Should i tell my cousin how i feel about him?
Q. hi (: ok well i think this is a bit uncommon and weird, but i have a crush on my cousin. the problem is he's 20 years old, but he's all i think about and i broke up with my boyfriend because of him. i am planning on telling how i feel about him, bec...
A. 30 August 2007: honey you can not begin a relationship with this guy simply because of family if you ever did get together if that how long do you think it would last?than when you separated their is no way of avoiding him because your family is all around you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend assures me this crush for another girl will fade away. Should I give him more space?
Q. My boyfriend and I are very much in love. We have been dating for 2 years and we are both 17. But there is one problem. He likes another girl. It's been about three weeks since I found out, and I was hesitant to stay in the relationship but there is ...
A. 29 August 2007: o gosh honey my girlfriend is in the same situation with her boyfriend she fancies another guy and has done things with him occasionally she reassures me and her boyfriend that she loves him and only him that this feeling for this other guy will ... (read in full...)
Would it be wrong to have a gay relationship with my ex-teacher?
Q. Hi everyone. I'm a 16-year-old bisexual female, turning 17 in November. Anyway, I've become very attracted to a 28-year-old female friend of mine. She's actually one of my ex-teachers, but we get along great and have loads in common. I geniun...
A. 29 August 2007: it kinda would honey your seventeen she may make you happy but both of you will want different things and have different experiances and times ahead of you becuase of the age difference she may make you happy but then i imagine you will find someone ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend keeps blowing me out for his best mate!
Q. My boyfriend and me are 16, weve been going out 4.5 months, we argue, but its only because of silly things, he keeps doing things to start off arguements, such as planning on seeing me then texting me last minuite saying he'd rather see his best ...
A. 28 August 2007: does your boyfriend know you ar feeling this way?he may not notice what he is doing to you otherwise honey he is playing games with your heart and i realise your insecurites may be ruling your head at the moment but you must overcome that and ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and met a guy on holiday. I love him but he lives 9 hours away! How do we work this?
Q. I met an amazing guy on holiday - we've slept together and already said "i love you" to each other. Now I've come back home to England and I miss him so much...I want to be with him and am considering staying with him next time I visit (in 4 ...
A. 28 August 2007: darlin think this situation over carefully there is no way it will work out you are way to young to understand what love is honey i know you may not like what i have said so far but it is the truth at this age you have no experianced real love you ... (read in full...)
I'm 14, went through depression and self-harm. I've feelings for a boy my age now, please advise.
Q. I'm 14 and i feel down. Until about month ago i went through 7 months of depression i turn to self harm. I lost my mates at school and got into fights every day at school, i try to walk away as i do not look for trouble it finds me. With self harm ...
A. 28 August 2007: honey im sorry to hear about the depression you undergoed i can empathize with that entirely as i have only recently began to recover from my depression the difference between yours and mine is that i never spoke to anyone about it and as a result ... (read in full...)
Worried she's developing feelings for me, as I don't reciprocate and she'd feel rejected! I'm her best mate.
Q. Okay i'm 16 and one of my closest friends is only 14. I have known her most of my life and we have always ben very very close and she always comes to me when she has a problem. However recently she has just broken up with her boyfriend, and i...
A. 28 August 2007: honey she would feel so much more hurt if you do not be honest with her friendships crave honesty along with feeling rejected she is also going to feel insecure,unloved,unattractive,confused,upset and so on your her best friend there is no suprise ... (read in full...)
Ive known him 6 years and like him lots but he just wants to stay friends. Do you think i have a chance in the future?
Q. I am in love with my best friend who i have known for my whole life. I have liked him for 6 years now and last year i told him how i felt. He said that he had thoughts about us dating too. But, he also said that it would be too weird because we are ...
A. 28 August 2007: I'm in the same situation with my best friend except i'm the one who doesn't love him, it's hard for me because i feel so close like he's my brother maybe he feels that way about you too? If so i would not dwell on the idea thay maybe he could ... (read in full...)
Whats the aerage size of a penis and do girls say size matters???
Q. This isnt really a question but it is something that bothers me and im guessing, quite alot of other guys. please could you tell me the size of ur penis flacid and erect. as for me im 1.5" flacid and 4.5 in erect. For women please could...
A. 28 August 2007: 6 erect is average honey im really not sure about flacid though honey personally i dont care what size my bf is or has been is not your size its what you do with it x ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting a guy i met on the net and am taking my friend with me. I'm positive he will prefer her!!
