I keep masturbating, and that means I keep sinning. How BAD of a sin is Masturbation?
Q. Hi im ak, im 13 years old and last year i started masturbating...Its something i started to do 1 day its a long story...I LOVE God with all my heart and Masturbation is normal but its also a sin when not married..I keep repeating this sin, i ask ...
A. 17 October 2007: Fade878, I was going based on the article I quoted from a reputable Christian site (URL below). It said there was nothing that quoted masturbation as such. The sin was lusting after a woman who was not your wife. ... (read in full...)
14, Is my height the reason why I can't get a Boyfriend?
Q. I am a freshman, 14 years old, tall (5'8''), brown hair, brown eyes, smart, funny and sorta pretty, people call me pretty sometimes. I have a good personality and i have never had a boyfriend. I don't have that much self-confidence and i am really ...
A. 16 October 2007: My sister had the same issue. She was 5'11" by the time she was your age! My father always told her that the sexiest part of a woman was the confidence in her stance and the twinkle in her eye. By the time the guys caught up in height, she was ... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 16 October 2007: This might help for the URL thing:
http://weblogs.asp.net/scottgu/archive/2006/01/18/435870.aspx
It's "UrlRewritingModule w/ Regular Expression Support for ASP.NET 2.0" -- I haven't checked it out closely but I think it's shareware.... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!
Q. Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...
A. 16 October 2007: (1) ability to delete sent messages in the mailbox (I think the boxes that were supposed to be there have gone missing)
(2) ability to change our password and add a DOB if we forgot to add it while signing up (if it's already there I've missed i... (read in full...)
I keep masturbating, and that means I keep sinning. How BAD of a sin is Masturbation?
Q. Hi im ak, im 13 years old and last year i started masturbating...Its something i started to do 1 day its a long story...I LOVE God with all my heart and Masturbation is normal but its also a sin when not married..I keep repeating this sin, i ask ...
A. 16 October 2007: Masturbation as such isn't actually mentioned in the bible at all.
There's a good article about it: http://www.new-life.net/mastrbte.htm (scroll down past the warnings to non-Christians, to the section titled: "FOUR IMPORTANT TRUTHS FROM THE... (read in full...)
He cheated on me. Now he wants me back. What should I do?
Q. i caught my boyfriend cheating on me and i broke up with him now he wants me back,what should i do? ...
A. 11 October 2007: Run like your ass is on fire. Without trust a relationship just isn't worth it.... (read in full...)
What do I do? She's pregnant but I don't know if I want this baby.
Q. Im with this great girl who is 3-4 weeks pregnant just found out yesterday she is happy but im not sure if i want this baby at this time. i was married before for 3yrs and we are separated. Lately we have been talking and she is willing to make thi...
A. 11 October 2007: Regardless of whether you decide to marry the mother, you have responsibilities to the child. Marriage protects the child as well as the mother.
Stay in the mother's life right now. See how you feel about marriage. If you're not comforta... (read in full...)
I like to go out with my friend, but it seems the only place we can go is where I end up getting drunk and making out with total strangers. There must be more to life than this! Can you help?
Q. Hi. I have been going out to this place on friday nights where I go with my best mate. Its ok, but it means that I drink alot n makeout wit people that do drugs n stuff like that. I also hav to lie to my parents about where im goin. Theyd neva let ...
A. 11 October 2007: Try ordering a "cranberry & soda" -- especially if you like Cranberry Juice. Or any juice & soda, actually. It LOOKS like an alcoholic drink but it isn't. This should get you off the hook for fitting in. It will also leave you clear enough to ... (read in full...)
How can I give him his ring back?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend, but he gave me his ring. I feel like this is his way of still being connected to me, but I know if we have that connection he's still hoping that we'll get back together. What do I say when I return the ring to him, to ...
A. 11 October 2007: He may not have wanted it back because he didn't know what to do with it. Keeping it reminds him of the relationship. Giving it to another girl? Ick.
When you give it back, suggest he give it to his mother/sister. Tell him you don't plan to ... (read in full...)
Can't two people ever just fall in love, stay in love and not have to constantly "WORK" on the relationship?
