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Guys, if you're not interested in a girl, would you still talk to her every day online for long hours?

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Question - (3 October 2012) 8 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2012)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hey,guys,if you're not interested in a girl on a romantic level,would you take the initiative to talk to her EVERY DAY for long hours(6-7 hours) on facebook chat or msn or even hang out with her one-on-one?

If you're not interested in her,would you wait for her to go online so you can talk to her? If you're not interested in her,would you still talk to her online while you're busy at packing or cooking your meal?

Would it be possible that you only see her as your PLATONIC friend who's very talkative and funny so she can make your day when you're bored?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2012):

Yeah, blonde30s is right.

Take things slow and calculate your chances. May be he enjoys the company of this particular girl. And if he talks about this girl too much in front of you, then you know where his interest lies.

Good luck!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2012):

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of course I've seen him in real life.We're friends.

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (3 October 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony aunthow do you know he's single?

do you see him in real life?

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (3 October 2012):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntIf she were a "phone sex" operator I'd talk to her endlessly......

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

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No,the guy i'm talking about is single.He doesn't have a girlfriend.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

Guys never talk to gals for hours unless they're genuinely interested in them and moreover, when they're busy if they talk to somebody, that 'somebody' is really important to them. And if they're meeting one-on-one, the fact that the tryst is 'Platonic' can't be gulped. It's their way of fooling gals.

How on earth can a man be bored with a girlfriend around? He can talk to his sweet heart or spend time with her rather than this so-called 'friend' of his.

So, never buy stories like these. It's a shrewd technique of cheating around without leaving the plot to get caught. BE CAREFUL!

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A female reader, banditsmom1124 United States +, writes (3 October 2012):

banditsmom1124 agony auntWould it be possible that you only see her as your PLATONIC friend who's very talkative and funny so she can make your day when you're bored?...YES.

this isint always a bad thing tho. if you value his friendship than just friends is a good thing because if you try to date or something and it doessnt work out youve lost a good friend.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2012):

Yes, I would talk to her. I just wouldn't date her.

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