I have to be whipped and shed blood for my country to consider me a "woman". I'm scared!
Q. In my country a girl must be whipped and shed blood for there to be a good harvest. If we flinch we dissapoint our clan. We then also aren't considered women... just girls. If I succeed I get a husbund. But I'm scared. Do you have advice?...
A. 13 April 2008: Give up this life ! is it right that to be ruled by a man , which is probably the way your marriage will run you must be tortured ? whipping is a brutal form of punishment not a Test !! if i was you i would find a nuns convent and live a life with ... (read in full...)
I love her but she has a boyfriend.
Q. ok, there is a girl that im completly in love with, but she has a boyfriend, im completley in love with her and were best frineds. you can see how that makes it difficult. but she has found out that i like her. i am now talking to my ex-girlfriend ...
A. 11 April 2008: hey.
the way i see it as a life coach wich i am .is that you have an oppertunity with your X at the moment but not with your best freind right? you need to take every oppertunity you get in life if you want your life to be a full one. waiting arou... (read in full...)
I felt really confident about myself until finding out that my BF's ex is a supermodel!!
Q. Been going out with this gorgeous guy for the last couples of months and really like him. We spend hours in bed just cuddling, it's lovely. I recently found out that his ex girlfriend was a supermodel. I'm not exaggerating either - she actually ...
A. 21 March 2008: at the end of the DAy he is going out with you not her. there is a reason for this. because he wants you not her !
simple as =]... (read in full...)
Why is my friend so mean to me?
Q. one of my best freinds keeps on insulting me, she will say somthing about the way i look, once she said "i am fit you're not" and "that boy you like will say you are ugly"at the time i just laughed it off but now thinking about it i feel hurt that ...
A. 21 March 2008: heya hun.
the reason your freind is putting you down is fear.she is making you fell small so that she will seem bigger and better. it is obvious that your freind is not secure in her self. she has deep issues.
a true freind will not put you down... (read in full...)
I'm hesitating between the two girls I talk to via Internet...
Q. Well I'm talking to these 2 great girls online and kind of like them both and well I don't know what to do.. On one hand, the one I talked to longer seems more ready to settle down while the other I'm not sure so much. One who seems a bit more ready ...
A. 21 March 2008: heya.
well at the end of the day people can only guide you to a desicion the final desicion must come from your heart.
personally i do not think the 16yr old no matter how old she is will be serious enough or mature enough i am 16 i am mature h... (read in full...)
My mother says the Bible does not approve of interracial relationships. How can I prove her wrong?
Q. Im engaged to a black man, and I could see myself spending the rest of my life with him, hes just like me in every way. My father is racist, and my mother claims that she is just "against marrying out of your race" because of her "religious ...
A. 24 February 2008: Jesus was hebrew i believe , or near enough , sum where around arabia. not white therefore.
also jesus says that we should love one another.
we are all brothers and sisters and to be blunt. that is a RUBBISH EXCUSE FROM YOUR MOTHER. SHE SHOULD B... (read in full...)
Is my weight normal?
Q. I am 16 and weigh 10 stones is this normal?...
A. 15 December 2007: hey it depends on how tall you are , how small you are if you are male or female and also if it is fat or muscle , as muscle weighs more than fat. i would say for an average male at 16 thats fine and also for a strong female thats fine. the ... (read in full...)
My friend is in a very abusive relationship, how do I handle it?
Q. My friend is in a relationship which is emotionally and physically abusive. Her boyfriend takes drugs. I've known her boyfriend longer than she has, he's a nice guy on the cover, but deep down very paranoid and insecure. He's had a strange ...
A. 15 December 2007: heya hun x
girls put themselfs throught it for a strange reason
when in love you are almost Blind , you cannot make sense of things and get into an awkward situation. a vicious circle it is very hard to break the emotional bond that forms but she ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my mum?
Q. I am 13 and i think i may be getting my period i have learned about it a school and my mom gave me a book but i just dont know how to tell her i got my period (if it is on the way) How do i tell her?...
A. 7 December 2007: heya , your mom gave you a book on it lol so that means she is there for you and understands that this issue would be fast approaching you , the best thing to do is wait until you have a quite moment and say 'mom i think i am on my period' she will... (read in full...)
She said she could not come to lunch with me today but offered to meet up next week. Is she trying to avoid me?
Q. hi. today i asked my crush if she wanted to go for lunch. she said that she couldnt today but offered to meet up next week. We get on well together andwork together in our practical groups and i'll walk her home. do you think that she is tryi...
A. 23 November 2007: why not stop asking yourself this and worrying about it just wait till next week and then see if she is serious or not lol , if she is she will go to lunch if she isnt she wont
take care
chris... (read in full...)
