Is it adultery if we're separated?
Q. My wife and i been marrried for 3 years. I love her with all my heart. We had problems but we got past them. This time shes being serious on being done and wants a divorce. We been seperated for 4 months now and she started seeing her ex boyfriend ...
A. 16 October 2010: um i do know that in indiana if she getss pregnant while you guys are still married it will be your responsibility until a paternaty test is taken or you sign your rights off lol or atleast thats how it was 10 years ago.... (read in full...)
Online guy wants to meet and I'm not sure how I feel about it?
Q. hi everyone I joined a website plenty of fish(dating website) anyway found a guy havent met yet, only spoken on the phone but he wants 2 meet Basically we do txt but when hes texts me he says things like my hunni bunnie lover of mine, ...
A. 26 September 2010: iv been on this site for years lol. my experience has been that guys who want to meet this quickly are just looking for one thing...A HOOKUP! ... (read in full...)
Feeling a bit guilty about talking to an old date, what should I do?
Q. I'm in an amazing relationship, but I've realized that I need to make more friends in order to balance everything out. I spend almost every weekend at my boyfriend's place. We don't see each other during the week, because he works full time, I go ...
A. 23 September 2010: be honest and upfront...when you guys get together casually mention that you arent sure what hes looking for but you wanna let him know you have a bf. tell him youre interested in being friends but you cant/wont be anything more. ... (read in full...)
He told me to go blow my brains out!
Q. I was with this guy for 2 years and we used to live close by eachother.I loved him so much but we started fighting all the time and he has a huge temper and anger problem so I moved away from him and also broke up. I also realized that our ...
A. 22 September 2010: you need to understand some guys-especially those insecure and posessive-gave a hard time letting go...im putting this very lightly so as not offend the good guys. if he gets violent you dont have to put up with it...call the police and get a ... (read in full...)
12 year old boy caught "in the act"
Q. hi, im a single father and i have a question is it ok is my 12 year old son jacks off. I caught him in"the act" yesterday.i need help please help me....
A. 16 September 2010: yes its totally natural. dont make him feel embarrased about it. also if he has any sexual questions/protection questions this would be a good time to discuss them.... (read in full...)
Should I walk away or try to help him?
Q. I need to know if I'm wasting my time with my boyfriend. Here is a little about us we meet online june of 08 I didn't know he was married I just broke up with my husband of 22 yrs cause of his cheating. I find out he is married and I know I should ...
A. 13 September 2010: sorry to say but you get what you deserve. as the old adage goes...once a cheater always a cheater. if i were in your shoes id walk aways and start with a clean slate.
hugs!... (read in full...)
13 and may have missed a period......I'm so scared of being pregnant!
Q. Ok so im 13 and me and my boyfriend had sex,we used the take out method and now theres only 1 week of august left and i still havent had my period.I dont want to tell my mom that me and my boyfriend did anything but i did tell her i think i missed a ...
A. 23 August 2010: the first thing i advise you to do is call a women's care clinic...there you can get a free pregnancy test and someone to talk to who wont go report back to your parents! another thing is if you goto your local health department i know they atleast ... (read in full...)
From "Too Good to be True" to not answering my calls. Help!
Q. I have been dateing this guy of the late 3 months. when i met him I questioned why he wanted to date me. He has dated lots of beautiful women and is Friends with pro football players and nba players Me im just the girl from the neigborhood. I just ...
A. 30 June 2010: did he ever show you any proof of these amazing things? iv dated guys like this and the truth is most were just amazing story tellers. i asked for proof and hmm there was none--just more stories lol.
hun theres a good chance that he wasnt te... (read in full...)
I'm worried the man I have met online might think I am a gold digger!
Q. Hi all, I hope you can help me out on this one. I got talking to this guy on a free online dating site. He is a decade older than me and just instant messaged me out of the blue. We talked for a few hours online and exchanged numbers etc. H...
A. 9 June 2010: are you sure this is the same person? have you seen him on cam or just a pic? guys lie ALOT...just as girls do so be careful. i got mixed up w/a guy who told me this amazing story about how successful he was and stuff...we talk for years. we ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait if you want to keep a man?
Q. How long should you wait to have sex with a man you are seeing if you want to keep him?...
A. 25 May 2010: alot depends on the guy...i used to b real needy and sleep w/guys the first night. one guy i saw for like 6 months but it just felt like a never ending hookup so i got rid of him. fast forward a yr and were seeing each other again! hes ... (read in full...)
