Weekend's with my boyfriend's children leave me feeling like a slave
Q. Hi Hope you can help me. I am 33 years old. I have been with my partner (not married) for 2 years. He has 2 kids whom I love to bits and I don't have any, but my fella does want more with me. When my boyfriend was in his late teens, ...
A. 27 May 2013: use tough love and stand up to them! refuse to give in to the mom-or the kids-...shes just trying to cause problems. if the kids disrespect you take something away for a period of time. if they keep disrespecting you take something else away. ... (read in full...)
Don't want to date this guy, but I still want us to be friends.
Q. Hello everyone, My situation I am in a bit of a pickle. I went on a nice date with this guy and a movie, but I don't want to date. This guy I met in my town just started talking to me and having conversation with me. And we chatted, and he ...
A. 26 May 2013: i've always found the direct honest approach to be best...tell him you had a good time but youre not interested in him that way. depending on how he takes it will help you decide if a friendship is possible. alot of times guys cant handle being ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a subscription to zoosk. Should I worry?
Q. I have just found that my gf (2 years) has a subscription to zoosk. Should I be worried ? I feel angry and betrayed. I assume zoosk is an online dating site ? I reckon she is up to no good? Could anyone advice me on how I should approach this?...
A. 11 May 2013: talk to her calmly about it! i personally have alot of friends i talk to on dating sites iv joined years ago.... (read in full...)
I've been on the couch for a week because wife goes through my account and sees things she doesn't like
Q. Ok, so a few years back, an old girlfriend looked me up on Facebook. At the time I didn't know how to not accept it. I just keep clicking "ignore". After about two weeks of clicking ignore, I got tired of the message always popping up so I accepted ...
A. 29 March 2013: make her go sleep on the couch! shes being ridiculous...has she always been this controlling/jealous? ... (read in full...)
I want to get married but my partner's been married twice before and doesn't think he wants to marry me!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for going on 2 years. He recently told me that he loved me but wasn't in love with me. But he wanted to be. He said that he wanted to work on things. He stayed. Now he says that he loves me. And he is glad that he ...
A. 23 January 2013: in my opinion some people just aren't meant to marry and your bf finally realized he's one of these people. you either need to accept this or break up with him.... (read in full...)
Her parents are unhelpful and her bi-polar is not medicated as her parents can't afford it. I care about her deeply, but what can I do about supporting her, now that I have less time?
Q. Bit of background information: I'm 18 and about to enter my second semester of college, my Girlfriend is 17 and in High School. We've been dating for over a year now. We started dating when I was a Senior in High School. We saw each other every ...
A. 30 December 2012: http://www.mdjunction.com/forums/bipolar-type-ii-discussions/general-support/111857-free-meds-for-low-income
i found this link after doing a search...also she should talk to school counselors for help.... (read in full...)
Saw my best friends fiancée on a dating website. Should I tell him?
Q. I have joined a dating site. I have seen a profile of my life long best friends soon to be wife. She is active on it and it says she is single. What do I do? If I told him would it end up where she lies to him and I get classed as a trouble causer? ...
A. 2 December 2012: send him a link to the profile and tell him you find this profile very interesting...dont tell him who it is.... (read in full...)
Troubled by a dream - what do I do?
Q. I'm worried. I am 16 and I am fantasizing about my dad. Not all the time or anything but sometimes he just pops into my dreams and I don't normally have sexual dreams. It scares me. He's never done anything inappropriate and I wouldn't want him to ...
A. 23 November 2012: i used to have terribly violent dreams every now and then...they scare the crap out of me!!! i talked to a psychiatrist about them once and she suggested certain chemicals in foods might be the cause...msg i think its called. im not sure if that ... (read in full...)
I love this guy, and I want it to work. So how do I handle him calling me "fat"(I'm not), and commenting on girls he thinks are hot?
Q. Straight to the story, Been dating this guy for 2 months now. Everything was perfect, he is the sweetest person ever! Just one problem and i don't know if i should feel insecure or not! Or what i should even do, i feel like shit! He is very ov...
A. 14 October 2012: RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! things will only get worse! this guy seems like a major control freak...things will only get worse.... (read in full...)
Guys, if you're not interested in a girl, would you still talk to her every day online for long hours?
Q. Hey,guys,if you're not interested in a girl on a romantic level,would you take the initiative to talk to her EVERY DAY for long hours(6-7 hours) on facebook chat or msn or even hang out with her one-on-one? If you're not interested in her,would you ...
