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writes:We have spent a lot of time getting to know each other.There's a good friendship, we've chatted on the phone, I've written to her.We have learned to trust each other. There was a time when we flirted mindlessly, but then we went through a phase where we talked less, and got to know one another better as friends.It's since then we have learned to appreciate each other has human beings who could be attracted to one another. Not just a foolish short term instant gratification fantasy.She's kind, generous, and caring...we want to meet.Given the distance, I would have to stay somewhere, and she said I could stay with her. It was not my suggestion - it would be wrong for me to have suggest it. As it is, I am happy with it if she is...The question I guess is...is staying with her the right thing? Being a student, staying in a hotel would be a push (do-able though, if necessary)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionshe offered.i have looked, but not found anywhere affordable yet...wont give up though
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (9 April 2011):
 iv she offered it shouldnt be a problem...this is also a great opportunity to prove youre not just looking for sex if thats the case
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2011): Hi,How long have you been talking to eachother?I would suggest stay in a hotel just for the first time you meet with eachother,you havnt met her before,you may be already slightly nervous at the prospect of your first meeting so it might be too awkward to stay withThats what I would say, at least until you have met her face to face which is very different than getting to know somebody over the phone, totally different! so just be aware of that. Im sure you could find somewhere cheap enough that would do student rates.Best of luck, hope it goes well for you.
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