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female
age
30-35,
*anda4prez
writes:I'm 15 and my boyfriend is 17 and has quite the sexual history, as in he's fingered 2 other girlfriends before. We've been dating for awhile and he just l o v e s feeling up my boobs. I don't have a problem with it, in fact I love it. Last time he came over to my house he went up my shirt and up my bra and started squeezing them and fondling them. Now he makes comments that I should go bra-less next time. It makes me feel so good when he does it when we're alone but when we were watching a movie in choir and the lights were off I sat next to him and he went down my shirt and bra and started messing with my nipples! I love him to death and I want to give him signals that he can touch me more but only in private. How can I give him the touching green light?
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2008): At your age it's perfectly normal to engage in limited foreplay. Relax, take it easy, all things will come in their due time.
The bottom line is that sex is the feel good experience nature uses to hook us into the extremely very costly experience of having babies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): hunny, if he cares about you he will understand. you just need to tell him. all guys have a boob thing but you need to tell him he can play in private or not at all. hes not a mind reader you have to tell him....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 May 2008): Why can't you just tell him? why are so many girls scared so want to just give out hints and expect their b/f to read their minds? Now please, if your old enough to be in a relationship just be mature and tell him. I wouldn't be surprise if people saw what he was doing
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reader, a_decent_1  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Talk to Him... !! Sometime the Easiest way is ti TALK... !!
You need to let him know that you don't feel comfortable doing STUFF in public places.. Tell him It's Obvious that you love him kissing and fondling with your breasts, but, in Private... !!
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (22 May 2008):
 Hi,
what is a "movie in choir"??
I assume other people were around? If this is the case them he should know better. It is a simple case of showing you respect by not groping you in a public place. this is just poor form and you should tell him that it is not what you want.
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