I'm 14, he's 18--parents hate him!
Q. well ive been seing this guy for a bit now but were not dating.......weve had sex 4 times already and we text each other alot and hes 18 he texted me the other night saying that i was an angel and that he loves me.......i mean i know its wrong but ...
A. 10 January 2009: You're 14 which is under age, he's 18 and you've had sex. He's classed as a paedophile. And considering you're not actually dating him, it's probably not the best idea to stay with him.
How about you stay with him but don't see him as often? T... (read in full...)
Since losing my virginity, I'm constantly craving sex... is this normal?
Q. i first had sex a few months back with my boyfriend, but sinse we did, i've been craving it constantly afterwards, its not an issue for him as he's obviously not going to say no as a teenager, but is this normal/natural to happen or is it just me? ...
A. 2 January 2009: You're the same as me. When I first started having sex, all I wanted was sex. After a while it will go away, but you'll still want to have sex, just not as much. It's just your hormones, it's normal and nothing to worry about. Just make sure y... (read in full...)
Should we give it another go? We were almost caught!
Q. Im 15 and me and my girlfriend had been together for four months and we had foreplayed with each other many times, not long ago we were in her front room with the front window open, we got down to skins and i got on top however i couldn't do it, we ...
A. 29 December 2008: No don't give it another go. Obviously from what you said you're not ready to have sex. You should know the answer to that yourself, you even said you couldn't do it. What makes you think you'll be able to do it second time round after a short ... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about her mother catching us?
Q. hi Me and my girlfriend are both 15 and we were foreplaying in her bedroom, her mother stugled to get through the door however i though we were safe, until my girlfriend came back in after talking to her mother and her mother realised her bra...
A. 29 December 2008: I wouldn't be too worried, you're both almost legal. Just maybe be a bit more careful next time or maybe wait until they go out so you won't get caught and then you can enjoy it more without the worry of getting caught.
xxx... (read in full...)
Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...
A. 26 December 2008: He's better than most guys. Most guys would have carried on and forced it all on you. At leats he stopped and apologised.
I personally think that if you really do love this boy then go for it. I had sex for the first time when I was 14 so I don't ... (read in full...)
I'm in love, but is he?
Q. HELP! me and my boyfriend have only been going out a couple of days and he has been sayin that he loves me more then life its self and that he has never felt this way before. but now he is giving me the cold shoulder. he wont answer any of my texts ...
A. 26 December 2008: Don't ring, stop texting him and give him the cold shoulder. If he can't be bothered with you then why should you be bothered with him??
You're 13-15 years old and you've only been going out with him for a short while, I may be wrong but I doubt ... (read in full...)
Has anyone else experienced a late period after the morning after pill?
Q. About a month ago my boyfriend and I had sex and the condom split - so obviously I got the morning after pill. A few days after this I started "spotting", I went to the doctor and they said it was fine. But the other day we had sex, however this tim...
A. 26 December 2008: When I had to have the morning after pill, my period was really early. I only had a 2 week gap and then I was back on my period.
Maybe you should get a pregnancy test just to be on the safe side. You're probably not because he didn't cum inside y... (read in full...)
Online dirtiness until I found out she has a BF. Now I feel bad and I still like her!
Q. ok me and this girl really like each other, we was talking online and we did dirty things online also but then she told me she has a boyfriend, i felt really bad for what i did with her i didnt know she have a boyfriend what should i do? ...
A. 26 December 2008: It's not your fault, she didn't tell you about her boyfriend.
Just stay clear of her on msn and next time you do something dirty online, make sure you ask first. It's not too bad though, at least it was only online... It could have been in perso... (read in full...)
Parents won't let me see my guy! Should I lie to them
Q. I'm in love w/ an amazing guy in WI. He is making plans to see me this summer but there's one problem: my parents. I'm like 3 yrs. younger than he is so I'm pretty sure my parents won't approve. The way I met him is a totally different story but ...
A. 20 December 2008: How about you tell one of your parents, whichever one your closest to, that theres a boy your interested in and tell them all about it. Tell them how you feel about him, how he makes you feel and so on. Then hopefully they'll see it from your point ... (read in full...)
Parents won't let me see my guy! Should I lie to them
Q. I'm in love w/ an amazing guy in WI. He is making plans to see me this summer but there's one problem: my parents. I'm like 3 yrs. younger than he is so I'm pretty sure my parents won't approve. The way I met him is a totally different story but ...