Everyone hates me, Please help me.
Q. Everyone hates me. I hate my school because everyone really hates me. I only have 2 friends that i can be with. But I'm bullied, teased at and I'm always being hurt emotionally and physically. No one really cares about me and I my parents said...
A. 25 May 2010: i grew up a fat ugly cow w/very few friends. ppl always treated me like crap...oh and im disabled also. i finally had enuf and did a total change to myself--i lost weight and gave myself a make over. its amazing how much a new look changes ... (read in full...)
How big a deal is your partner's past?
Q. how big of a deal is your significant other's sexual past? she recently revealed that it is many more men than she said at the beginning of our relationship, and she hinted that there may have been 2 at once. this new information makes mor...
A. 11 May 2010: i had a bad past where i was depressed and abused...i had a buncha different partners and didnt always use protection. i straightened my life out and got tested...luckily they came back negative this time. now i use protection all the time but i ... (read in full...)
How do I go about getting in my first ever gay relationship?
Q. First of all, I'm a 21 yr old college student. I came out to myself 3 years ago but only started to get more involved with the the gay community last year when i started living at school. Last weekend, me and a few friends went to a party. We ...
A. 23 April 2010: be honest and upfront about things...tell him about your lack of experience and hope for the best!... (read in full...)
18 months later and b/f still doesn't have a job..time to leave?
Q. Please can you advise me although I think I may know the answer already.... I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months after being friends for about 4 years. Previously I had always gone for 'bad' boys and was in a relationship where th...
A. 11 October 2009: its time to get rid of him! this type of guy NEVER changes...sure he might get a job for a while but hell go back to mooching i think. if you need to get the police involved but get rid of him! start your life over w/o looking back!!!
hugs... (read in full...)
Is this a case of emotional abuse?
Q. Ok I'm gonna try to make this brief. Ive been with a man since I was 16, married at 19 now 31. We have kids together. I have always been a stay at home mom for the past 10 years. Ive had some part time jobs on and off but nothing serious. Over the ...
A. 17 June 2009: i suggest contacting a local women's shelter for counseling and support. they can help you get out of this abusive situation and start a new life.... (read in full...)
Please help, I cant figure it out... am I being weird?
Q. I'm pregnant, I have been with my boyfriend for a year, he wants me to get rid of it, but I'm against abortion, and have even protested against it, it will go against everything I've stood for, but I am only 17. Should I give up what I stand for ...
A. 27 October 2008: when word got out that i was putting a baby up for adoption tons of people asked to b allowed to adopt it. theres tons of families just begging for a baby to adopt!... (read in full...)
My mom thinks I'm useless--what do I do?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have this problem with my mum. Ok, it started like this, i went out with my friends, she gave me 40 dollars. I was thinking of buying books but hesitated but when i got home, i found out that i dropped 10 dollars at the mall. I told h...
A. 21 August 2008: your mom was probly just upset u lost money! im pretty sure she didnt mean what she said...it was just said in the heat of anger.... (read in full...)
My childhood sucks! Need advice, please!
Q. Hey, im 13 and my childhood sucks!! but its not any1 persons fault.... its bout everyones fault mainly mine..... see i have a very large anger problem, a.d.d, and o.c.d.... i don't take any medication cuz they cost alot and i would have to be th...
A. 3 June 2008: no no no honey u need to get in touch w/a low income clinic! they can get u examined and medication for free. ... (read in full...)
My 40 y-o bf wants me to move in with him, I'm 16 and scared my mum will cut me off if I do
Q. I've fallen in love with a 40 year old man. He's everything to me and makes me happier than i ever been. I'm only 16, so there is a 24 year age gap. My mum hates him and is making life at home hell. All i want to do is move out, to live with this ...
A. 1 June 2008: isint it child molestation or atleast illegal for ui a 16 yr old to b w/a 40yo? what do u have in common besides sex??? how long have u know him? ur mother is just looking out for u.... (read in full...)
Why does my boyfriend reject my suggestions on where and when to go out and how can we resolve this issue?
Q. My boyfriend rejects my suggestions on where/when to go out. We’re in a long distance relationship which I feel insecure about as I’m unsure when I’m going to see him again. At first, my boyfriend was an attentive, loving and caring man (I think ...