A. 3 October 2012: Would it be possible that you only see her as your PLATONIC friend who's very talkative and funny so she can make your day when you're bored?...YES.
this isint always a bad thing tho. if you value his friendship than just friends is a good thi... (read in full...)
Fiance's world revolves around his 16 year old daughter with asperger's
Q. Hi This is quite hard for me. My fiances daughter is nearly 16 and she has aspergers. I'm finding this very hard to cope with. Its like she's 10 always something wrong with her and when there is my partner has to drop everything and run for her,its ...
A. 23 September 2012: yups hes coddling her! i bet he doesnt realize it but hes doing her more harm than good. my son who has autism/aspergers expects me to jump when he needs or wants something...i used to but this past year or so iv been pulling back and hes become a ... (read in full...)
Tips for a mind blowing blowjob?
Q. I want to give my boyfriend an incredible blowjob? What can I do, I'm not ready for sex just yet, and I have only ever given one blowjob in my entire life and that was with him, my first time ever, and he said I was very good that it was "awesome"...
A. 24 September 2011: suck on a mint or a throat lozenge with vapours at the same time... (read in full...)
What help is available to give us some support? My Step son is terrorising the family with his behavior.
Q. This is very long but there is no way to shorten it. I have been in this relationship with my GF for 3 1/2 years now. She has both a daughter (8yrs) and a son(11yrs). My relationship with the daughter couldn't be better. It's the step son. H...
A. 29 August 2011: it sounds like he might have o.d.d.-http://psychcentral.com/disorders/sx73.htm . my son, who was abused for years, suffers from this. he used to be way out of control for years but since iv started standing up to him consistantly and setting strict ... (read in full...)
Is there anything that could justify what he did to me? Or should I leave after his Domestic Abuse?
Q. I have a question..my boyfriend and I got in a heated arguement and I threatened to kick him out. He got irate and pulled me out of my chair and threw me on the floor. I have threatened this before and he got upset before but then we made up and ...
A. 8 August 2011: get rid of him...call the police if you have to! if he "touches" you once hell most likely do it again... (read in full...)
I feel as if my boyfriend is still playing childish games with me, while I want a grown-up relationship! I'm sick and tired of this nonsense
Q. After expressing my needs wants and desires to my boyfriend he said he wanted the same things and we made a plan to move forward...Its been over 6 moths and still no forward movement in our relationship. We made a timeline and told him th...
A. 7 August 2011: 1. Is this emotional blackmail? YES!!!
2. Is this behaviour normal for grown men around the age of 40? NO
3.How long should I wait to pack up the rest of his things and ask for him to get them? imo since he pulls this crap so often after 24 h... (read in full...)
Pregnant during your period?
Q. Can I get pregnant during periods?...
A. 3 August 2011: yups happened to me!... (read in full...)
Is it okay for a beautiful woman to be narcissistic, rude and conceited?
Q. Right so I have this friend who is a woman. She's gorgeous. At first I fancied her a bit, but we soon realized it would not work. So we've remained mates. Thing is, she gets very conceited at times. She tells me these stories about guys she date...
A. 30 July 2011: omg i hate females like her! She acts this way because shes spoiled. shes never gonna change till people stop catering to her
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Is the reason I am alone because I have too many rules for guys to follow?
Q. I recently met a guy who seemed really great and like he was exactly what I was looking for... he even took my number when I said that "I don't call people". But when he called me, I wasn't home, and he didn't leave his number. I have no way to get ...
A. 30 July 2011: nope your doing what you need to do to make guys respect you!!! i understand youre lonely but if your too available guys end up treating you like crap!... (read in full...)
What's my problem: my appearance or my attitude towards sex?
Q. Dear cupid, what is wrong with me? I am 30 yrs old female, physically handicapped and I use one axillary crutch to move and I am petit. I have nice features or at least I think!I mean, I am not unsightly:)This is the problem: I have never had a ...
A. 28 July 2011: hmm this sounds familiar...i was kinda in the same boat. im disabled too but i used to b heavy and depressed. i used to use guys for attention! i enjoyed the attention while i was getting it...had sex w/random guys just to keep them around but as ... (read in full...)
Am I being a drama queen? I threw him about because of his flirting with this girl and his dream about having sex with her!
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for over a year. a few months a go this girl he used to work with text him saying her boyfriend dumped her she'd sent it to her phone book slagging him off so didnt think anything of it .then a few days later when he ...