She doesn't really like me so why can't I just get over her?
Q. Well for a starter im 13 and i like this girl and i keep putting myself down i have never really asked her out but my friends did behind my back but she says like eww or she will tell me later i know she will never date me but i cant get over her i ...
A. 23 November 2007: heya im the same as you except i asked her out , she said no but is acting weird but its probably imagination , you need to treat things as you see them , ask her out , if you dont you are cutting off your nose just to spite the face or in this ... (read in full...)
Does he just want all the perks with none of the restrictions??
Q. I'm 18, and have been "dating" a 27 year old for almost a year. He works with teenagers, and therefore our relationship cannot be public, as he would risk losing his job and ruining his reputation. However, he also refuses to introduce me to his ...
A. 22 November 2007: heya hun
why would he lose his job ? you both can legally be together it is just morally seen as wrong in some peoples eyes
is it right for you to shy away in the shadows ? is he ashamed of what ? if he loves you he wont be ashamed of you , he ... (read in full...)
Is she retarded or what?
Q. I walked down to prop open the outside door of my apartment complex for one of my friends. I just through on a pair of jeans, so I wasnt wearing a shirt or shoes. This girl came down the stairs behind me and said, "its five o' clock somewhere,...
A. 16 November 2007: lol , she isnt a retard
she likes you , and is acting silly because she wants you ... (read in full...)
Why has he suddenly decided to get counselling now?
Q. Will my ex change? And why did he start counseling now, after we are broken up? Throughout our relationship I felt like he treated me not right and that it was very unhealthy. He never agreed to go to counseling but now he is! What is up with that?! ...
A. 14 November 2007: heya hun well your ex most probably decided to go into counselling now as he can start a fresh and can get back on track to get on with his life he may have gone into counselling to try and get you back as he realises what he did was stupid but m... (read in full...)
I am looking for a psychic person
Q. i need help, i am looking for a phsicic person in my area so i can talk to my dad, me and my sister - 21, have been looking for ages, im 13 and cant go another month with out knowing he's okay, please help we are also trying to find out how he died, ...
A. 27 October 2007: heya hun x
you are obviously disstressed about the matter .
you need to find a medium not a psychic , also i dont think that any respectable medium will help you considering your age , they usually wont deal with anybody under around about 18... (read in full...)
My best friends mum
Q. i live in glasgow,scotland and i am 31, i want to shag my best freinds mum but i dont know how to go about it she has great big tits. my freind lives away from home so it's just her living herself, one time i was at my freinds own house at ...
A. 27 October 2007: heya
even if she would you are going down a very bumpy one way road and will land up with lots of difficulties
thinking this way is pretty sick to be honest its your best freinds mom
the best thing i can suggest is to seek counceling , do not ask... (read in full...)
13, worried because I've never had a boyfriend! Is there something wrong with me?
Q. I'm 13 and I've never had a boyfriend. Everyone else seems to have had one. There are girls in my form that have been out with sooo many boys. They have like 10 different ones every year and have been going out with people since they were like 8. ...
A. 26 October 2007: heya hun x
nothing is wrong
not every one starts so young
i know people who didnt have a boy or girl until they were 15
why dont you ask sum boys you like out ?
if they say no
its there loss
good luck hun
chris... (read in full...)
How can I please my man? What Sex positions do men prefer?
Q. I need tips on how to please my man. Is there any sexual positions that men prefer when having sex with their partner?...
A. 26 October 2007: heya hun x
u havent got to please him
he has to please you
so do what you want
take care
chris... (read in full...)
I didn't go to my prom as I didn't have a date!
Q. has anyone ever been to a prom without a date or in a limo. Well that would have been the case for me. All of my friends had dates except me and by the time I asked if there was any space in 1 of the 2 limos my friends got, there wasn't. Because of ...
A. 26 October 2007: heya
dont worry about it , the prom seems such a big thing at the moment
but you will look back on it and wonder why your are worried
not everybody goes to the prom because they have relationships out of school
basically dont worry ... (read in full...)
I've got no confidence and it's affecting my school and personal life...
Q. I'm 12 and have no confidence whatsoever. At all. I can't even ask a shop assistant how much something costs or a teacher if I have a problem. A lot of people like me... I guess, but I feel alone, even though my best friend is always there for me. ...
A. 26 October 2007: heya
sounds just like i was at your age
confidence deffinately grows with time , the only way you can build confidence is to involve your self in things , talk to the shopkeeper even tho you are nervous keep involving yourself in conversation... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend gay or just open minded?