Q. I really like this guy, and we have been talking for about a month now over MSN and on the phone. We're supposed to be meeting on friday but theres something thats really troubling me. My best friend is coming with me, and I'm positive that he...
A. 28 August 2007: you can never trust people over the net and honey you seem to have insecurity issues its a shame you dont believe in yourself or love yourself it doesnt matter what your outter beauty looks like because personality is the sexiest most beautiful ... (read in full...)
A long term friend became my lover, then backed off. I'm feeling real low now. Do i forget about him?
Q. I have been friends with someone for over 20 years and have always had strong feelings for him since we met at college. We got together a couple of months ago and went away for the weekend for our first date. It was everything I had ever hoped for ...
A. 28 August 2007: theres no reason you cannot stay in touch honey a piece of advice i was once given "it shows a great quality when a person can be friends with the person they love when the other person feels differently" some great friendships are formed from ... (read in full...)
This guy at school is flirting with me, am I reading the signals right?
Q. okay im going to feel and sound very stupid for asking this question, lets just say im not the most advanced at dating but yea. well theres this guy who i really, really like hes 16 (im 14) an we've reasonably good friends, havent known each other...
A. 27 August 2007: he so likes you honey i think this could be the start of something fab you should talk to him about it ask him out guys love that! if your friends i really doubt he would mess you around this much for a laugh but if your not confront him as him what ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is flirting with other girls. What do you think i should do?
Q. Ok...first off my boyfriend is flirting with other girls and when were at school he barley talks to me and he never calls me, i mean is there something wrong with me i dont beleive so.! what do i do, should i break up with him i mean i like him ...
A. 27 August 2007: your so young honey!theres nothing wrong with you at all it just happens sometimes talk to him about it if he wont talk to you i would dump him because it just might be that he is trying to dump you by ignoring you as cruel as it may sound some ... (read in full...)
Ive liked this guy since 3rd grade. Do i just keep it as liking him from afar?
Q. I am 14 and i have liked this kid named paul since i was in 3rd grade and he was in 6th or 7th grade....im now a freshman and he's a senior now and we are neighbours....i dont know what to do..i really like him but he's a stoner and i dont think ...
A. 27 August 2007: think you should tell him honey becuase that way yo may both find some happiness you only live once and you know what they say "the brave may not live forever but the cowardley do not live at all" love and peace x ... (read in full...)
I dream about this girl, is it a crush? Any advice please..
Q. Hi, well this is my situation, there's this girl in my class and i just can't stop looking/staring at her, and i have no idea why, i even have a different feeling when i talk to her its just like i totaly act different and want to do things together ...
A. 27 August 2007: i think it might be infatuation honey i experianced it when i was your age you feel crazy and can not stop thinking about them at all try talking to her bet she feels the same , your hormones have just kicked in so your going to fancy people you ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and cant keep my erection up. Is this normal or a problem?
Q. hey..i've had sex with my gf quite alot of times.. but the other day..i cudnt 'get it up' (i trust you know what i mean lol)..it works when me or my girlfriend are doing 'things' to it .. but i cant seem to keep it up for any length of time when its ...
A. 27 August 2007: this is totally normal if you couldnt get a boner in the first place then there might have been a problem but as you have experienced you can get an erection you might not be stimulating it in the right way perhaps? have you spoken to your gf about ... (read in full...)
My fiance is out of town on business and doesn't reply to my txt. I feel like his friends are more important than me at times!
Q. Ok, so my fiancee is out of town for a week for business. I sent him a nice sms saying "have a nice day etc". For the whole day I have not recieved a relpy back. He wasn't online either so that i could msg him freely like he usually is on. I ...
A. 27 August 2007: your right for feeling second cord you should try and get him to listen to you. leave notes around for him to read, if talkings not working letters?if he does it all the time something might be up he might be going through something and just not ... (read in full...)
I told her I didn't love her the same way she loved me and now she's leaving the state because she doesn't want to hurt my relationship with my girlfriend.
Q. I'm like really confused right now ok so if this is long just level with me ok. Last year I started dating a girl who at first her parents hated me but now they love me, me and her broke up about 2 weeks after we started dating because I was more ...
A. 9 July 2007: you may find honey that you only love your other friend as a sister which you said you did love is more than just what we see in couples there is love between brother and sister which is as strong as couple relationships sometimes this can be ... (read in full...)
