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Why do gay men like to talk about sex in public? Is this in fact true?

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Question - (3 February 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 February 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Why do gay men make point of talking about sex in public like in a graphic way . I don't know of any of my straight friends that need to fulfill such a urge.

Are they just exhibitional, is this part of being gay?

I find it kind of degrades them and their causes to be taken seriously.

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A female reader, aunty_rach United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2009):

you're telling me that straight guys don't talk about sex in public!?! please, i've come across far too many straight guys who like to talk about sex in graphic detail while in public. i think it's a man thing, rather then a gay thing.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2009):

Up until 40 years ago it was illegal for them to even admit to being gay. Even now, if you just read some of the questions on here, many people say that their lives will be over if they tell people they are gay.

Most people who are militant about their sexuality are those who have been made outcasts just because they cannot be attracted to women. In the same way that women are more likely to wear trousers when they have been forced to wear skirts at school.

It's a form of protest and a way of saying "We're here, We're queer, get used to it!"

If your friends do it then just say "Dude, TMI!"

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, XxAnGelXxx United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2009):

XxAnGelXxx agony auntI have 7 gay guy friends, 2 of them, who are a couple are my best friends ever, and I go out with them, now they never seem to speak about having sex in public, and other gay friends, they dont really do it either... Maybe its just a certain few who like the attention and like making a point that they are gay and speak about sex openly in public as a way of liberation?

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (3 February 2009):

Boonridge McPhalify agony auntits just attention seeking behaviour. i find it unattractive, its intended often to shock to make them seem extreme and outrageous. it just detracts form them the ability to be taken seriously. it whoreify's everthing, and can be found in slutty women and oversexed straight men.

its pure attention seeking

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