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He's got much more experience than me so I'm scared I won't impress.

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Question - (21 December 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 29 December 2006)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hi I'm 17 and I've been realy close with this lad I really like more than anyone I have met and he feels the same! we have been seeing each other for about 2months now and he's quite expericanced I hardly am! I want to do things with him but im scared incase I'm "crap" lol do you think he will like me less if I'm awful as I'm not going to be great as i havent have much expericance!

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A female reader, XxXLoveAngelXxX +, writes (29 December 2006):

XxXLoveAngelXxX agony auntIf this guy really likes you then he won't be bothered about your experience. And, like me, your young and you shouldn't worry too much about impressing, just try to have a good time and enjoy it.

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (21 December 2006):

artistical_bumblebee agony auntif he likes you as much as he claims he will not be bothered by how much you are experianced be honest with him everything will work out promise just trust him a little more and b honest let him guide you, ask him to help you and wat not just behonest thats the best advice i can give gd look babes xXx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

Really, try not to dwell on it, cuz you can't change the fact you're 'inexperienced'. So the next best thing is just go with the flow. Just remember not to do something too drastic that deters you from your comfort zone too much - eg: if you're okay with sports, and he wants you to go indoor rock climbing with you, that's totally fine, but say he is into heavy bondage, whips, chains, and gagging, and you don't like that sort of thing, then don't do it.

Mhm...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2006):

Hmm...If this guy really cares for you; i think him being able to just make love to you would be enough, i don't think you should worry too much; just because you are unexpierenced it doesn't mean he might think it as a bad thing; he might be quite happy with the fact that his girlfriend hasn't been with every tom dick and harry.

Your 17 years old; don't worry about it just do what you got and want to do and thats it; its not how many times that you've done it; its the way you do it.

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