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writes:I dated my guy in a LDR for a year now... and now I dont think he is convenient for me, not only financially, but he has a brighter future on his country and me in mine country. So on top of all we only get to see each other once a year... in about 2 years or 3 we willbe finished with school and one of us will move to the other's country... but meanwhile..I really love him, but our schedules conflict and when I work he is home and when he works Im home! so we cna abrely talk on th ephone or anything...I love him, but I wished I had a bf to see some days a week...maybe see a moveie together, go on dates, or just cuddle...I feel lousy but I dont even feel our future would be sucessful!I Think that if I dated someone from here maybe it would be better, than suffering because I cant spend my time with my bf...I try to bring this up with him but he only cries, he doesnt help with this, also he much rather confide in his friends that are on his country and tell them their probs than me...Should I break up with him? I think a future together would be complicated, and I've caught him lying and stuff, and I think that eventually we could break up anyway, I dont want to waste his or mine time...maybe this relationship is not convient..what should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (10 April 2011):
 i agree with the way your feeling...if you already caught him in lies its probably not gonna work in the long run. ldrs are hard even if your honnest and faithful. hes probably cries to emotionally blackmail u.
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