I want to get back together with my ex - should I wait until after summer?
Q. hey i posted a question a while ago.. saying i wanted to get back with my ex, and now it's summer and its hard to get close as friends with him, and also he is leaving for italy with his parents for part of the summer. I dont think he wants a ...
A. 9 July 2007: honey you should talk to him theres no point in trying to be in a relationship thats more than friends if he doesnt return your feelings i don't see why you cant be friends though what ever happens you should always try and stay friends you could ... (read in full...)
He was sleeping with people behind my back now he logs onto dating websites! What should I do!?
Q. hi cupid, i have been with my boyfriend for nearly five years, and last year he told me he had been sleeping with people behind my back. After a period of time of not being together he told me he had been stupid and wanted me back. So i got back tog...
A. 18 February 2007: isn't that cyber cheating? hes wreacking your trust you took him back for another chance but you do not trust him for a good reason too i do not think that you are reading to much into it he has clearly hurt you , broken your foundation if trust ... (read in full...)
I just want to be myself around him but I don't think he wants that!
Q. A friend of mine who I like as more than a friend seemed to like me back but said that he wanted to wait to sleep together. Before I met him I slept with one of his friends and he told me in the weekend that this puts him off wanting to sleep with ...
A. 18 February 2007: i think he is mentally abusing you, he is playing games with you indeedy that much is true. but what do you do? you really love him , you always want to be with him you feel as though your unattractive these are some reactions one might feel when ... (read in full...)
Should I come out to my rough and ready family?
Q. i am bi-sexuall and crossdresser i come from an lets say an hardknock family should i come out or should i remain doing it in private...
A. 17 January 2007: i think you should come out, i have friends who are bi n ther alot happier for 'coming out' , it should not matter what type of famlily you have, your family are the people that care for you the most they will always love you whatever you want 2 be ... (read in full...)
He's unhappy in marriage but I don't want him to use as an excuse to leave. What should I do?
Q. i have met a man through work. he has taken an instant liking to me, and whilst i thought he was a nice guy, i never thought anything more than that. on our second meeting, i realised he was very attracted to me, and we ended up in bed together. i ...
A. 23 December 2006: hes already cheated on his wife with you so no matter what you do now his relationship with his wife is messed either way and if he was cheating on his wife with you are you sure you want to be with someone who cheats?he needs to decide what he ... (read in full...)
He said he has trouble with his phone when I can't get through---do you think he's ignoring me?
Q. I fancy this guy at school. I think he fancies me but I'm not sure. Anyway the other day I told him I fancied him and he didnt say anything to me about it but he acted normally. Hes quite flirty with me. The point is since we split up from school I...
A. 22 December 2006: i think you may of scared the guy off but then some guys really cannot be bothered with phones and are more casual and laidback chillout a bit more you have done the chasing now take a chill pill and let him come to you... (read in full...)
Does he like me, or does he just want to be friends?
Q. what are the chances that the guy that i like told his friend that he likes me but his bestfriend told me that he wants to just be friends but he treats me special like someone that he shows interest more then a friend type?...
A. 22 December 2006: hes sending you mixed messages here babes you need to have a talk with him and get your feelings out in the open you can not tell if he likes you or not by what you have said but you have a shot so bite the bullet and go for it! ... (read in full...)
How can you bring a spark back?
Q. simple. im a gurl. with a guy. the relationship is going no where. we are difficult. and itz hard to communicate. not meaning to sound mean but i am bored. we could both use some suggestions to help bring back a spark. thanks....
A. 22 December 2006: do you too spend time together?it might be a good idea to some quality time together or spice things up a bit, try somthing exciting something new but if you realise that you have no feelings for each other or need space apart either have some ... (read in full...)
He's got much more experience than me so I'm scared I won't impress.
Q. hi I'm 17 and I've been realy close with this lad I really like more than anyone I have met and he feels the same! we have been seeing each other for about 2months now and he's quite expericanced I hardly am! I want to do things with him but im ...
A. 21 December 2006: if he likes you as much as he claims he will not be bothered by how much you are experianced be honest with him everything will work out promise just trust him a little more and b honest let him guide you, ask him to help you and wat not just ... (read in full...)
Am I selfish because I didn't have sex with him when he wanted it?
Q. I decided to end my 3 year relationship with my boyfriend because i felt we weren't getting anywhere etc.He txt me asking for me to see him before he goes away for 2 months to the middle east as he's a service man in the RAF.I went to meet him ...
