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Should I come out to my rough and ready family?

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Question - (17 January 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 17 January 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am bi-sexuall and crossdresser i come from an lets say an hardknock family should i come out or should i remain doing it in private

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (17 January 2007):

artistical_bumblebee agony aunti think you should come out, i have friends who are bi n ther alot happier for 'coming out' , it should not matter what type of famlily you have, your family are the people that care for you the most they will always love you whatever you want 2 be hope this helps xXx

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A female reader, melschatbox United States +, writes (17 January 2007):

melschatbox agony auntNope. No reason to bring it out there unless you fear they'll find out some other way. Sexuality is a private issue. Whethere your hetero, gay, bi, or whatever...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007):

you should probably keep it private until you feel more confiedent about telling your family waiting for the right time to tell them is the best way to go because they my respect you for who you are no your realtionship status who cares if your bi thats your choice and your proud of it and if they see it any other way its there chose for not seeing it in your point of view good luck christmas

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (17 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntI think the cross dressing is a private hobby that nobody really needs to know about. As for your bisexuality however it really is up to you whether or not to tell your family. If you do choose to tell them make sure you pick the right time. I don't think it matters that you come from a hardknock family. If they love you they will respect it whatever.

CD

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007):

i think you should come out!

Its your family hun. no matter wat they will luv u for u. Yes they will be shocked and maybe dissapointed but hey, i bet they all got secrets that they want to share but r to scared just be brave!

Goodluck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2007):

not being gay its hard to understand this but the way i see it, theyre family and nothing ever brakes that bond or should never brake that bond and no matter how 'rough'you say they are they should respect your decision as an adult. lying to them would just makes a trust issue out of something that needs not be made an issue at all

i hope this helps

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