Q. Has anyone ever been in a relationship where true love has lasted for longer than 5-7 years. I think I've just given up hope that true love can last for an eternity. I think for most women that "newness" feeling can last forever (if we are with ...
A. 11 October 2007: Yes, true love can last for longer than 5-7 years. But I'm sorry, it takes work. All the time, for the rest of your life.... (read in full...)
I gave my boyfriend oral. He said he liked it, but he never came! Am I doing something wrong?
Q. Hi, im a sixteen year old girl. I recently got a boyfriend, he and i love eachother very much. I tired giving him a blow job and i was in the car doing it for about fourty five minutes or and hour, and he didnt cum. We tried two more times and i was ...
A. 11 October 2007: He's used to the instant feedback he gets from his hand; he immediately knows what will feel better when he's doing it himself. With *you* doing it, he needs to learn how to let you know what feels good.
You're not doing anything wrong (as long... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't make herself up at all! Is there any way I can address this?
Q. I have a question about something that is bothering me regarding my GF. She refuses to get a tan of any kind. OK that's fine. She doesn't want skin cancer. I can appreciate that. I am 44 and she is 40. Today she met me for lunch but she did not ...
A. 10 October 2007: If you're ashamed to be seen with her, you're with the wrong girl. You should never date someone you can only be happy with if you change them.... (read in full...)
My husband gets angry when I'm not in the mood.
Q. my husband gets very angry when i do not give him sex is this normal or is it something i should say something about.he wants it up to 2 times a day and if he does not get it then he is in a very bad mood all day. what do i do?...
A. 10 October 2007: I'm sure this isn't good advice, but all I could think was "who has time for sex twice a day? Doesn't he work?!" Then I looked at your age, and thought, well, if he's that age too...
Seriously, though, his sex-drive is his problem if he can't ap... (read in full...)
Will I gain weight?
Q. Hey .. Okay I have been thinkin about going to the gym. I am naturally very slim but not fit at all whatsoever ! I would like to tone my muscles .. not build them and I would like to use running machines and things like that to enhance my fitness. ...
A. 10 October 2007: No, do not give up something beneficial to you for any guy. No guy is worth it. If he's going to be this jealous of you, it says really bad things about your relationship.
Don't let any guy manipulate you into giving up who you are. This is ... (read in full...)
Should I have sanctioned my girl to sleep with another guy?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm very upset just now. My girlfriend has left me, because she thought that our relationship was getting too serious, when we're such a young age. She did this, just over 4 months ago. Just before that time, she had planned to go on...
A. 8 October 2007: You said: "I'm sorry but how does; not being comfortable with my girlfriend sharing her bed mean that I don't trust her?"
Because you automatically assume that this means she's going to have sex. But as you set it up there were also going to... (read in full...)
Will I gain weight?
Q. Hey .. Okay I have been thinkin about going to the gym. I am naturally very slim but not fit at all whatsoever ! I would like to tone my muscles .. not build them and I would like to use running machines and things like that to enhance my fitness. ...
A. 8 October 2007: Muscle weighs more than fat, so you could gain weight. But it will look so much better and be totally worth it. Plus it takes more calories to maintain muscle than fat, so just by sitting there you'll be burning more calories. It will be a good ... (read in full...)
How can I open up and talk to my boyfriend?
Q. Me and my lover have been steady and happy for almost a year, but there is a problem. I love what he does to me, but I can't tell him when I want to, or what i want him to do to me. I kinda just hint my way through it, but more often then not, by no ...
A. 8 October 2007: This particular communciation is crucial to any relationship, and it's the most ignored. So I'm glad that you want to work on it!
First, tell him exactly what you've told us, away from the bedroom. Then, after you've told him that you want to ... (read in full...)
Should I have sanctioned my girl to sleep with another guy?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm very upset just now. My girlfriend has left me, because she thought that our relationship was getting too serious, when we're such a young age. She did this, just over 4 months ago. Just before that time, she had planned to go on...
A. 8 October 2007: Well, Penta said part of it. And even though I do think that it boils down to trust, there's also an incompatibility problem. She's not going to like the judgment and you're not going to like her choices. I think this would be a long-term ... (read in full...)