Q. I was on my boyfriend's computer trying to find a document I downloaded for homework and found gay porn on it. He's said that he had sex with another guy in the past and that he likes having stuff up his butt (ie. toys, etc.). We are crazily...
A. 25 October 2007: why are you scared if he is gay ?he loves you ?
i shouldnt worry at all as long as he doesnt cheat on you
chris x
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He's treating me bad, and I don't know what to do.
Q. he was my fiance and my all life.i live in this world only for him i cant do anything cant eat or drink or get out until he called me. our love story spend 5 years and he loved me so much and was struggle for me with his family until he came to my ...
A. 25 October 2007: your points are all messed up hun collect them and re write it but take your time , you have all the time you need... (read in full...)
My mother-in-law comes every day to clean up, do my bf's ironing, etc. Her interference is destroying my relationship.
Q. my bf mum is really ruining our relationship, she wont but out, she comes round every day and cleans up, best thing is she does the my bf's ironing and i have to do my own, its as if i need a gold card to be with my bf its ruining our relationship ...
A. 25 October 2007: have you thought to what the reason she could be doing it is ?? the psycological reason ? e.g. she is taking care of him because she finds it hard to accept he has left home ?~... (read in full...)
Should I forget about a summer love or work harder to keep it alive?
Q. Hi! I am 23 and this is my second real gf ever. This summer, I fell for a girl who also fell for me...the attraction was mutual, instant, and the relationship was intense and amazing. She slept at my house every night for the three months we ...
A. 25 October 2007: hey
you have had an amazing experience with her and i presume she has had an amazing experience with you.
however at the moment in the situation it can only be an experience.
you need to just take the experience as a lesson and evolve from it and ... (read in full...)
I can get an erection over anything, even just hugging a mate. Advice, please?
Q. well im 17 and i can get an erection over anything and they're really hard, even just hugging a mate, i wear baggy trousers, tight underwear and a long jacket as it is. has anyone get any advise, pls?...
A. 25 October 2007: ooh thats embarrising right ?
but there isnt alot you can do unfortunately, your hormones are on a high and its gonna happen ,you just need to try and control it , thinking about it will make it worse !
good luck
... (read in full...)
My mother-in-law comes every day to clean up, do my bf's ironing, etc. Her interference is destroying my relationship.
Q. my bf mum is really ruining our relationship, she wont but out, she comes round every day and cleans up, best thing is she does the my bf's ironing and i have to do my own, its as if i need a gold card to be with my bf its ruining our relationship ...
A. 25 October 2007: heya hun x oh that must be frustrating , but the only way to sort it is to actually talk with your boyfreind who probably will find it hard to understand your point of view because he sees it not as his mother ruining your relationship but the hous... (read in full...)
I constantly hear voices and see spirits..am I gifted (psychic) or just schizophrenic?
Q. I think that i am schizophrenic. Either that or i'm actually medically insane. I'm so scared of myself I see and feel what i can only define as spirits all the time, and constantly hear voices and noises that other people cannot hear. I'm scared to ...
A. 25 October 2007: heya
im a psychic medium and i hear and feel spirits all the time
spirits cannot and will not harm you so dont worry
they are visiting you for a reason ,want them to stop ? you need to find out what they want
make records of all the... (read in full...)
Psychic readings advice please.
Q. Has anyone received helpful advice from online psycic readings? if so which ones are good?...
A. 25 October 2007: heya , im a psychic and have been since i can remember
i know that the majority of reader are fakes
it is almost impossible to stumble against a real psychic
perhaps visit a spiritualist church near you
i am part of the www.psychics... (read in full...)
I'm 20 she's 17, will we have enough in common or am I too old for her?
Q. I am 20 and mid way through my junior year of college. I'm trying to decide if I want to start a relationship with a 17 year old high school senior girl that lives back home. I'm worried about a few things, (1) is age a problem, (2) where we are at ...
A. 25 October 2007: aslong as both of you are willing to have a relationship together then don't worry
3 years will seem big atm because you are at different stages in your life
but it will even out in next to no time
dont worry about it what so ever
good... (read in full...)
I just want to be pretty like other girls.
Q. Well for the past months and weeks ive began to grow and develop and ive noticed myself as someone ugly in general. I think im ugly, and just the other day a boy called me it right in front of my face. im short. lacking alittle in the "upper" d...
A. 25 October 2007: heya im a boy and i go through phases all the time,
your body is growing and it will keep growing up until you are 21
not only your body but your face will change in character
some days you will like it and others you wont
and my mom s... (read in full...)
I still love my exboyfriend but he has a gf
Q. i am 15 year old i am still in love with my x boi friend but he has a a girlfriend now but he allways tells me he still likes me i dont no what to do no more cos sum tyms he aks like he still cers but uver tym he just pusshes me away he i feel l...
