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Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??
Q. I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...
A. 3 March 2009: to me i dont think i would associate "your amazing" with sex, unless it was specifically "the sex was amazing". he's probably refering to the connection you share with him, and that he feels very close to you, possibly admiration and respect who ... (read in full...)
Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her ...
A. 3 March 2009: how many women could you possibly have been with to know that you want to spend the rest of your life with this one girl, i dont know anyone who dated the same girl the whole way through high school let alone the rest of ther lives after that. if ... (read in full...)
Why does my weight fluctuate in this way?
Q. Hi, okay so I'm so confused! All weekend I eat whatever I want, then I weigh less or the same (110). but all 5 school days I workout hard and eat really healthy, then I weigh myself and I'm like 112! What's up with that! I really want to get back ...
A. 3 March 2009: your very young and your hormones are also fluctuating which makes it a difficult time either way. but as for comparing weekends and weekdays, thats not fat your putting on and loosing thats just your lifstyle, the way you eat, the water your ... (read in full...)
Do guys find genital piercings on women sexy and a turn on?
Q. I want to get my clitoris hood and inner labia pierced. I would like to know from the guys if they find genital piercings sexy and a turn on. Of course, I'm doing it for me but would like to know what guys think of them. P.S. I'm single so I have...
A. 3 March 2009: personally i never understood the labia piecing, it just doesnt look that nice, kinda messy looking. but my friend has one of those clit bars an it looks really nice on her, gudluk.... (read in full...)
Maybe his equipment is faulty... or does he just not know how to use it properly?
Q. Regarding the issue of penis size, people always say that it's not the size that matters but how you use it. How else can a guy use it aside from plain old boring penetration? What are some techniques other than changing positions? I ...
A. 3 March 2009: the best thing you can do is talk to him about it, but as not to embarrass your bf, give him some guidence, ask him if he wants to try somthing new, but dont be rude about it, i could see how he could get very defensive otherwise, gudluk.... (read in full...)
Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??
Q. I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...
A. 3 March 2009: its really good that you knew wher to draw the line, if you take this any further before he splits up with his current gf then your leaving youself open to heartbreak. if he respects you then he will stay friends until he has made up his mind, but i ... (read in full...)
How to deal with my mother constant put downs?
Q. Hi, I need some advice with how to deal with my mothers constant put downs. I consider myself a good daughter-im 26 and live at home. I have never been drunk,never done drugs,i have never even tried a cigarette. I've always been honest with my ...
A. 23 February 2009: thats a very accurate description of my relationship with my mother, i dont do or take any of those things you described and i look out as best i can for her, but i guess some people just have overactive imaginations, im always busy doing my thing ... (read in full...)
I'm still in love after 5 years but I'm starting to think we want different things
Q. i dont know what to do. Ive been with my fella for 5 yrs and yes i do love him but recently im beginning to think we want different things. im really wanting to get a house but because we said last year we would go on 1 last holiday this year in ...
A. 23 February 2009: Its easy for people to grow apart within a long term relationship, but neither a holiday nor a house should come between you two because theres plenty of time for both at your age, and if you haven't gone over this thoroughly with him then maybe he ... (read in full...)
Is it because he doesn't like me that he never comes over and says hi?
Q. I really like this guy and I love talking to him and being around him, but I am always the one that has to start off the conversation! He seems friendly enough when I talk to him, and he doesn't seem shy at all. I've started not talking to him ...
A. 23 February 2009: if he does like you then maybe your not making it obvious enough for him to persue you in that way, go talk to him an give him some signals other then a brief friendly chat, gudluk.... (read in full...)
Why does a man change after getting married?
Q. hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...
A. 22 February 2009: i know thers an age difference but even older guys act immature, you sound like you need a break, if you can get anyone close to you that understands your situation then take some time out and go stay with this family or friend for a while, you dont ... (read in full...)
Whens the right moment to kiss?
Q. My ex said he didn't kiss me because it didn't feel right. I know i was shy and he was being respectful, but i want to know when does it feel right, whens the right moment etc i still haven't my first kiss and feel insecure thanks for any help x....
A. 22 February 2009: your very young dont rush your first kiss, you want to remember it so be sure it feels right because you love eachother not because you feel you getting old and have to rush it, definately respect what your bf said because most guys dont give a dam ... (read in full...)
I'm 20 years old and I feel as though my mum is very controlling!
Q. Im 20 years old and I feel as though my mum is very controlling. I feel like I have missed out on so much in life because of her 'protection and love for me'. I wont go into the long history of all the stuff thats happened, because that w...