A. 25 May 2008: this guy sounds seriously selfish!!! my advice to u is think hard about moving in w/him. he sounds minipulative and controlling.... (read in full...)
How do I lose weight from my breasts?
Q. How do I lose weight from my breasts? I am a 21yr old female, with a slim build, very slim waist and arms, and curvy hips. When I lose weight, I lose it everywhere but my breasts... they are DD's and I feel like I'm disproportionate. I have gone ...
A. 22 May 2008: imma 44dd and i know what ur going thru! i lost 65 pnds once and my breasts actually got firmer. it was sooooooooooooooo annoying! men r pigs and make comments to me all the time. iv just learned to igbore the comments and to use the attention to ... (read in full...)
When I ask my parents for things they either yell at me or get angry at me
Q. I am afraid to ask my parents for things and sometimes even a question. When I ask my parents for things they either yell at me or get angry at me. I don't know why. I ask them very nicely, and they just yell at me. Most of the time i'm afraid to ...
A. 22 May 2008: i had a problem similar to this growing up. as for the parent issue, is there another adult u can talk to about things? for me i went to teachers for advice...i was in special ed so the classes were smaller and i was able to bond easier w/my ... (read in full...)
Had a drunken one-night stand, turns out it was the boss's daughter, but I don't want to see her again! Help!
Q. I had a stupid drunken one night stand, in the morning I felt really sick about it because i was not at all attracted to the woman...I couldnt even look at her. I was nice enough to her and left not wanting to see her again. I went to work and on my ...
A. 20 May 2008: invite her out for lunch or something and be a total jerk...just hope she doesnt read this column lol!... (read in full...)
I need to get control of my life...things are very complicated and messy!
Q. this is a real question im 17 living with a guy 18 years older than me but he doesnt know im 17 he thinks im 20 and well while he is at work i have sex with strange me for money im also pregnant with the guy i live withs baby as i was pregnan...
A. 15 May 2008: for help w/the baby issue id call the woman's care center or a wic office. they can help w/nutritional support, emotional support and more than likely can guide u in handling ur legal issues.... (read in full...)
All I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this?
Q. Ok, I am going to summarize everything and all I want to know is if YOU would want to be with someone like this. My GF before she met me: Slept with 18 people, involved in group sex, cheated, had an abortion, stripped for coke, lots of one nigh...
A. 14 May 2008: get rid of her! what kind of future or present for that matter can u have w/a girl like this?... (read in full...)
A part of me wants him back, but I'm in an amazing relationship now! I have no idea what to do...
Q. sorry this will be abit long last year i started a relationship with a boy who lives a couple of hours away from me, we didn't really care at the time. but then we broke up because of it and it completely tore me up inside. we started to have a g...
A. 14 May 2008: does the other guy still live far away? if so it didnt work b4 and u say ur w/a great guy now...my advice is to stay w/they current guy and just b friends w/the other one.... (read in full...)
I'm scared of failing to please him. Giving him oral isn't working.
Q. I have recently hooked up with a new partner. After a certain amount of guidance from me he can give me fantastic oral. I have been told many times previously that my blow jobs were the best ever but I don't seem to have what it takes any more. Last ...
A. 14 May 2008: dont take too much to heart...some guys just dont get off w/bjs. dont beat urself up.... (read in full...)
Which one should I choose??
Q. i've been with my boyfriend for 3 years going on 4 and he's proposed to me and has my named tattooed on his chest i love him with all my heart. but we've been having problems and he hasnt called me like he should. i dont get to see him that much ...
A. 14 May 2008: hun if ur age group is true u way to young to b even thinking about marriage...thats my opinion anyways.... (read in full...)
Where can my friend get support to help her move away from her abuse problems?
Q. I nees to find some where for my friend to move to. She is being abused and is need of going out of state because she has six children and has to find some place to call their own....
A. 27 April 2008: she needs to call the womans care center or even the local WIC office. they can get her into a safe house quickly. sorry im not one for details but thats what i did when i left my abusive xhusband.... (read in full...)
Should I move to California to be with my boyfriend?
Q. okayy. my boyfriend and i have been together fer almost 3 months. ive known him for like 8 months altogether because he dated my best friend. we have a great relationship, im about to turn 14 and he just turned 15. the only things wrong with our ...