A. 28 July 2011: nope...i feel you did the right thing. i cant stand liars! if hes gonna lie about the texting i wouldnt put it past him to cheat.... (read in full...)
If this guy is serious about meeting me, is it reasonable for me to ask to meet him half-way?
Q. Hi Readers, I need some advice please. I have been in contact with a guy in Sydney over the last 2 and a half years. The contact to be honest has mainly involved pics and phone sex, a little bit of chat about life etc although to begin with he di...
A. 27 July 2011: I think that this is a reasonable request and if he says no I believe this will reveal that he is not that serious about meeting me at all and was simply just looking for free internet and phone sex and possibly could have just used me up in a hotel ... (read in full...)
He hasn't said anything about last night......
Q. I am living with my boyfriend. We are together a year now. He has a 7 year old son. He had to work last night so I was babysitting his son. I hadn't heard from him all night so at 10 I text him and said we are off to bed and what time would he be ...
A. 27 July 2011: not sure what kind of advice i can give except stay calm and good luck... (read in full...)
How do I get it across to him that I want him back?
Q. ive made such a mess of things and Im so depressed about it. I finished with my boyfriend 2 weeks ago because of something so trivial. A couple of days later I realised Id made a mistake and told him I wanted him back. He said he needed time to ...
A. 27 July 2011: it sounds like youre playing mind games...leave him alone... (read in full...)
My fiance's butt stinks....how do I tell him?
Q. I have been dating my fiance for four years now. And theres this small little issue that KILLS me, and grosses me out and i dont know how to tell him without it hurting his feelings. I'm really embarassed to talk about this, but...something needs to ...
A. 26 July 2011: has he tried like baby wipes? i have coordination issues and stuff so sometimes its hard for me to wipe but since i started using wipes im alot cleaner.... (read in full...)
How can I stop my lack of trust towards women and the fear of unknowingly raising another man's child from affecting my relationships?
Q. Hi guys,something has been bothering me for a very long time and has affected my relationships with women big time! From an early age among friends and family members many have accidentaly discovered that one or two of the kids they were raising ...
A. 25 July 2011: i totally understand your concern! id be upfront and honest with the women you date/have sex with that if they fall pregnant and suspect its yours youll demand a paternity test as soon as safely possible.... (read in full...)
Any tips for my first meeting with my online boyfriend?
Q. I am taking all the precautions, being safe, public place, telling my friends etc etc. My question is, is it normal to be so unsure of everything? I like him a lot, but I feel nervous, that he wont like me at all, that maybe we aren't meant to ...
A. 23 July 2011: being unsure of yourself is totally normal...he probably feels the same way lol. just be yourself and dont let him pressure you into anything youre not ready for!
good luck... (read in full...)
Movement in my stomach, What could be causing this?
Q. Okay I am VERY sure I am not pregnant. About 11-12 weeks ago I had sex. Anal none the less. It was 3 days after i started a new pack of the pill (which i have been on for over a year now) Off and on I feel movement in my stomach...I am n...
A. 22 July 2011: could it be gas?... (read in full...)
Can being nervous mean a man can't keep an erection?
Q. I recently went home with a man I've had a crush on for the past year or so. He is twice my age and we've known each other in a strictly professional capacity, so it was quite unusual and exciting to have the chance to sleep with him. When we got to ...
A. 18 July 2011: yes performance anxiety...its common... (read in full...)
Are all men into kink?
Q. I mean, really, dating at age 49 seems like I have to deal with a lot of kink. And they're bloody upfront about it too: I go to a singles dance mixer night last night, and these are the chatty pick up lines blokes used, "what do you like in a man?" ...
A. 17 July 2011: far and few between!!!... (read in full...)
Is dating this girl worth losing a friend over?
Q. Okay so im haveing alittle trouble deciding what to do. So ill start off in the begining So my freind started dating this girl. they were going out for the past 4 months and in that time the three of us would hang out alot. Now my friend is kinda of...
A. 14 July 2011: nope imo she doesnt sound like shes trustworthy or worth the risk.... (read in full...)
Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating?
Q. Is Cybersex/Sexting, with someone other than your spouse, cheating. This is past dirty messages and includes videos of them selves being passed back and forth. I have seen for myself. He says I'm overacting since he's not physically cheating. i ...
A. 14 July 2011: congrats for standing up to him!!!... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable to ask what he wants?