Should I have sanctioned my girl to sleep with another guy?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm very upset just now. My girlfriend has left me, because she thought that our relationship was getting too serious, when we're such a young age. She did this, just over 4 months ago. Just before that time, she had planned to go on...
A. 8 October 2007: Then you're better off without her and good riddance.... (read in full...)
Is it my duty to satisfy him?
Q. I still have feeling for my son father, they are not as strong as when we first broke up, but I do still have feelings and him keeping in constant contact does not help my "getting over him process". He is in a new relationship, I am in one also...
A. 8 October 2007: I agree with Penta. Phone sex is sex. And unless you have an open relationship with your boyfriend (that sex with other people is okay) then it's cheating. Sorry hon.
If your boyfriend wouldn't have a problem with it, if you told him, the... (read in full...)
My gf is insecure about how she looks. How can I help her get over this?
Q. Hi me and my gf have recently started having sex. W ehave been together over a yr and have been friends since infant school. It just she loves the sex,as do i. but she doesn't like the fact of doing it because shes taking her clothes off. She ...
A. 8 October 2007: You might show her this and let her know that you wrote it. Let her know, all the time, over and over, that you find her beautiful. And different men find different things sexy. For all the guys who like big-breasted women, there are an equal ... (read in full...)
Is my husband telling the truth?
Q. I have been married with my husband for 10 years, Last week while they were taking him some X-rays, I readed his text messages (It was the first time I did it)and I discover that his Research assitant was inviting him to celebrate something and that ...
A. 8 October 2007: Let it go for now; it sounds like he's ignoring her. You don't need to trust her, you only need to trust him. Since he works with her, he may not want to go out on a limb to get her to stop -- it could ruin his work relationships.
Do ask him ... (read in full...)
Is there a problem here?
Q. my boyfriend says he loves me and says he sees a future with me but doesnt call me much and shows little affection and care.what should i do?and what could be the problem?...
A. 8 October 2007: A guy who wants to be with you is going to make time to be with you. He's basically giving other things in life a higher priority. If he treats you this badly now, it will only get worse later. Decide what treatment you will accept (your ... (read in full...)
Should I have sanctioned my girl to sleep with another guy?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm very upset just now. My girlfriend has left me, because she thought that our relationship was getting too serious, when we're such a young age. She did this, just over 4 months ago. Just before that time, she had planned to go on...
A. 8 October 2007: Well, my initial reaction was that you should have initially told her that you assumed sex with him was OFF the table. If sleep meant SLEEP then you trusted her (even if you didn't trust him). It's a trust issue. Add to this that there would ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says I am moving too fast
Q. my girlfriend said im moving to fast and i just got with her recently what can i say to her by text to make her feel that i want her in a soft way?...
A. 5 October 2007: She may mean that there are too many emotions too quickly. ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend that I showed another guy my nipple ring?
Q. Dear Cupid I have been going out with my adoreable boyfriend for nearly a year now and things are brilliant however, I tend to get a bit too drunk when i am out with my girlfriends and last weekend I showed some random guy my nipple ring. ...
A. 5 October 2007: I don't think it's any big deal, really, except that maybe you shouldn't drink so much in the future.
Sometime in the future, you might say something like: I flashed my tit at a stranger in a bar once. Keep it light and make sure it's just a "... (read in full...)
I still care for my ex and when I texted him, he responded "I'm on a date, and she's cool!" What does this really mean?
Q. Hi everyone, My ex and I have been split for many months now. Throughout that time, until mid-July, we were pulling the "confusion" card whenever we saw each other, which wasn't much since we were pulling it long-distance anyways. In t...
A. 5 October 2007: Maybe the new girl saw that he got a message, and knew it was from his ex. So he typed that in, showed it to her, and sent it, so that she wouldn't be jealous. If that's the case he really does want it to work with her, so you need to get him out ... (read in full...)
His sexual past is really bothering me
Q. Im in a new relationship with someone and Im really confused about what to do. I find myself feeling really weird and jealous when I think about the fact he's had 5 sexual partners before. I really dont want to feel like this, but I don't know how...
A. 4 October 2007: (1) All vaginas look different. I'm absolutely positive that yours does NOT look weird. Try to convince yourself that yours looks beautiful; I'm certain that any guy will think so.