A. 25 October 2007: heya chick x
he is messin with your head , or he loves you but is not willing to give up what he has already
the best thing to do is walk away before the emotional strain becomes to heavy because believe me it will
i know they all say f... (read in full...)
The sex is great but he's married
Q. I have been seeing this guy that is 26 years older then me, he is married and has 3 kids 17,16,13. He does not like his wife and they dont sleep together or even speak. We have the BEST sex ever. I am so in love with him what should i do?...
A. 25 October 2007: heya hun x
he says he doesnt love his wife ?
what if he decides he does , if he doesnt why did he marry her ?
Is he saying this because he wants just the sex?
in other words is he using you for sex ?
also put yourself in the wife and chi... (read in full...)
Yeah, I'm hot for teacher
Q. Hello, I have a prob! okay so yeah theres this amazing guy who is incredible he is the sweetest and the funniest dude i know! but... here it comes! hes my teacher!! i hate it so much!! i mean why cant i just have a crush or whatever on a boy that is ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya hun x
by what you have written you seem to not care what anybody has to say, you think he loves you and thats that
so why are you asking for advice about what ?
he cannot have a relationship with you , he would lose his job if he did h... (read in full...)
How can I stop dwelling on the past?
Q. Hi have been with my boyfriend 4 years we have a son who is one the first 2 years of our relationship was rocky he would go out and never come home he would text his ex girlfriend behind my back he would tell me he love me one minute and the next ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya hun x
erm you need to stop dwelling in the past for your relationships sake
do you want him to leave ? because if you keep dwelling he will get frustrated and it will strain your relationship
also if you live in the past the present ... (read in full...)
Is there more than I'm seeing?
Q. Im 15 and there is this guy (17) who i have known all my life. I trust him more than anyone and he is closer to me than my best friends. Our families are really close, which is great and we often go away together, but we have always only been fri...
A. 24 October 2007: heya hun x erm something is deffinately happening , however it may just be close freindship i wouldnt take falling asleep on each other as feelings of love but if you fall asleep if he lets you put your head by his heart on his chest it is a sign... (read in full...)
Can we get back together?
Q. Hi i really need some good advice. Me and my boyfriend had been together for a year and a half, then two months ago i broke up with him, although now i regret it so much becasue i was just confused and i didn't really know what i wanted. I told him ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya hun x
sounds like you really want him back
and he wants you back too
but i think he might be scared to get back with you because you probably broke his heart and he doesn't need it again
i think you need to stop keep making it so ea... (read in full...)
He's told me he's been talking to a girl at work he finds "hot"... will he cheat??
Q. hiya, i am 21 and my partner is 18 we have a 3 month old baby, everything was fine intill a few nights ago when he came in frm work i knew sumthing was up , i asked and my partner said no everything was fine but i jusr knew so we stared fighting and ...
A. 24 October 2007: hey hun x
i think he is confused at the moment
perhaps the girl at work is tempting him
but i think he took a look at what he has an decided to stay
he isnt that dis loyal because he told you
but was he just trying to clear his own ... (read in full...)
Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest?
Q. Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest? ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya
aslong as both of you are over 18
or if you are both under 18
it is fine
but if one of you is over 18 and one of you is under 18
in the eyes of the law it is illegal
also , you must think from a family perspective ?
what will happ... (read in full...)
Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest?
Q. Is having a realtionship with your second cousin wrong and is it incest? ...
A. 24 October 2007: heya
aslong as both of you are over 18
or if you are both under
it is fine
but if one is over 18 and one is under 18
in the eyes of the law it is illegal
also , you must think from a family perspective ?
what will happen if you do have a... (read in full...)
The stars were not in favor of our love... or are they?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 9 months with a woman I have known for years. She is currently gettin divorced,but I started as her friend through the whole thing and then we started gettin serious. I fell in love w her as did she..we both ...
A. 24 October 2007: hey
once you fall in love with somebody the chances are you will love them for a long long time
especially if you cannot have them
so if you are or aren't ment to be together ,cupid has fired his arrow on your accord and its lodged there now... (read in full...)
I insisted I was sorry and he accused me of harassment. Was it?
Q. please help, i've been unhappily married for the last several years, just recently ive met someone ive fell for, nothing has happened yet but fot the past five months we had been sending each other very pesonal text messages, just recently i ...
A. 24 October 2007: no hun it is not
this man is trying to get rid of you for a reason?
the best thing for you to do in this case is to just move on ,
do not worry about the harrasment rubbish ,it isnt
but dont talk to him again as it could be called harrasme... (read in full...)
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