A. 21 December 2006: yeah babes you were so right!if you didnt want to have sex thats it he should stop after you said no theres no ifs no maybes he should respect you and he clearly was not. this relationship was over for a reason all he wanted was a leg over you were ... (read in full...)
I have a bf, but my son's father keeps following me. I love my bf, but should I go with my ex instead?
Q. what is the diffirence or what you will choose between the person which you really have a feeling of love and to stay with him ( which my bf now ) or you want to stay with someone else which your past and a father of your son that you feel only pity ...
A. 20 December 2006: ur ex is harashing u , he clearly can not deal with u being with other ppl or not being with u and u need 2 tel him how his making u feel if he truly cares about u he wil leave u alone as thy say if u love someone u love thm enough to let thm go ... (read in full...)
Im really close friends with him and he uses the phrase Love alot, im confused!?
Q. Ok, there is this guy, we'll call him "Matt". We are really close friends. I like him but I'm not really sure if he likes me or not. What does it mean if Matt touches my face, or says "I love you" all the time, or, this is one he did recently, calls ...
A. 20 December 2006: he might jus be being friendly i can empathise more with 'matt' as i have a reali clsoe guy m8 tht ive nown since before i was even born we even grew up next door 2gether and i stil c him most days my parents refer to him as my default bf and ... (read in full...)
Did she cheat on me? She acts very different now. Please help. (Long post)
Q. hi i wonder if anyone can please help me as i feel so distraught inside right now. i am 20 and my girlfriend 17, we have been together for about 18 months now and she is the first girl i have been in a long and serious relationship with. my love for ...
A. 20 December 2006: i think se you may of offended her i mean criticsim form your lover is could but ppl take it in different ways good or bad i think she may have taken it negatively and you do need to decide what you want from her its not fair of you to say to her ... (read in full...)
My gf broke up with me. How can I get her back?
Q. my girlfriend of seven years recently broke up with me but i really want her back i love her so much what can i do. ...
A. 20 December 2006: babes i think you should move on its hard wen uve been dumped cuz uve gt after effects but she dumped you for a reason, i think you should giv her some space let it blow over for a while and see what happens after breakups ppl genereally need some ... (read in full...)
He was my first and now he's a total jerk and might be cheating on me!
Q. I have a feeling that my bf is cheating on me. He is being really distant towards me, doesn't take the time to talk to me anymore and he's being really mean to me nowadays. If there are problems in our relationship he will blame it all on me and ...
A. 20 December 2006: this relationship is so over im sorry to say the evidence is there and you blatantly dont trust him no more if you do y are checking his fone bils? this should b a clear sign for you that he is not treating you like you deserve to be treated as and ... (read in full...)
He lost his family in a car accident and he's giving up. What can I do to help him?
Q. My friend and his wife where in a car accident on the day there baby was due. The baby died that day in his arms..Three days later his wife died..My friend no longer cares about life.. He is angry and I think sometimes looks for ways to end his ...
A. 20 December 2006: your friend is depressd and maybe he blames himself but i dont now what you can do neither reali alll you can do is offer support for him as you have and are doiing so however, if you do get reali worried go to a gp or a professional and seek them ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?
Q. This may be a stupid question, but is it normal for guys to look at porn even though they are dating someone?...
A. 20 December 2006: yea its totally healthy porn allows them to expand there minds to what is out there i would not pay alot of attention to it it is nothing out of the ordinary ... (read in full...)
I like him but he likes someone else and now he's talking to me less and less. What can I do?
Q. Hi, I really like this guy and he told me that he liked me but also likes someone else alot and he might get together with her. before he told me this we used to talk alot but now he barely even talks to me even when i try talking to him, He's ...
A. 20 December 2006: sounds like he has moved on, i think you should too and if he stil does like you surely he would of made the effort by now but he hasnt and becuase u say his interested in another gurl it only reinforces what ive said he aapears to of moved on and ... (read in full...)
We get along great but he has a lot of baggage! Am I selling myself short and what should I do?
Q. Hello, I need help. Should I stay with a guy or not? I do love him, and we have an amazing mental and physical connection, but he has five kids from earlier marriage, and my family and friends are not very accepting of me being with him (only m...
A. 20 December 2006: marriage?marriage is a big thing to do as its a massive commitment if you get intellectually bored and you break up many times then i would not say that you are in a stable relationship , you mentioned love its a strong word to use do you live ... (read in full...)
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