A. 19 December 2008: Okay then. 13 still isn't really old enough to start lying to your parents. It could become a nasty habbit and it would be hard to break.
Just either tell your parents what your getting up to or tell this guy that your parents won't approve ... (read in full...)
I hate French Kissing but my boyfriend tries to choke me with his tongue!
Q. I don't like French (or 'tongue') kissing. I am almost 30 years old and have never liked it. I don't like wet sloppy kisses and on top of that I have a very small mouth. My boyfriend insists on ramming his tongue into my mouth every time we kiss for ...
A. 11 December 2008: I agree with the person below. Why not show him how to french kiss properly, then maybe you'll learn to enjoy it as well.
xx
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Parents won't let me see my guy! Should I lie to them
Q. I'm in love w/ an amazing guy in WI. He is making plans to see me this summer but there's one problem: my parents. I'm like 3 yrs. younger than he is so I'm pretty sure my parents won't approve. The way I met him is a totally different story but ...
A. 11 December 2008: Okay, you're between the age of 10 and 12... why lie to your parents at that age?
I know you probably think you're in love, but you're probably not. Love is a serious emotion. You might really fancy this guy, but I doubt it's love.
Trust me,... (read in full...)
Can I ask my brother to watch him masterbate?
Q. Hi, hope u can help bit of a dodgy question but I walked into me older brothers room hes 15 and cought him touching himself. We both freaked out but it was to late and he came, he insists that he didnt but i saw it, he was shouting at me a...
A. 2 December 2008: Okay.. he's your brother.
If he wasn't your brother then fair enough, you could risk asking it. But because he's your brother, I personally wouldn't risk it.
If he was to say yes then it would possibly mess up the rest of your life, knowing that... (read in full...)
Just been dumped - how can I get him back?
Q. My boyfriend just dumped me about an hour ago. Wed been together nearly a month, he told me he loved me, got me to meet his mum, and his friends. We were fine 4 days ago, weve never argued, ever. Were both 17. He sent me this message: ok, this ...
A. 21 November 2008: It depends if you wanna make yourself happy or make your [ex]boyfriend happy. If you wanna make yourself happy then just talk to him, say you wanna be with him, tell him you love him and everything else like that. If you wanna make him happy, just ... (read in full...)
She wants me to do her but I'm afraid it'll hurt her too much, we're 16, your thoughts?
Q. me and my gf are both 16 and we've been talking about sex lately we have protection and whenever she gives me a blowjob and i finger/eat her out it gets so intense... i just wanna go in we love each other very much and i dont wanna hurt her though ...
A. 20 November 2008: I'm 15 and my first time didn't hurt that much, as long as it doesn't kinda get fall out during sex for the first few times it's okay.
It did hurt a few times after the first time getting it in though because it was still a bit too tight for it and ... (read in full...)
Wow! What am I doing wrong?
Q. My boyfriend tells me he feels no pleasure during sex and the only reason he does it is to get an orgasm out of it. Is something wrong? +we're quite young....
A. 11 November 2008: WHAT ARE YOU DOING?!?!?!?!?!?!?
I can't say much about the whole having sex young thing coz I lost mine when I was 14 but my boyfriend has never told me that.
Why are you still having sex with him?? He's just using you, and he's even admitt... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and feel I am ready for sex. Advice ?
Q. Hello, I am a 14 year old girl. You need to know that because my question is about being ready for sex. Its a long question even though it answers will probably be short. Well, I have been with my boyfriend for just over nine months. We are real...
A. 7 November 2008: Bloody hell... you sound just like me and my boyfriend. I went away for 2 weeks to Florida and then when I came back he was on holiday so I didn't see him for 3 weeks in total.
& You've been going out for the same time as me and my boyfriend when... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my controlling mum?
Q. Hi, i am 25 and me and my mum are really close however she is a control freak and whenever i go against what she advises she comes back with "well if it all goes wrong i dont want to know" etc... Recently me and my boyfriend (who my mum ad...
A. 2 October 2008: How about you just take control of your life. You're 25! Fair enough, you care what your mum thinks of you and what she wants from you, but you can't follow what she says and wants from you all your life.
Just explain to your mum that you apprecia... (read in full...)
Am I too young for sex?
Q. hi im 13 and want to lose my virginty.im i too young? what will i feel like after the sex? and worst of all i want to do it with my cousin whos the same age as me. i've like him sence i was 2 and i think he likes me back.what do i do.how do i get my ...
