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writes:ok.I have this "friend" of mine..I know she is not an evil person, but has probably many things unsolved and is coming 3 times in public place(ex club) to shout on me inslutnig me without reason. I found myself no more capable to bear that, and i just woke up every morning with that damn feeling to go and slap her over her face and give her nice boots... Its totaly annoying, frustrating, and never have felt anything alike for anybody in my life,im consolating myself to put her on ignore but cannot cope with this...Any help how can I cope with this? Usefulll help pleaseP.S she is not a good interlocutor and if i try it would I know escalate in fight! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the question Just wanted to say Thanks all For answering... I think I made a decision to keep away from her, since i gOt much troubles than benefits from it.
Thanks all, Anna Good answer :)
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reader, AnnaW219  +, writes (18 November 2007):
 keep away from her tell her i dont want to hang around with you and find something really clever and nasty to say and say it infront of all her friends and everyone make sure you shout it and if she tries to hit you say dont bother ill brake your little legs lol if she gobs her moth of she isnt hard she just acts it to get bullys of her back
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reader, maggie1987 +, writes (18 November 2007):
 you say i have this friend of mine but after that its more like an enemy, if she really is your friend then you should say to her look i dont like the way you speak to me or put me down all the time and say nasty stuff if you are my friend you wouldnt be doing this , if shes genuinly your friend she will say sorry and never say it again but if not then you should tell her you would rather not be her friend or speak to her because good friends have to be earned and she doesnt deserve you
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont know what actually she wants...Never ever told me! yes some people paid me attention that she is jeloys of me,but I cant see any reason for.she constantly requires something for me and she is always pretending to be short of money,so when ordering a drink she asks me to help her paying..Of course after a couple of times i stoped, saying simply that Im short of money too.
I had a bf,we actualy broke up but we re still friends, and before HIM had another with whom im now friend too.She doesnt know that i broke up with my Bf(he is in another country now) so the last time she insulted me I was With My EX(who im sure she has no fansies for)and without any explainable reason she bumped into me speaking gubberish,nothing connected and completely without sense!!
However I confronted her afterwards,requiring to explain me Whats in Her twisted mind, and she was simply Mute!!
Think I already dumped her in my mind but How can i prevent myself from Her destroying my evenings and days in futute?Is beating really came out from the heaven?Thank you all for answering
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reader, keely-h +, writes (18 November 2007):
 she may be jelouse of you do you have somthing she wants?i also learned that after she has shouted at you and insulted you simply say "is that it" she will be tottaly shocked and may feel bad about later. hope all goes wellxxx
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reader, fox +, writes (18 November 2007):
best thing to do is laugh it off and even insult yourself to her e.g. haha yer bla bla what about my huge nose?.... so she knows it dont bother you and she'll think its got old and wont find it such a kick?
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reader, XxPrincessxLxX +, writes (18 November 2007):
 hey sweetie,i had a "friend" who was just like that and to be honest if she is constantly insulting you its properly because she is jealous of you or the things you have. try talking to her about it because it is upsetting you and the is no reason why she should be doing this if she is you friend. if she still has a problem about it after then you have to step back and think do i really want to be friends with someone insults me all the time?i hope i have helped :)xx xx
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