A. 22 February 2009: i know what its like living with a very controlling mother, do what you feel is right though, you dont have to tell your mother everything you do. the only reason im still talking to my mother is because i dont ask her advice on these things anymore ... (read in full...)
I was told my b/f kissed someone else, he denies it, I don't know what to think!
Q. i've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years now... and everything has been ok... i had some trust issues at first because oft he way he acted before we started dating...but just recently i found out from a friend that he kissed another girl at ...
A. 22 February 2009: what i will say is that whenever ther is things like pictures/evidence circulating then somone will always come upto you just to show you and rub it in, even if its a close friend this always happens, so unless you see a picture you should rule this ... (read in full...)
Can the doctor say I'm not a virgin?
Q. Okay so I'm 13, I'm a virgin but my hymen ripped from being fingered and also "fist" by my boyfriend, I think it ripped because I was bleeding after he fingered me. Since I really am, still a virgin, Can my doctor say that I'm not a virgin since my ...
A. 22 February 2009: look this can happen very easily and naturally, and your docter is not going to be concerned with that kind of issue because it doesnt effect your health, if your the same person that posted this several times then relax you have nothing to worry ... (read in full...)
Why does a man change after getting married?
Q. hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...
A. 22 February 2009: this is just me but if i were you i would make some friends close by, somone who you can talk to and be around when things get heated, and also give you advice. if you need somone right now then you should get a family member or old friend to come ... (read in full...)
How do I deal with being raped?
Q. How do I deal with being raped by my father constantly at 13-15? Ive been in counseling but it doesnt work for me I keep having images and flashbacks no matter what. And it doesnt help that ive been molested by my brother and cousins earlier on in ...
A. 22 February 2009: i know how it feels but not to the extent you have been taken advantage of, your story is very unsettling and i know it becomes very easy to hate yourself, even though i was probably much younger then you at the time. but im much older then you now ... (read in full...)
Why does a man change after getting married?
Q. hey guys,can any body tell me why man change after getting married.because i am sick of this life because of my husband.he was nice before marriage and care about me more than after . why this happening to me.sometimes i feel like i want just to ...
A. 22 February 2009: personally i never understood marriage, i think its pretty unnecessary if you love somone, and i definatly dont believe it strengthens a relasionship for that same reason, i think some people start to feel so secure that they can get away with doing ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend she needs an attitude adjustment?
Q. Ok, I Love my Girl friend to death, she treats me like royalty and hardly ever tells me no however her attitude towards other people is harsh and cold. How do i Tell her that she needs an attitude adjustment or better yet a personality revamp ...
A. 20 February 2009: just talk to her without sounding to harsh or judgmental, you could approach her like "hey is everything okay? a couple of our friends were a little hurt when you said....or did....!" dont use words like "rude" or "nasty" or she may think you have ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend she needs an attitude adjustment?
Q. Ok, I Love my Girl friend to death, she treats me like royalty and hardly ever tells me no however her attitude towards other people is harsh and cold. How do i Tell her that she needs an attitude adjustment or better yet a personality revamp ...
A. 20 February 2009: is it possible shes just very protective of you and only acts like this when your around her, if so she could just be in need of extra attention from you, gudluk.... (read in full...)
I'm upset because my boyfriend is not a virgin.
Q. I'm a 15 year old girl, who has a 18 year old boyfriend. What bothers me is to know that he has not been a virgin since he was 16. When I first met him I really didn't care.. I guess since he didn't mean much to me but now, I love him. He would ...
A. 20 February 2009: look at it this way if he was that concerned about comparing you to his previous partners in that way, then he probably wouldnt be with you, he would be with them or with another. he's probably just expressing his admiration for the fact that you ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex how I feel?
Q. I still have feelings for my ex and its been bothering me so much lately, because we are really good close friends and im finding it hard hiding my feelings. Theres two reason why i don't wanna tell him how i feel. One is because i don't think he ...
A. 19 February 2009: i think thats a really possitive thing then, you should be feeling a little more confident knowing he still likes and respects you, you can move on now with no hard feelings:)... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex how I feel?
Q. I still have feelings for my ex and its been bothering me so much lately, because we are really good close friends and im finding it hard hiding my feelings. Theres two reason why i don't wanna tell him how i feel. One is because i don't think he ...
A. 19 February 2009: did it go well, what did he say? he still likes you??... (read in full...)
Sex the first time hurt so much, now he wants to do it again and I'm terrified!
Q. Hey so me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time together it was good but became painful at some point and the pain went on for a week or two, now he says he wants to have more but I am scared of the pain and feel I can't do it now so how can I ...
