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He doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am a waitress at a high class restaurant... and I'm in love with one of our regular customers... The problem is, he doesn't know I'm in love with him.. The reason is because I always remain professional towards customers. He usually visits o...
A. 15 February 2009: hey i jus want you to know i go places where i like to eat too, and theres this one girl who realy likes me, so friendly and shes the most beautiful thing i ever seen, she always has a huge smile and never breaks eye contact and we just keeps waving ... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: i feel that young men and women are getting more and more short sighted, putting there own needs before anyone elses, it must be the media, somthing is mentaly changing people and i feel like im the only guy taking a step back and asking what the ... (read in full...)
First time with a prostitute...
Q. Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...
A. 13 February 2009: i dont think to many people hear remember ther first time well enough, when you dont know how your going to be able to perform its nerve racking, girls take one look at me and asume im a player, i have turned down many offers beacuse i played the ... (read in full...)
Is she just saying that because she doesn't like me?
Q. Okay so i've been talking to this girl for like three weeks and then at a party she asked me to go up to her room because she didn't feel good and we ended up cuddling and making out and it was great ... we did this for like 3 days straight, she ...
A. 13 February 2009: no dude, let her have her space, if shes feeling like its moving to quick then just hang out as much as possible, stay friends and keep the interest going, if she doesnt like you you'l be the first to know that way, gudluk.... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: heres a quick example, im mad about this girl, she has an open relashionship with her bf who lives in a seperate county for the moment cause he's married to his job, they call themselves swingers at 20 years old lol, so anyway she's crazy about me, ... (read in full...)
I like him...he likes her
Q. Hey i need some help!! I have a crush on one of my good friends and i've liked him for about 1 year and a half, I really like him. And here's the thing, he likes one of my Really good friends, he tells me he likes her sometimes, and im not sure if ...
A. 13 February 2009: sorry but he's made his choice, are you saying you would be happier if he left your best friend and went out with you, i sense jealousy not love, dont ruin it for your best friend and dont try to entice him when shes not around it will end in ... (read in full...)
I want to make out with this girl I'm friends with
Q. i invited this girl to my party. I want to make out with this girl i'm friends with. How can i make this move? We will be drinking too. I don't want it to be awkward. We talk lots but no steps forward! Please help! ...
A. 13 February 2009: well if you get her too drunk it'l be 1 step forward that night, an 2 steps back later on, make sure she's in her right mind and knows whats shes doing or itll just get awkward, in fact why dont you drop a few hints before the party like if she'll ... (read in full...)
I know he's a mess but I miss him!
Q. Dear Cupid, Does it mean something when you think of someone constantly who you are no longer with? I feel like sometimes I'm Im obesessing over this guy i only dated 3 months, but he made a huge impact on my life. I'm a well educated women, a...
A. 13 February 2009: listen to yourself, you have given around 50valid reasons why he's no good for you and im sure theres plenty more, but he doesnt care about you and has totally moved on, he's probably sleeping on someone elses floor right now and you wish it was ... (read in full...)
He doesn't know that I love him
Q. I am a waitress at a high class restaurant... and I'm in love with one of our regular customers... The problem is, he doesn't know I'm in love with him.. The reason is because I always remain professional towards customers. He usually visits o...
A. 13 February 2009: i am totally totaly lost..let me summarise- your a professional and he's a customer, he asked you your name, he has cute eyes...voila...your in love with him, if thats the case what the hell am i doing wrong. ok back to your situation, im sure he'... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 13 February 2009: dude girls can deny this all they want but its as true as the sky is blue lol, im hear to express myself, and get my negative opinions out. but in the real world im nothing short of a gentlemen, im better then average looking and im a 17st ... (read in full...)
My biggest letdown.
Q. Okay listening to ultravox, vienna has me all emotional now for my next questian, just recently I realised a friend of the family (step cousin) was as into me as I were her, we all met up for another cousin's birthday, and I've known her years and ...
A. 13 February 2009: i kinda did, cause i took her out for dinner soon after, we had a nice time but nothing realy happened, i was thrown off when she told me about some guy she just met. i didnt return her calls after this and left it at that, still think about her ... (read in full...)
What does his actions sound like to you?
Q. Hi everyone, This is a little long but im going to try and keep it simple... Okay so 6 months ago i met a guy online (yeah its one of those stories lol).Really hit it off,talked for hours,talked for hours on the phone,webcam etc-basically we...
A. 13 February 2009: i guarantee he's into you, you gotta cut him a break though, he sounds realy shy, stick with it, gudluk.... (read in full...)
Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons?
Q. Why do girls say they love you then leave you shortly afterwards for stupid reasons? Is it just me? Why is my longest relationship only 2 months? I don't treat them badly, I always try my best to make them happy. I just don't get it. It makes me ...
