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writes:Yeah I know that I shouldn't be depressed because in the end I will find the one I ultimately love. I met this girl in town through Facebook actually. We talked for a good week and she wanted to hang out. I never EVER get nervous about meeting new people, especially girls. I freaked out and drove on by when I saw her. Told her that I couldn't find it. She must have seen me, because she got mad and won't even give me the time of day. I really don't know what it is about her? I quit cursing, smoking cigarettes, and started coming back to God. I know a week is such a short time but I still have no Idea why I am going crazy over her. I never beg a girl, or insult them. I found myself begging her to let me make it up. I guess it is too good to be true. She don't reply to anything, I guess I freaked her out? Her dad is a preacher, she is the only 18 year old virgin christian girl I have met. She is awesome and beautiful as can be. I really want her, and I know you all have been in my shoes, so I was hoping you might give me some advice to turn the tables, or at least comfort me... =[
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reader, Tine  +, writes (4 December 2010):
 i dont think that it'll make you look desperate at all, it'll show her that you are really into her and that you are honest. One of the main factors, that women look for in men.. So if anything she'll be flattered by your honesty.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (3 December 2010):
 Tell her what you've just told us (leaving out the preacher's daughter 18-year-old virgin bit) and you'll know what she thinks...
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (3 December 2010):
 It's like a bad movie,
She is lookin through me,
If you were, then you'd be screaming" Someone shoot me!",
As I fail miserably,
Tryin to get the girl all the bad guys want.
Thought I'd sing to you..now in that song Bowling for Soup didn't get the girl. He didn't think he was good enough. My point? Take a shot and tell her how you feel you won't seem stalkerish. She's got the wrong idea about you since you blew her off. Correct her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): Explain!! Tell her!!
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reader, activeplay +, writes (2 December 2010):
activeplay is verified as being by the original poster of the question Will that not make me look desperate? I just don't want to look like a stalker...
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reader, Tine +, writes (2 December 2010):
if you think she seen you drive past her maybe she is under the impression that after seeing her, you realised she's not your type and that was the reason you drove on??
You need to write her an email or something exmplaining your feelings and of course the reason for driving past her. And i totally agree with Welsh Unlce Dave, and would say tell her what you've just told us.
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reader, Welsh Uncle Dave +, writes (2 December 2010):
why dont you try telling her what you've just told us?
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