(2) If you're not 100% certain about this guy, then DO NOT have... (read in full...)
13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.
Q. I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...
A. 4 October 2007: I'm sorry you feel that way, Houston/TexMex. I think it will make any reconciliation more difficult. But I disagree very strongly that "most men" would feel that way. I certainly don't.
(And before you get all nasty on me for having an opini... (read in full...)
How do I tell my family he's older than me?
Q. This sounds really stupid but my parents are quite strict and i'm worried they wont let me see my bf who is 16 and in college (i'm almost 15 and in year 10). I don't tell my parents much anyway and this would be the first guy i've told them about. ...
A. 4 October 2007: I think "in year 10" means 10th grade rather than the year 2010...... (read in full...)
What does "giving head" mean?
Q. What does "giving head" mean?...
A. 4 October 2007: Sorry for messing up the page with the URL for the definition, especially since you have to cut and paste the WHOLE thing (not just the hyperlinked part) to get it to work.
But according to the definition, "giving head" is slang for oral sex on B... (read in full...)
Is it embarrasing catching the bus in front of the boy you have a crush on?
Q. Every night after school I walk up out of school to catch the bus home and the guy I have a crush on walks with me to the bus stop. But then I have to get on the bus and he continues walking home with his friends. I find it really embarassibng ...
A. 3 October 2007: I love riding the bus. It's better for the environment, and there are interesting people to talk to. Or I can read a book. If I have a choice between mass transit or driving, I prefer to drive, every time! Your guy may actually admire that in ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's sex drive has gone!
Q. hey, my girlfriend and i have been dating for 3 years...on and off, but she doesnt have a sex drive anymore. nothing at all, and she gets mad at me when i hint off or tell her that im still taking interest in you, and i want you etc etc also, on ...
A. 3 October 2007: Stina has a great start on things, but it may be more than that. Depression, stress, feeling too busy, all may be part of it. She may also be asexual, without knowing it. Check out http://www.asexuality.org/ (they're finally realizing that it's ... (read in full...)
What does "giving head" mean?
Q. What does "giving head" mean?...
A. 3 October 2007: Here's a definition: http://www.google.com/search?hl=en&client=firefox-a&rls=org.mozilla:en-US:official&hs=z2B&defl=en&q=define:Giving+head&sa=X&oi=glossary_definition&ct=title
and this is from wikipedia:
Fellatio – as well as cunnilingus ... (read in full...)
If I join the Army she won't marry me, what do I do?
Q. I was to recruited to join Armed Forces but my Gf told me not to join if i want to marry her,"Joining Army,u'll lose me,continuing with my current job we'll get married"Advice what can i do....
A. 3 October 2007: I can see her point, but you need to do what's right for you. You are only dating right now. It's not set in stone that you'll someday marry. And if you go, it's not set in stone that you'll come home.
Make a "decision tree" (decisio... (read in full...)
13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.
Q. I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...
A. 3 October 2007: male anon said: "Sure. Your wife could be a crack whore in her previous life and that's just none of the hubby's business since it's in the past. No worries Tex, these girls just hate men."
You realize that's ridiculous, right? Houston/... (read in full...)
Having a gay relationship with my cousin but don't want to break our families' hearts, I'm not even sure I'm a lesbian!
Q. Hi, Last week I finished with my boyfriend because i dont love him anymore. I have been going out clubbing with my girl cousin and she is a lesbian. I've recently started fancying her and i told her how i felt on a friday then she told me she has ...
A. 3 October 2007: If you are in love with a woman, then yes, you are a lesbian (or at least bisexual). But if you've discovered that, then hurray, you know who you are. Don't ever feel sad about finding love.
I'd be more worried about the fact that she's your cou... (read in full...)
13 years of marriage, she tells me now about a one night stand before we got together.
Q. I'm totally freaked out. My wife of 13 years just admitted that a few days prior to our getting together she had a one night stand(drunk) with a high school friend of ours who she barely knew. She has NEVER told me this even though we dated for 4 ...
A. 2 October 2007: So is every female who disagrees with you a "feminist pig?" Wow.... (read in full...)
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