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18 November 2007: if you thing your girl or guy is cheating look at what they act like if there acting superstitious always saying oh im going out or at my mates tonight then they might be hiding something from you its not neserserily that they are cheating but ...
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Will I get thinner with age, and will this help my relationship problem?
Q. I have always been rather paranoid about my weight for good reasons, but recently i have begun to notice a differnce after looking in the mirror. I'm 13, and in biology we are learning about metabolism etc. I wondered if during adolesence your ...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe yh personaly i dont even no what that word is
just dont give up and dont go on a diet cause youve heard about what happens i bet they go anorexic... (read in full...)
We are virgins and want to loose it to each others, but how do I know she is really ready for this and not just does it anyway?
Q. Hiya well i have 3 things i want to ask you but they both really come into one. Well me and my gf have been going out about 8 months and are very much in love we know each ther inside out because we have been friends since we were like 5. I stop ...
A. 18 November 2007: well this is ok and you can tell that she wants it if she has a smile and she sujested it didnt she so i dont really think she doesnt want to do it but you can tell by watching that look on her face when you talk to her about it if she has a wierd ... (read in full...)
Should I be patient, or walk away.
Q. I am seeing a married man, and have been for nearly a year. I also work with him. He has been married for a number of years and has two children (18 and 14). He has told me that he loves me, is not in love with his wife and he even left home ...
A. 18 November 2007: well it depends is he cting like he loves you and not his wife so he can get more action ? but if youve been seeing each other for nearly a year he isnt yes he probably loves you but he loves his kids and dont want to lose his kids it is hard in ... (read in full...)
She insults me for no reason
Q. ok.I have this "friend" of mine..I know she is not an evil person, but has probably many things unsolved and is coming 3 times in public place(ex club) to shout on me inslutnig me without reason. I found myself no more capable to bear that, and i ...
A. 18 November 2007: keep away from her tell her i dont want to hang around with you and find something really clever and nasty to say and say it infront of all her friends and everyone make sure you shout it and if she tries to hit you say dont bother ill brake your ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for my family to treat me like this??
Q. Hi, well in my situation is about my family they blame me for everything thats wrong or if somthing bad happens and then they start screaming and shouting and arguing all through the day and make me feel guilty and pick on me and on top of all this ...
A. 18 November 2007: i youst to go through the egsact same it is i no this is a personal question but have you started your period if yes this could be the cause of you thinking veryone is aginst you and if they beat you up as you say then this is wrong extreamly dont ... (read in full...)
I got angry at my mother, so I stormed out of the room offensively. Is this normal?
Q. Last night I got very mad at my mom and yelled at her and called her a bitch. She was listening to me talk about all the losers I've been dating (one was my ex-fiance I dumped a month ago). She just kept saying things like "I told you you shouldn't ...
A. 18 November 2007: yes they would but you have got to understand that your mother cares about you and she has seen you hurt so she is hurt but yes people do act the same ... (read in full...)
My bf is very controlling, I feel I'm living with my parents again. I don't want to leave him thinking of my son's stability. What to do?
Q. hey cupid...I think I hate my boyfriend. I mean he is a great guy who wants to take care of me and he is the father of my son. But he wants to be in control. And I dont just mean some times I mean all the time. He alwasy wants to know were I am and ...
A. 18 November 2007: you need to talk to your boyfriend about the situation if he loves you he will understand but if your just staying with him because of your child things will get worse and you will regret it ... (read in full...)
I was due to move into his house. Out of nowhere, he doesn't feel the same. What can I do?
Q. Hi There, my ex- boyfriend dumped me a week ago after 18 months together. I was due to move into his house and bought a car for this purpose. I hadn't seen him the weekend before because he said he was sick. During the week when he rang I was cool ...
A. 18 November 2007: well he might be a little anxious i meen people tell you
oh your moving to quick if you want id look at my article it gives info about cheating that maybe what he was doing if you didnt see him for ages you best off asking him and if he has got ... (read in full...)
Playing hard to get?
Q. hi guys... i went to this party on friday night and this guy was there who i've liked for a few months now! he's 23 and i'm 17 but he's got me head over heels. All his mates say he only goes out with a girl if she's drop dead gorgeous but he's been ...
A. 18 November 2007: well chick this guy is probably scared you dont like him or he just doesnt have courage when hes drunk maybe you should tell him how you feel and see what he says but do it when he's sober and not around no-one i dont think this guy is playing hard ... (read in full...)
Is my friend's strategy valid? - to make women like him.
Q. I recently spoke to one of my guy friends about how he gets girls/woman to like him ( because he always seems to have woman on the go) He said that he gives them attention and then cuts it off and this makes them want more? What do you think? Doe...