A. 17 April 2008: nope...keep ur happy a** where u r! honesstly u barely know the guy. u got a future where u r now...i suggest u just try a long distance relationship... (read in full...)
My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat!
Q. My partner of 4 years is very controlling about everything even down to what we eat. We recently split for a couple of weeks when i found out he'd looked at porn on the internet. We got back together after talks, because I'd seen what he'd looked at ...
A. 16 April 2008: RUN!!! things will not get better...guys like this only get worse... (read in full...)
Urgent! Pimples and blackheads advice needed!
Q. i need help!first i want to thank you for the help i already recieved!!!! how do i get rid of pimpels and black heads in my face???please its really depreasing so please help me...URGENT...
A. 16 April 2008: growing up i always had acne and nasty blackheads!!! then one day i decided to try not using all those expensive cure-alls. isimply staarted exfoliating (scrubbing) my face w/just water and a washcloth lol. it worked!!! i dont get acne anymore ... (read in full...)
Guys call me fat - this makes other guys unwilling to make a move.
Q. Guys have mixed opinions on me... I am not fat(as far as i'm concerned!) i'm size 14,but some guys often call me fat. Most of them don't,i'm CURVY.LITTERALY ..But the few guys that call me fat make it hard for the guys who tell me they like me to ...
A. 14 April 2008: why dont u make a move and ask a guy to hang out w/u? either that or have a friend intervene for u.... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and he's been abusive for 2 years.
Q. We started off happy, but then he became homeless so I was there for him, I slept outside with him some nights even in his car. I didn't want to leave him alone, we stayed at my parents a lot which is when they started disliking him. For 2 years ...
A. 8 April 2008: omg this is so easy...leave the bum and either get a job, do volunteer work, or goto a friends house... (read in full...)
I want to be able to touch or kiss him somewhere other than his penis to excite him.
Q. Hello, i've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and everything is fantastic. When it comes to the bedroom department though i can't do anything to really turn him on other than his penis. Whereas when he touches me somewhere or kisses me some...
A. 7 April 2008: have u tried kissing/lightly biting/sucking on his neck/ears/chest? guys love that!!! also sucking/lightly biting on his nipples will work too...try it sometime.... (read in full...)
After we broke up she "learned a few new things"! Having a hard time getting over the "she waited for me like a saint"! What do you think?
Q. I'm a 24yr old male who has been with a girl since the 5th grade from puppy love to high school sweethearts. This girl has always loved me ever since I can remember but I have always taken her for granted. Not because I don't care for her but ...
A. 4 April 2008: hey wait a min! swallowing does turn the guy on but it doesnt have to SYMBOLIZE anything! lol... (read in full...)
My relationship is an emotional roller coaster...he keeps yelling at me!
Q. So me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year. At first everything was great and he was so sweet and always there for me. Now he yells all the time and tells me what I'm suppose to do and I better do it. He dont want me to talk to anyone ...
A. 4 April 2008: get rid of him! hell never change and ull never do things to HIS satisfaction!... (read in full...)
He has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Should I give him a second chance?
Q. I have the most wonderful boyfriend. He treats me very well, he's respectful, loving, attentive, everything you could possibly want in a man, and I am madly in love with him. But he has a problem with anger when he gets drunk. Normally, he;s f...
A. 30 March 2008: it takes a big man to ask for help when he needs it! ur lucky ur guy is willing to try.
id say as long as hes working on his problems give him ur love and support.
support from a loved one goes a long way!... (read in full...)
My husband hit me--should we separate?
Q. My husband told me tonight that we should separate. He says if I went away for a year and lost some weight and sorted my pms, out he would reconsider. I am very hurt. Last week he hit me over the head with a glass and caused injury. He says it ...
A. 28 March 2008: screw the s.o.b.!!! my x husband was very abusive and when i went to call the police hed rip out the phone.
just because u "irritate" him its no excuse for him to hurt u. my advice is to contact ur nearest women's shelter and make plans to... (read in full...)
Please help ... Married just under a year and feelings for another man?
Q. I can't belive I am sitting here writing this. I am so sad and guilty ... My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years. We are high school sweethearts so to speak and have been married for just under a year now. My husband has some anger ...
A. 25 March 2008: is ur husband suffering from depression? if so mayb he needs help... (read in full...)
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