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This guy at school is flirting with me, am I reading the signals right?

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Question - (27 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 27 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

okay im going to feel and sound very stupid for asking this question, lets just say im not the most advanced at dating but yea.

well theres this guy who i really, really like hes 16 (im 14) an we've reasonably good friends, havent known each other that well for so long though.

well we went away on tour together and him being older he chose me to try and annoy/mess about with, i didnt mind it and really enjoyed messing about/playfighting etc with him. realising it didnt annoy me he strted stroking me face jokely but still, and then licking my arm and once my face. still messing about he kept coming and sitting next to me on the coach and saying things like 'i bet i can make you smile' an stroking uder my chin etc.

a bit later in the week after a concert and we were all packing up, he came over to me and said 'i would give you a hug, but..' an im guessing he was hinting for me to hug him, but from then on he always came and hugged me, put his arms round me and kept falling asleep on my shoulder. but i dont know if he was still just messing around a bit or was actually hinting ? then on the way home (i sat next to him) he said 'okay lets play this game, iv got to move as close to you as possible without you flintching or moving away' and i kinda assumed at first he was just trying to wind me up, but then he moved right in so our lips and everything where touching but only for a few seconds. was he hinting or jus messing pls help what do ppl think cause i really do like him to peices and cant seem to get him out of my head..? xx

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A female reader, Helen Help! :) United Kingdom +, writes (27 August 2007):

Helen Help! :) agony auntHi huni ide say yes he does if hes wanting to get close to you wanting you to hug him n touching lips if you like him keep up the flirting he'll realise that you like him sooner or later, or if ya feel brave enuff tell him. just be carful cuz he is 16 and at the legal age to have sex n thats what alot of 16 year old boys have on there brain and your only 14 so that would make it illegal for you to participate in sexual activity just a warning have fun huni good luck :)

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A female reader, crazyone United States +, writes (27 August 2007):

crazyone agony auntWOW!! I so think he likes you.My firends joke around with me but when they do all the stuff you just told me he did that means he likes you.

I hope I helped.

If you need anything else just message me! :)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007):

It sounds to me that he does like you. It does sound like he's flirting and hinting alot.

I think you should flirt back, and just see how things go.

You should go for it, if he responds to the flirting.

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A female reader, artistical_bumblebee +, writes (27 August 2007):

artistical_bumblebee agony aunthe so likes you honey i think this could be the start of something fab you should talk to him about it ask him out guys love that! if your friends i really doubt he would mess you around this much for a laugh but if your not confront him as him what he wants if he wants a relationship or is just playing around if you discover he just wants to play games then you deserve more and should assert yourself so that you can find someone who truely deserves your love and attention x

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