A. 18 November 2007: well i have a met a lot of guy like your guy mate and yes it does sometimes but only for guys i no that sounds stupid ill tell you what you should do act your self if you want guys by your side but i tell its better having just one. but it can work ... (read in full...)
How long should you wait until sex? I'm 12.
Q. I am 12 i have a felling to have sex but i know it is wrong and i wont do it. Just to tell you now my b/f is not pressuring me but we both know it is wrong so we will wait. what age should i wait until? My b/f and i have been going out for about 5 ...
A. 18 November 2007: ok your 12 i had the exsact same feeling and i did it love dont do it and can i ask how old is your boy friend?
if same age then it is ok wait till your a bit older and i bet yopu aint been going out with him that long thats ok i lied just to get ... (read in full...)
I don't want my ex to have our child with a new guy.
Q. Hi all, Heres the situaton... Me and my ex had been together for 2 years 10 months and have always been happy, but also argued alot... Anyway about 2 months ago me and her broke up. almost 2 days after the brake up she was with another guy...and s...
A. 18 November 2007: ok i wouldnt have said about the taking the child off her and if he doesnt no then tell him but pratend its on acceident aswell if you want her back then tell her and tell her you dont want her new bf near your child or get a blood test because it ... (read in full...)
Can long distance relationships work?
Q. I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 plus long distance, can it work, is it wrong? Basically, I'm 16 and she's just turned 14 and i need to know is it wrong baring in mind that we're in it for dating until she's old enough but even so is it wrong beca...
A. 18 November 2007: 2 years distance please when i was 13 i was with a 16 year old adn im 15 now he is 18 so we've been together for to years ive got a kid with him but thats ok im not scared at all i was but im not now you will soon get over the age dif and the long ... (read in full...)
Is this age gap important?
Q. is it ok to have a relationship,when the boy is 17years old and the girl is 21years old?age gap?...
A. 18 November 2007: 4 years is no were near bad my mum is engaged to a guy who is 5 years younger than her and if you love him and he loves you theres nothing to worry about i meen i have talked to people on here who have a guy who is 25 years younger than them and a ... (read in full...)
Is there a reason he's keeping me a secret from his friends and family?
Q. the family of my boyfriend does not know about me!! my boyfriend is 36 years old and im 21, he is a trustworthy men, really honest... sometimes too much, some months ago something was happening, relative often he was telling me stories about hi...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe he's not over his girlfriend yet it is ok a lot of men aint and maybe he is waiting for the right time to come to show you to his family and friends. maybe aswell he doesnt want his parents to upset you maybe they are really picky and his ... (read in full...)
Is it stupid to follow his way of life because I want to stay with him?
Q. I am 42 just divorced my husband. I lost all my confident and directions. All I do is stay in the house shut myself out from the outside world. Then I met this man. He is 17 years older than me. He gets me out of the house and helps me to think ...
A. 18 November 2007: right again the age it isnt so big people do this veryday get married and just get together with a guy older than them dont freat and have you tried talkin to him about this way of life buisness have you ever thought he just wants to be alone with ... (read in full...)
Do I really love him for who he is or just for who I want him to be? Was he using me all this time?
Q. hi everyone i'm 21f my problem is my bf is 49 years old! we've been together for 7 years now i love him so much i had sex with him when i was 15. and now i read that i'm attracted to him cuz he fills the space that my father left when he passed a...
A. 18 November 2007: if you've been with this guy for 7 years he would ahve finished it by now if he was using you and he didnt love you and if you didnt love him you would have broke it off dont worry it's probably getting you worried because of the age difference an ... (read in full...)
I'm divorcing my husband. Will I be able to love again?
Q. Im divorcing my husband. We've been married for 22 years and have a daughter. Our marriage has up and down and I've been trying very hard to save it. It's so painful to make the decision to end it. At 45 I suddenly realised life is too short I ...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe you do love him but you are scared to face the facts of what life will bring it will go well for you ... (read in full...)
Is she serious?
Q. Hi, I am 23 years old, i met a woman online, at first it was just fun and as the relation got deeper and longer i felt more and more for her, she is sweet and lovely, she got 4 kids, the youngest one is older than me by two years, i dream to meet ...
A. 18 November 2007: dont think that this guy that is older than you going to wreck it because if he cares about his mum then he wouldnt as well it depends if you write back and tell me what she says i can tell you if its just beacuse she wants fun dont let the age ... (read in full...)
I'm torn - do I break up with him or not?
Q. Im 18 and my boyfriend (24) who i have been with for a year have hit a bump in our relationship. Clearly you can see there is an age gap between us, and that is part of the problem. He's wanting more out of our relationship, more of a commitment. ...