Q. Hi, I met a guy a couple of months ago .. we met at a bar, he works/lives down the road from where I live. Gave me his number and asked me to get in contact. It was brief. So a few days later I did. We spent 3 to 4 weeks of sending a handfu...
A. 13 July 2011: i chat ALOT and from my experience this is just a big turn on for guys lol. guys act more confident online cause they can be whoever they want w/o the pressure of having to prove it. he sounds fake like hes just looking for sexual ... (read in full...)
He controls me and runs back to his ex, should I forget about him completely, or can I have both him and my happiness?
Q. Am I the one in the wrong? So, I dated this guy who was very, very controlling. I wasn't allowed to wear make up to school, low-cut shirts, or talk to other guys to cushion his extreme trust issues. We broke up nearly two months ago but for the ...
A. 13 July 2011: RUN AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!!! this guy is abusive and its just gonna get worse.... (read in full...)
I don't think this LDR of ours is going to work out
Q. I dated my guy in a LDR for a year now... and now I dont think he is convenient for me, not only financially, but he has a brighter future on his country and me in mine country. So on top of all we only get to see each other once a year... in about ...
A. 10 April 2011: i agree with the way your feeling...if you already caught him in lies its probably not gonna work in the long run. ldrs are hard even if your honnest and faithful. hes probably cries to emotionally blackmail u.... (read in full...)
We have never met, but get on well. would it be OK to stay with her?
Q. We have spent a lot of time getting to know each other. There's a good friendship, we've chatted on the phone, I've written to her. We have learned to trust each other. There was a time when we flirted mindlessly, but then we went thr...
A. 9 April 2011: iv she offered it shouldnt be a problem...this is also a great opportunity to prove youre not just looking for sex if thats the case... (read in full...)
Boyfriend buying me suggestive clothing. Is it ok?
Q. My boyfriend has some different requests for me lately. He says I have a sexy little body and he would like me to show it off more. He has recently purchased some very skimpy clothes, like micro-mini skirts, tiny little shirts that show my stomach. ...
A. 6 March 2011: simple...dont do it! you dont have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable. if he breaks up with you cause of this then hes not worth it.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's son has no boundaries
Q. I'm at my wits end, please help! I met my boyfriend last feb. He works away alot and i see him most fri-sun but i dont mind because I love him. I moved in with him last year which was a big commitment for me as I've been divorced for ten years an...
A. 17 January 2011: im sorry to be the bearer of bad news but i dont think your bf will change...atleast not until something bad happens to the child to make him take notice. honestly he seems very selfish and the mother seems to either be uneducated or simply she ... (read in full...)
I thought I married a man, not a little boy!
Q. I am at my wits end with my husband and do not know what to do anymore. We have had issues for a while, I will address them, for two weeks he is good and then goes back to his old ways. My husband is 13 years older than I am. I have been successful ...
A. 31 December 2010: ok so your think because your son has only know the "daddy" that leaving will crush your son...imo your doing more harm by staying! what your son is learning is how to be a selfish controlling jerk. you have the means to support both you and your ... (read in full...)
Does anyone have a list of meanings for certain dreams?
Q. this is prbably going to sound stupid , but does anyone have a list of meanings for dreams ? likeabout someone dying , or me having to hide with one of my friends ... I have had a bunch lately of the same thing . does anyone have anything ? I some...
A. 17 November 2010: I sometimes even have dreams of things I know are gonna happen and they do...these are called precognative dreams. i have these alot...its wierd and scary but true.
Heres a couple links to help explain them-
http://en.wik... (read in full...)
Help me! I feel like a pathetic loser!
Q. i am a 15 year old girl who lives in Holland. I moved to a bilangual school recently which half of the lessons are in dutch. I feel like a pathetic LOSER because i am not white or dutch, I have such an accent when speaking dutch, all the other kids ...
A. 3 November 2010: my suggestion is to talk to a teacher or a counselor and try and get hooked up w/another student who can tutor you and mayb show you the ropes. its worth a shot!... (read in full...)
Is it adultery if we're separated?
Q. My wife and i been marrried for 3 years. I love her with all my heart. We had problems but we got past them. This time shes being serious on being done and wants a divorce. We been seperated for 4 months now and she started seeing her ex boyfriend ...
A. 16 October 2010: um i do know that in indiana if she getss pregnant while you guys are still married it will be your responsibility until a paternaty test is taken or you sign your rights off lol or atleast thats how it was 10 years ago.... (read in full...)
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