A. 19 February 2009: but theres so many other things besides penetration, tell him he has to use his hands until you feel more comfortable. if he's getting angry tell him to take a hike, sex is for both your pleasure and not just his own. dont be afraid to put yourself ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have an operation to restore your virginity???
Q. I am married and divorced but my family has arranged for second marriage. He wants my virginity back, he said it is possible you can go operate, it is possible?...
A. 19 February 2009: i have heard about a cosmetic surgeon offering this in california i think (where else lol) they somehow close the hymen back up, its probably pricy as theres not many people offering this kind of work, good luck.... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with trying to find someone!
Q. Please help as i going mad. I seem to be obsessed with trying to find someone. Im on a few dating web site and im constantly looking to see if i have any messages and get so dispointed if i dont. I just am so lonely and my life feels so boring. I ...
A. 19 February 2009: 5 months is a long time to worry about an ex, in these occations its best we judge our partners by their actions and not just some hollow "i love you"s try to get your head around the things he said because its effortless for guys to say these ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on to her? Even if our relationship time is limited?
Q. I just need advice. Ok, so here's what's going on. I'm pretty much in my first real relationship, the girl I'm going with is great. But recently, she told me she plans on keeping her virginity until she's married which is a bit of a bummer because...
A. 19 February 2009: you really need to think about her and not the sex, but you new you were going to hear that reaction. you really cant tell a celibate women that you need sex after 2months because its human nature, its just not how it works. she will be thinking.. ... (read in full...)
How to make a player fall in love with you?
Q. How to make a player fall in love with you. I don't like to play games but I deserve a really cute guy I'm cute and the cute guys are always players. So how to I get myself one?...
A. 18 February 2009: Cerberus knows what he's talking about, if you made a player fall in love with you then he is not ensactly a player is he? well if he was then he isnt anymore and probably never a real player in the first place, and the other point il make is that ... (read in full...)
I don't NEED a guy, but I really WANT one. Why could this be?
Q. Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back. However, I really really want a gu...
A. 18 February 2009: well i can only suggest valantines because i felt the same way, and its still a matter of needing comforting but it just hits home a little harder when you feel like everyone else is very happy with the ones that care for them, but cheer up and keep ... (read in full...)
I like this girl but we are good friends and she may be out of my league!
Q. OK, so I'm a normal goofy guy, and i make people laugh and I like this girl who is totally crazy (a good kind though). She has been having a tough time at the moment and she keeps crying on my shoulder at school. Her boyfriend just dumped her and I ...
A. 17 February 2009: dude even if she did like you it wouldnt be a good time for anything to happen, crying on your shoulder would be the least of your worries, shes clearly upset up about the break up and wouldnt be in the right mind to give you an honest opinion of ... (read in full...)
I'm over my ex and dating again... so why do I still keep thinking about him?
Q. My ex broke up with me 4 months ago and like I'm dating and I'm confident but I still find myself thinking about what it would be like to be with him. I don't understand....
A. 17 February 2009: i hear this alot but its mostly down to those strong emotional ties you build up over time with trust and understanding, with a sudden break up its difficult to open up to a new partner so quickly, over time it will certanly pass as you start to ... (read in full...)
Should I ask her out and any tips for how to handle getting nervous?
Q. Prom is just around the corner and I don't really have anyone to go with planned. Well today me and my friend talked with a girl I have a little bit of a history with. I used to hang out with her cousin, and back then she showed interest in me as ...
A. 17 February 2009: dude, stay cool about your insecurities and ask your friend to ask this girl to the prom for you if your nervous right now, now i hate to set the wrong example but if your over 18 why dont you have a couple of drinks so you loosen up on the night, ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my ex how I feel?
Q. I still have feelings for my ex and its been bothering me so much lately, because we are really good close friends and im finding it hard hiding my feelings. Theres two reason why i don't wanna tell him how i feel. One is because i don't think he ...
A. 17 February 2009: Yes it's possible he feels the same way, if neither of you are seeing anyone else then you have nothing to lose, you didn't mention the circumstances you broke up but if your friends can see he still likes you then it's a safe bet he does. If he's ... (read in full...)
I don't NEED a guy, but I really WANT one. Why could this be?
Q. Im 16, soon to be 17. I've only had one boyfriend, which was in May 2008, but it ended before it started. We didn't kiss or get intimate in any way as it was my first. He was the only guy that liked me back. However, I really really want a gu...
A. 17 February 2009: well there isnt really a question amongst this post, your probably feeling abit of anxiety over valentines day passing you buy and no signs of a relationship on the horizon, keep your head up and stay possitive, youre very young so dont let this get ... (read in full...)
I don't understand my boyfriend!
