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writes:Hi, i am 16 and well....prenant. I am a couple monthes in. I havent been to a doctor so i ahvent been able to ask but... Well, okay so the first time i lost my virginity was when i actually got pregnant. ironic, right? anyway, me and my boyfriend are hanging out tonight and i was wondering... What happens if we have sex now? And what positions and such should we try considering the bump in my stomach. ??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): two months along is okay to have sex. you can use any position safely for now but in another month or so, you really need to be on top. when you lay or sleep on your back, it slows blood flow to the baby.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really do appreciate all the advice, have a doctors appt.
I just have one comment about one of the comments "If your not mature enough to not get pregnant..." We did use proctection. I wouldnt have agreed otherwise. I dont think thats immature
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (5 February 2009):
not to mention your doctor will beable to give you a due date and tell you exactly how far you are. you say you are a couple of months, but are you that sure? it could be more or less. if you are a couple of months then you really need to start getting checked and getting scans. you would be very irresponsible if you don't see a doctor. it's not just you, that you are caring for now.
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (5 February 2009):
 hi sweetie - first of all you really should start going to the doc regularly to keep tabs on you and your baby. esp if your a few months in.
with regards to the sex, you guys are fine!! there is no danger to the baby or you so dont worry, but like i said before do start going to the doc and i hope you two have a gorgeous baby!! xxx
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (5 February 2009):
 You've had some good advise so far. But do go to a doctor as soon as possible. If you are not mature enough to prevent pregnancy you probably need all the help you can get to work through NINE months of having a small life that effects everything you do physically and emotionally growing inside you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThannk You! And i appreciate your concern =]
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (4 February 2009):
just a question...why have you not been to see a doctor yet??????
you will need to tell your doctor as he/she will have to help you get signed into a neonatal clinic or something, where you will need regular blood pressure tests and a 16 week scan and then scans from then on to make sure that the baby is growing properly. go see your doctor!
as for the sex thing i think it is ok to have sex at that stage of the pregnancy, but as it;s your first you should check with the doctor when you see him/her.
make an appointment!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (4 February 2009):
 take it slow and spooning is good, that way ur bump wont be under any pressure at all. or you could go on top, just dont take it too fast untill your comfortable. talk to a doctor soon. good luck with the pregnancy, hope everything goes as planned, feel free to contact me at anytime. x
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