have been seein a married man since 2005, i became pregnant by him around april 2006, he convinced me to have an abortion and i did, i went through this emotional rollercoaster but instead of moving on with my life i was dumb and ...
A. 24 April 2008: My friend statistics prove that most married men that have affairs go back with there wives. First i reccommend, not offensively, get on birth control or use condoms if u decide to still have sex with him. Pull back a little and see if this ... (read in full...)
How do I get ready for a performance? Any tips?
Q. This is not a relationship question but can't blame a brother to try. Well it has been four years since I stop singing but this weeken I'm about sing 4 songs in front of 60 people. I still sing but not solo but this weekend is gona be solo, so I was ...
A. 24 April 2008: mabye practice in front of u r family or friends first, drink something warm before the preformance it relaxes ur vocal cords and remember ur not doing this to compete at least i dont think u are, it is for entertaining someone and ppl are LESS ... (read in full...)
This is a cry for help from the Love Triangle!
Q. Help!The following is one part confession, one part cry for help. I need all the replys I can get. 5 yrs ago my boyfriend of 6 yrs,we'll call him NM, and I broke up. I was so upset because he left me in a really cruel way by staying out all ...
A. 24 April 2008: this question is very long what i suggest is that u look at ur life and worry about u for a change, men can take care of themselves and if u let them they will take control of ur life, then they move on and women get stuck with there debt and so on. ... (read in full...)
He tells me he loves me but he won't ask me out! Should I let him go?
Q. there is this guy i like for almost nine years. and he knows i love him. he always gets red when he sees me or smiles at me... hes aways joking around with me all the time. sometimes he say i love you but doesn't ask me out should i let him ...
A. 24 April 2008: Be his friend, some guys are really shy to ask a girl out especially at that age cause they fear rejection. Be his freind and maybe ask him out to a movie one day or icecream but if he is a good guy what harm is it go be friends?????... (read in full...)
I have a fear of blood. What will happen when I lose my virginity?
Q. Hello. I have a fear of blood. When I lose my virginity, I want it to be with a virgin. If she bleeds, I'm afraid I'm going to faint. The very thought of someone elses blood anywhere near me makes my skin crawl. What should I do?...
A. 24 April 2008: u are between 13 and 15 dont worry about those things now u will have time for that later if u start so early it will take u away from enjoying the age u are in, im not gonna lecture u about diseases or teenagepregnancy cause uknow all that just ... (read in full...)
I don't have the will power to keep my weight down and stay in shape! What can I do?
Q. Over the past few years, I've lost quite a bit of weight but I'm STILL not happy with myself at all. I have a lateral thigh trainer that I often use, and i've started exchanging snack type food for fruit and just eating healthier I suppose....
A. 24 April 2008: Thin people dont have will power, you are over eating cause its is probably a form of stress relief for u, and the more u ban urself from eating the more u want it which causes a cycle. I suggest u take the pressure off and make better choices in ... (read in full...)
What can I do to prepare myself for the abortion? I fear that it's going to be heartbreaking.
Q. this is gonna sound really stupid, but i've gotta go for a scan of my baby that i've recently decided to have terminated due to a change of circumstances with the baby's father. it is the eight week scan and i've been looking on the internet at pict...
A. 24 April 2008: i would not like to be in this situation, i helped a girl once that was gonna have an abortion a 4 months of pregancy, he became my Godson and she loves her son, he changed her life and made her a better person, yes its hard but it can also change ... (read in full...)
How do I turn down a guy I've been having an affair with? I don't want to hurt his feelings.
Q. I had an affair with this guy and have managed to get over him. I haven't told him about this and he's still expecting some intimacy. How do I turn him down without hurting his feelings?...
A. 24 April 2008: My dear same happened to me and i held it out for almost a year. After i left him 4 months later he got married, i was so darn worried about HIS FEELINGS i left mines aside, now he is happily married and my m arriage is torn apart, think about ... (read in full...)
How do I move on with my life?
Q. How do you forget about someone and get on with your life?? I was having an affair with a married man for 4 months and it has now ended as we've both decided to make it work with our current partners (he has 3 children). We have both told our ...
A. 24 April 2008: I had an affair but im still separated, the same thing happened to me. I realized i had the affair, not an excuse, because my marriage was in shambles. The first months is terrible. its like a death, i would cry and miss him, however the jerk is ... (read in full...)
I have found God and decided against my relations with me. Will this leave me lonely?
Q. When I was growing up, I was sure that I would turn out gay. My first crush was for a guy who lived down my street, and later, in adolescence, men featured in my fantasies. Then a girl came along who blew my mind. We were together throughout our ...
A. 24 April 2008: im not gay, my mom was so i have a place in my heart for ppl that are gay im also a believer. There are ministries that help ppl in ur situation if u google it im sure u will find some. I suggest u become confident with urself as a man and just ... (read in full...)
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