Q. my boyfriend is a real tough manly kind of guy who doesn't like to talk about feelings, he refuses to utter the words 'i love u' no matter hw much i ask him to, does it mean that he doesn't love me enough to even say it? another question is that...
A. 17 February 2009: he sounds very very protective this is probably his way of showing you how much he cares without getting emotional. some guys cant bring themselfs to say these things because of emotional problems in there youth and feelings of insecurity and bad ... (read in full...)
How can I make him last longer than 20 minutes?
Q. Im 17 years old. i have a 17 year old boyfriend. when we have sex its good but its only for like 20 minutes.. then when he cums he doesnt want to do it anymore, or let me touch him down there, why is this? and how can i make him last longer? please ...
A. 17 February 2009: its possible he's getting tired too quickly, why dont you take the lead and stretch the forplay out a bit longer, if you dont give him access he want be able to get off so soon, if you catch my drift, good luck.... (read in full...)
Staring and staring? Is he playing mind games?
Q. We used to flirt with each other and he used to act like he likes me but then he stopped. And there's this one girl who told him that she had a crush on him and he said that he liked her back. They're not dating or anything. But what pisses me o...
A. 17 February 2009: is it possible you miss read his actions a little? maybe he just see's you as a friend and feels your not interested in him either, you may both be confused, i wouldnt complicate the staring issue to much he's probably just thinking about you or ... (read in full...)
Is what I did (kissing an ex) any worse than his emotional cheating on me with his ex?
Q. I went clubbing with an ex-boyfriend of mine (once in January 08, another time in May 08), whom I have no feelings for whatsoever, but we ended up kissing and making out on both occasions. The last few times we met (August to November) were pure ...
A. 17 February 2009: i know you feel upset about what he had told you but its much better that he said what was on his mind rather than going behind your back and cheating, after all it was just a thought he was having and he openly came straight to you with his ... (read in full...)
I find her attractive but I'm the shy type...
Q. So here's a question that is probably asked in different ways, countless times on here. There is a girl in my environmental studies class who I find attractive. We haven't talked to each other, and I'm not really sure if she thinks anything of me or ...
A. 17 February 2009: well making eye contact is a start, next time she does it just smile at her, if she smiles back then the window is open my friend, so just go and engage her. if you got nothing else to talk to her about just ask her advice on your studies and take ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 17 February 2009: can you honestly say that a teacher well over double your age is the only man for you because he's got blue eyes, he surfs and has a good sense of humour, im sorry but your going to go through many a crush through the years, yes you've taken the ... (read in full...)
I love my teacher, and now he knows.Can I do anything with him?
Q. I have a big problem. I'm 14. I've fallen in love with my 35 year old geography teacher. I've liked him for a few months and last week I told him how I feel. I wrote it in a letter and got my friend to give it to him because she had his lesson next. ...
A. 17 February 2009: you wouldnt believe how often ive seen this post in the last seven days alone! you know ensactly why everything is so wrong about it but you have to tell yourself that you only want him because its so wrong! lets be honest, its more of a challenge ... (read in full...)
Lack of oral
Q. hi i am the one with the lack of oral stimulation and a man with premature ejaculation problems.i have asked for what want and why i dont get any,yet, it he wants me to give him oral.and he tells the reason he dont do it is because he dont want.im ...
A. 17 February 2009: thats unfortunate, if he has premature issues he really should look to please you in other ways aswell, i would suggest making a deal so you both get what you want but if you were to stop giving him oral then their really wouldnt be that much ... (read in full...)
Do LDR relationships work?
Q. ONE SIMPLE QUESTION: DO LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS (LDR) WORK? answer however you like.. yes, no, youre opinions or experiences etc. anything would be helpful! thanks...
A. 17 February 2009: personally..not really, in my experience everything can be going absolutly fine and with no warnings the attraction to another can readily escalate, just because of the lack of physical attention alone, even though the person in question may feel ... (read in full...)
Should I hold on to her? Even if our relationship time is limited?
Q. I just need advice. Ok, so here's what's going on. I'm pretty much in my first real relationship, the girl I'm going with is great. But recently, she told me she plans on keeping her virginity until she's married which is a bit of a bummer because...
A. 16 February 2009: dude it really doesnt make you look good if you bale out now because your not getting any of that, she may even have different plans that you dont know about as of yet, it may be wise to put your friendship first either way. but whatever happens ... (read in full...)
Should I just hang out with him as friends and see if maybe he ends up with me??
Q. I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him ...
A. 16 February 2009: good your being mature about this, go with your gut instinct, if you want to hang out and be friends and get to know eachother better go for it, but if you go any further your going to be back here asking if he's taking advantage of you, if you guys ... (read in full...)
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