A. 28 September 2008: You're 13 and you wanna have sex??
Honestly, I don't think you know what sex involves. It changes your life. Once you've done it theres no going back. And you're only 13, don't throw your life away, wait for the right boy to come along and then... (read in full...)
I turned him down, my mate now has him and now I want him again. How do I get him?
Q. Im in love with some that i thought i would never fall in love with, i had to the chance to go out with him but i turned it down because i denied liking him to all my friends and i didnt wont to prove i did love him.but the problem is now he's going ...
A. 20 September 2008: I would tell my mates that I actually do have feelings for him just so you can get it out in the open. It helps with things like this to tell your friends, or even your mum or dad. And I would also tell the boy, maybe he's doing the same as you ... (read in full...)
He got drunk and made out with another girl. Do I give him a second chance?
Q. My boyfriend and me went a bar together. Well he end up getting drunk off his a$$ (I don't really drink.) I went to the bathroom. I get back and he was making out another girl. I did took him home before he do something more stupid. My question is...
A. 20 September 2008: I personally would give him another chance. But I wouldn't let him go out ad get drunk with me there because it could happen again and if you're not there, who knows what could happen.
& I would have given my boyfriend hell after if he did that... (read in full...)
How can I become more active during sex?
Q. hey everybody i was just hoping for some advice for a really embarrassing situation im in so here goes... ive been together with my partner for about 8 months and he was the first one that i gave my virginity to and it was a really big thing...
A. 9 September 2008: I used to have this problem when I started having sex but I don't anymore. If you wanna go on top, you could do what I did. I asked my boyfriend to do part of the moving until I got into the rhythm of it and then I took over and then as time wen... (read in full...)
Does this mean I'm addicted to masturbation?
Q. Recently i discovered the joy of masterbating and the truth is that it has been great. However, i have been doing it a lot, sometimes 3-4 times a day, and when i have the oppurtunity to do it but it is inappropriate(e.g at home doing work) i find i ...
A. 9 September 2008: I personally would say it's fine. When I started doing it I used to do it every night and I had no problems with it. You'll stop doing it so often though, I did. I rarely do it now because I either don't have time or I just can't be bothered. ... (read in full...)
I want to masturbate my boyfriend but what should I do with the seminal fluid?
Q. i want to jerk my boyfriend off but what do you do with all the cum...
A. 1 September 2008: I just get a tissue afterwards and clean it up.
Oh and try not to get any on a bed or clothes... it's leaves white marks =]
Good luck xx... (read in full...)
I don't get the popularity of the doggy style position! Care to shed some light?
Q. Hi, I don't know if this is in the right section What makes doggy style so enjoyable for people? Me and my boyfriend have tried it a few times, I personally don't like it because I find it too impersonal and it doesn't do anything for me...
A. 28 August 2008: I love doggy! It's amazing. I don't get the feeling I get during doggy with any other position, & that's why I like it so much. Even though I never reach orgasm with it, I get close enough & it only takes a bit of something & then it's done.
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Why does he always close his eyes during sex?
Q. my bf of three years always has his eyes closed durring sex,I don't get it . He also has an obsession with internet porn. ...
A. 28 August 2008: The person below me over reacted a bit... You only asked a simple question.
My boyfriend closes his eyes during sex, I don't think it's a bad thing. I think it just helps them concentrate on what they're doing and it probably makes it more enj... (read in full...)
I don't make any noises during sex... should I fake it?
Q. Note: I am a girl. So, I have recently become "sexually active" as they say. What I've realised is, despite thoroughly enjoying myself, I don't ever make any sex noises. Is this a big deal? Is anyone else quiet during sex/oral/fingeri...
A. 29 July 2008: Making noises is just a way of showing that your enjoying yourself. Don't fake it because that's not really fair on your partner. You could show him in other ways how much your enjoying it without making or faking noises.
Maybe making noises w... (read in full...)
What pet names can you call a guy?
Q. A guy calls you 'baby, huni, sexy.' But what can you call a guy? ...
A. 15 July 2008: I call my boyfriend all sorts but I don't like going along with the usual ones like babe and hun and all that because everyone else does that.
Why not think of something original that only means something to you and your boyfriend? I call my boyfr... (read in full...)
What do I do about a relationship that's starting when I know he's going away?
