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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I have a feeling that my bf is cheating on me. He is being really distant towards me, doesn't take the time to talk to me anymore and he's being really mean to me nowadays. If there are problems in our relationship he will blame it all on me and won't even take the time to try to discuss our problems. I checked his phone bills and I see he's calling someone constantly (like 5 hours total through out the day) I'm pretty sure a guy wouldn't talk to another guy for this long for a 3 month period time. Another thing is he uses a phone card to call so I don't know the exact number he is calling or else I would call it right up and find out who it is. He constantly tells me when we have arguments (like everyday now) that to just break up, end it, etc. I don't understand him if he really wanted it to end (he broke up with me recently) why the hell did he beg to have me back next week. Now he is talking to this person throughout the whole entire day and when I call him (we talk less than 10 minutes a day now because of the other person) and he has me on call waiting. The other girl is on the other line (phone bill evidence). When he says he’s going to sleep, he's not. I check the phone bill he's up till 5am talking to this person everyday. I don't know what to do. He was my first but now he is a total jerk. =(
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reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (20 December 2006):
 this relationship is so over im sorry to say the evidence is there and you blatantly dont trust him no more if you do y are checking his fone bils? this should b a clear sign for you that he is not treating you like you deserve to be treated as and i think the reason he begged you to get back together might be that he fears being single or is waiting to get together with this other person look you are a unique special individual and if he can not see that he does not deserve your love dump and move on xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2006): I think the writing is on the wall. It looks to me like this one is over. He wants you to end it and make life a bit easier for himself. Ask him to have a chat and let you know exactly how he feel. He sounds a bit spineless to me, so you probably won't get a straight answer. I think he is gearing this towards a split by all these arguements. Do you want to wait around for him to dump you, in the mean time putting up with this misery. Tormenting yourself, knowing he is probably talking on the phone half the night to someone else. If I was you i would have that talk but be prepared to tell him to get lost. You deserve better, and shouldn't be left in the lurch in such a way. Be brave and get rid of this idiot.
Take care
xx
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