A. 18 November 2007: simply ask him if he could move some where close to you and then move in so you can do this corse and still see your family and friends you'll get through it if you love each other so much... (read in full...)
I am very worried, why hasn't he called me back?
Q. I went for a party and met this cute guy. We exchanged numbers. It was after 3 weeks that we actually spoke .We went out one weekend and it was then he told me his age, 35 and I am 18 turning 19, I look more matured than my age, he looks much ...
A. 18 November 2007: dont look on the bad side maybe he's lost your number or broke his phone you never know call back and if he's making excuses maybe he isn't ready for a relationship right now maybe he's just slit with his girlsfriend but he dosnt want to tell you ... (read in full...)
I'm a teenager, I'm obsessed about sex and only like older males. Any advice?
Q. I'm a 15-year old girl, and I have a problem. I'm completely obsessed with sex (sure, since I'm a teenager) and have decided that I'm absolutely ready to have sex now! The problem is, I am not at all attracted to boys my age (or even boys close to ...
A. 18 November 2007: we all do that when we are teens we need to try it out but you want a guy thats had more practice dont just do it because you want it that aint the right step i was 12 when i first had sex that was because i wanted it so bad i go turned on and im ... (read in full...)
She was my babysitter.
Q. My questions are regarding an older woman. She is eleven years older than me. Perhaps some background would be helpful. The woman we are talking about I have known for a very long time. She was first my babysitter and then she helped me with ...
A. 18 November 2007: maybe she changes the subject because shes scared that you have maybe noticed she loves you if she didnt care for you then why would she let you hang about with her and 11 yrs is nothing at all if you like her ask her if she likes you when sno one ... (read in full...)
My teacher told me he loves me...
Q. ahhh! i'm freaking out here people. my teacher told me he loves me!! i have fancied him for a while now. i know it would be totally wrong though (he isnt very young, he's not old but not young either) and he could get fired. someone please give me ...
A. 18 November 2007: a teacher saying he loves you is awfully scary
if this wasnt in your dreams then that is really bad maybe you should tell someone someone you trust i meen really trust someone who you think would not tell no-one get it out of your sistum dont be a... (read in full...)
Sexual remarks, flirtation and mind games from my teacher. I know it's wrong, but I'd go on anyway. How do I control myself?
Q. hi im 14 and hav had a major crush on my science teacher for well over a year.at first i hated his guts -he looked at me consantly and said/did innapropriate things(winks;sexual remarks;touching), i always felt really uneasy.however one day during a ...
A. 18 November 2007: hi chick listen its may be hard to stop but dont give in to temptation hust simply move away from hium if he comes near you ignore him in everyway and ask your parents to come and get you because your teacher is some what busy in school and stuff ... (read in full...)
I always go for older guys....is there something wrong with me??
Q. I always fall for older guys and when your 14 its not good at all. I'm getting really depressed about it becasue every single guy i fancied likes me back but nothing could ever happen because there is ALWAYS an age difference. I've tried being at...
A. 18 November 2007: no it is natural for a teen to like older guys because they like more experiance some want bigger realtionships and a man that would help you through everything and a guy you could love and no they will love you back and not try and break your ... (read in full...)
What shall I do about my shy guy??
Q. A guy that ive kissed twice is soon to return from a month abroad. After our first kiss he rarely contacted me. He later apologised for this, putting it down to shyness and promised that he would contact me when he came home. Now as I await his ...
A. 18 November 2007: ok so this guy is shy maybe he just things you dont like him dont think that he doesnt like you because that may not be the answer maybe he wants more than friendship but a relationship if your in a realtionship and just started maybe hes worried ... (read in full...)
Are my feelings for my gay friend more than friendship??
Q. Hi this is a difficult one and maybe a bit of a long story I’ve just met a guy in sixth form been mates with him a few months, he’s gay I do have lots of gay friends, so initially where just friends all the way we are very similar to each other, and ...
A. 18 November 2007: he may be gay but he may have the same feelings have you ever thought about asking him he is oviously a realy close friend so he won't freak out i bet loads of girls like him or maybe its just because your a really close friend and your just dont ... (read in full...)
We have a child together but he doesn't want to leave his wife, how do I cope with this?
Q. well this is going to be long. Nearly two years ago I started an affair with a married man ( i was married too). After 5 months or so I was pregnant. I knew it was his child and he never doubted that. He stood by me and our relationship grew. We ...
A. 18 November 2007: hi im anna does his wife no Yes- why no keep him close to you as a friend if you want him as more that this then just tell him this as well if he is not talking to you totally ignoring youi and letting you down and your child down then call him... (read in full...)
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