A. 12 February 2009: dude im with you, i thought i was realy getting somwhere with a girl i realy liked recently but when they found out how down to earth i am i dont think they were interested, somthing to do with suspense i think mate, im not a badboy anymore lol.... (read in full...)
First time with a prostitute...
Q. Is it better to lose your virginity to a prostitute if your past your teens than waiting for sumthing long term, which could take forever?...
A. 12 February 2009: im not sure you guys get it, im not confident enough to engage somone im not paying at this stage in the game, when the dirty deed is done (the first time) i can go have sex with anyone and il feel like thers nothing to it, im a 23yo bodybuilder and ... (read in full...)
What shall I text back to this guy?
Q. I've just text this guy which has shown ALOT of interest over the past month. Weve bumped into each other two times and got on REALLLY well :) and hes always said sweet things like hopefully il seen you soon your really pretty we should go cin...
A. 12 February 2009: can i just give you a little hint, these days guys run around txting an chatting up multiple people at the same time, dont be suprised if he's just susing you out while he's got his eye on somthing else aswell, you mite have to give him clearer ... (read in full...)
How do I make up to my friend for annoying him a whole year?
Q. two years ago i really fancied this guy and i asked him out and welll..it didnt go to plan and i asked him not to tell anyone that id asked him out...and i knew that he fancied another girl...i feel really guilty about annoying him all year (nearly ...
A. 12 February 2009: yes i get it its ok you shown your sexual prowess, it got you knowhere an now your ashamed ok respect him all is well, be friends... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as "love of your life"?
Q. How many of you believe ,that there is such a thing ,as ''love of your life' ''soul mates'' And so on... I thought I live with one of this, but I'm not sure if I just want to force this on me, or it is true. It seems to fall apart but I'm stil...
A. 12 February 2009: no dont believe in this, people can be whatever they want to be to whomever they want to be it, strong emotional connections are hard to break, the longer your in anyones company the stronger they get regardless of looks... (read in full...)
Should I call him asking why? Or leave it?
Q. I live in another country and my family in my home country.My dad introduced me 2 a man when i went home 4 christmas and told me that he lived in the same town as me.We exchanged business cards.he told me he will call me whn he is in town.When i ...
A. 12 February 2009: i think you know the answer, dont lead him on if your already taken, if your splitting with your partner then by all means otherwise your knowingly getting into deep water... (read in full...)
Will he return to me? Does he like me or just having fun?
Q. last week,i and my crush met in front of our school.before that he used to ignore me for a period.when he saw me,he came straight to me,greeted me and we started to chat.he asked me where i'm going and he said he's going there as well but he ...
A. 12 February 2009: why do you insist on following his stupid games, its clear he's playing you, what happens after you have sex..then what, you think its gona be down hill, na he'l move on then you'l be heart broken, hey do what you want, you clearly need the drama... (read in full...)
Has he gone off me? I don't know what is going on
Q. Theres this guy i met about a month ago at the bus stop Since then we got in touch on facebook and spoke online alot, we exchnaged numbers and i text now again. We are blatinally intrested in each other, and hes a proper nice guy so i doubt he wo...
A. 12 February 2009: take it more slowly, if he dont wonna wait then forget him, youl be back in 2weeks saying he used you otherwise... (read in full...)
My horrible story please read
Q. im 13. ive suffered from 2 server addictions. one-cutting two-over doseage of pills. anti-depresents. i want to share my story and tell some luckier people what its like to b 13 and have a bad life. It all started in 7th gade when some 18 yearold ...
A. 12 February 2009: thats annoying, one minute you hear "i know he's older but im madly in love" the next its "he used me for sex" and then the honest guys are sat ther wandering why they cant find a girl, everyone looses.... (read in full...)
She is being blinded by love
Q. I have a friend that I love dearly. She is the God mother to my daughter. We have have been friends for about 12 or more years. She has been there in my corner thur the good and the bad. As I would like to be the same for her. But, for the past ...
A. 12 February 2009: she probably feels alone and that he's the only guy out ther, take her out and introduce her to some guys, she'l forget very quick im sure.... (read in full...)
What am I supposed to talk to his sister about?
Q. Ok... Me and my boyfriend have being going out a month. We are both 15 so we cant drive so for V - day we are going with his mom and sister. His sister doesnt seem to like me to much and he just said i many have to hang out with her in the mall. ...
A. 12 February 2009: hey im old enough to know you cant keep some people happy, if shes jelious your dating her brother or shes just protective then relax, if its not going to effect your relationship then dont worry, let her engage you.... (read in full...)
How do I make up to my friend for annoying him a whole year?
Q. two years ago i really fancied this guy and i asked him out and welll..it didnt go to plan and i asked him not to tell anyone that id asked him out...and i knew that he fancied another girl...i feel really guilty about annoying him all year (nearly ...
A. 12 February 2009: why would you annoy him if he was keeping your secret, doesnt make sense, well you cant make up for 2years worth, just show him you care in the long run he'l come round... (read in full...)
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