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*OTHER WAR x
writes:hi (:ok well i think this is a bit uncommon and weird, but i have a crush on my cousin. the problem is he's 20 years old, but he's all i think about and i broke up with my boyfriend because of him. i am planning on telling how i feel about him, because in a way i think he feels the same way, but just doesn't act like it all the time because we both know it's illegal, especially because i'm not over 18 and he is. i really don't know what to do, i just wish we could be together, i really could wait 5 more years, but then he'll be 25, and he probably won't like me as much. :S any advice ?
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reader, MOTHER WAR x +, writes (30 August 2007):
MOTHER WAR x is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank you so much for your advice ! :)i actually don't like him that much anymore.. which is good i guess
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): i dont agree with what the person said below its not incest but you are to young you should give it till your 18 see how you feel and see how he feels but if you got together you could lose your family over it
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (30 August 2007):
 honey you can not begin a relationship with this guy simply because of family if you ever did get together if that how long do you think it would last?than when you separated their is no way of avoiding him because your family is all around you babie i would not take it as love because it is unlikely to be more like infatuation/admiration for him being older than you and for you age i imagine that in comparison to the boys in your year perhaps you feel that they are not at the same level as you?.if that makes sense, your going to be feeling a lot right now if you want it to work out wait a few years and see how you feel than you have a life get out there with the lads nearer your age range and have some fun there is plenty of time to commit yourself to one guy particulary your cousin i hope it all works out darlink xx
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reader, x_goddess_x  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 you cant really have a real relationship this called insest hello and say you did if you had kids they will be disabled
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): i think u should forget about him because this could ruin your relationship with your family aswell as him if he doesnt feel the same way....it would probably never work out either so its best to leave things an find someone else.
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reader, 15 and worried  +, writes (24 August 2007):
damn girl you're really stuck between a rock and a hard place.. first of all he is your cousin second of all hes 20 my advice would be to not go for it unless you think it's true love and if you think it is wait until you're 18 and sit down and talk to him about it then
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