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What happens to your vagina if you don't have sex for years. Does it tighten back up??

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Question - (21 May 2008) 6 Answers - (Newest, 30 May 2008)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I need to know what happens to your vagina if you dont have sex for years. Does it tighten back up?? Does it hurt when you finally do do it again?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008):

My experience with a 54 year-old woman who had not had sex in years was that the first couple times she was tight, but soon her response to sexual stimulus was normal.

The first time I just tried to go straight in, and it was very difficult to do so. Then I learned to get myself wet and take my time with foreplay, enter a little bit and exit then enter a little bit more and exit until her vagina opens up naturally.

I love talking with my lover about our experiences, we both learn, it's sexy and it deepens our bound.

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A female reader, kittikat United States + , writes (22 May 2008):

kittikat agony auntMan, I wish! But, unfortunately, it seems as though every one here is correct...I saw some chick getting surgery on a documentary to tighten her vagina. The doctor asked her husband "So, do you want 18-years old, 16, or mid-20's?" I was kind of freaked out, thinking "Ick!" that was kind of a sick question that I wouldn't want to hear the answer to. My train of thought is, "If you wanted it tight, you shoulda brought a bigger dick"! Just kidding!

There are exercises that can help keep the muscle tone, but you can't stop the clock or gravity unfortunately. I remember doing them when I was pregnant. Kegel exercises as mentioned before, you should google it. Supposedly it helps a little! I know I'll be doing it, you got me thinkin now!

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A female reader, Ask oldersister United States + , writes (22 May 2008):

Ask oldersister agony auntI would think it would be the opposite. Any time you don't use certain muscles, they don't tone up, they slacken. I think the other aunts gave you good suggestions on this.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States + , writes (22 May 2008):

DoubleM agony auntAs an older man who has experienced tight, loose, young, older and quite a variety of vaginas - with no apology to those who criticize me for more than 45 years of sexual experience - the female equipment simply does not "tighten up" without surgery or the kind of exercises mentioned by "louweez23" if she is referring to Kegel exercises. You can search the term on this Web site and elsewhere on the Internet to learn more. Sex will almost certainly be very pleasurable after a lengthy vacation from sexual activity.

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A male reader, a_decent_1 India +, writes (22 May 2008):

Vagina never gets Loose or tight UNLESS you've given birth to a baby... !! It's always the same size and No Exercise can tighten it up or make it loose... !!

The Vaginal hole opens up a little after having sexual intercouse and remains like that for a day or so and then gets back to it's normal position... Other than that, vagina remains the same...

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A female reader, louweez23 United Kingdom +, writes (21 May 2008):

louweez23 agony auntNo.

Pelvic floor exercises will tighten it up but sex will never hurt again becasue the hymen has been broken.

The vaginal wall becomes slacker the older you get, without pelvic floor exercises.

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