Q. I've had a string of really bad relationships over the last couple of years but have recently met a guy I really get on with. He's a couple years older than me; I'm 19 and we've really just hit it off. We go out to coffee a lot, and meet up for ...
A. 15 July 2008: Make the most of the time you have now. If you wanna say something to him, say it. If you wanna do something, do it. Then when he does leave, you can't say you didn't make the most of it.
You never know, he could always ask you to go with him or y... (read in full...)
Do I need to worry about STDs even though we're both virgins?
Q. I've been dating a guy for almost 13 months. I'm a virgin and so is my boyfriend, but I give him blowjobs and handjobs. We're not going to have sex, because we've agreed that we're too young and not ready. We don't use condoms when I blow him, but I ...
A. 17 May 2008: I don't think you need to worry about STDs if you're both virgins. But you can catch them from giving your boyfriend a blow job. It just depends what he's done with other girls to what things he could have caught from them.
But I wouldn't worry ab... (read in full...)
I don't understand why he doesn't offer me oral any longer! Any tips?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore. He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't...
A. 1 May 2008: No, I'm not 13.. I'm 15. Can you give me any tips now please?? x... (read in full...)
Am I a slut? I need to know if this is normal for teenagers to do.
Q. when i was 16 years old i dated my brothers friend,i dint like him that much cause he wasnt that gorgeous and i dint like his nature either..he wanted to have sex with me but i dint agree as i said i dint like him..i did not kiss or make out with ...
A. 1 May 2008: Course your not a slut... you didn't have sex with those boys. If you had sex with all of them then maybe... but you didn't so you're not.
Every teenager does that.. or most at least. Just go for it =]... (read in full...)
Should I tell my friend about the way her bf spoke to me?
Q. today in a lesson i asked the boys behing me(they were talking about this boy in my year)"why do you always take the p**s out of him" my freinds boyfreind sits next to them and he said "shut up you rat" (at first i thought he was saying to someone ...
A. 29 April 2008: Yeah I think you should tell your friend about the way he spoke to you. That's out of order and if your friend was a true friend she would either dump her boyfriend or have a word with him about it so he doesn't say it again.
Just because he's you... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant.
Q. My boyfriend wants to have sex with me but I'm scared the condom is going to break and I will become pregnant. What should I do?...
A. 30 March 2008: The chances of the condom splitting are low... very low. And if the condom does split, you could always take the morning after pill.
But the chances of it splitting are very low so i wouldn't worry about it, go and have fun with your boyfrien... (read in full...)
Should I lose my virginity to him at 14??
Q. ok I'm a 14 year old girl and there is this black guy I have known for almost a year. He is 14 also. I talk to him some times not alot and he wants to have sex with me. I am a vergin and he I don't think is. Last night I was texting him and he asked ...
A. 15 March 2008: Personally, I think there's nothing wrong with having sex at 14 because I lost mine when I was 14. But honestly, I don't think you're ready to have sex.
From what you said, it sounds like he's just going to use you for sex and nothing else, wa... (read in full...)
I think he wants me to touch him down there but I haven't before...any advice??
Q. Okay so here's the deal, my bf and i have been dating for almost six months, he knows im not a virgin, however we do have our moments were we get heated up, but nothing has happened yet. One of these many days,things were getting pretty heated up, ...
A. 15 March 2008: The first time I tossed my boyfriend off, I was really scared... dunno why though. There's nothing to be scared off... just let your hand move backwards and forwards and make sure you pull the skin back and forth, then you'll be giving him a hand ... (read in full...)
I finally feel prepared for sex but how to communicate this to him?
Q. I've just got my first ever guy,and i've not mentioned i'm a virgin and i don't think i'm ever going to,anyway he said he would wait until i was happy to do it. well i'm ready now, but don't know where to start or what to do i know this sounds ...
A. 17 February 2008: Make sure you're in the right mood first. If you're not in the right mood it won't feel nice or anything like that. You could do some oral before you start to make sure you're both in the mood for sex and then just go for it. xXx... (read in full...)
How do I tell my bf I want a baby at 13?
Q. Ohkay.I am 13 years old.I have done everything with a guy.The first time though I didn't use protection hoping I would get pregnant.But I am dating this guy right and I really love him.I want to have a baby with him but how do I tell him?I am young ...
A. 17 February 2008: Well, if it's what you really want, just tell him straight. Say I want a baby and see what he has to say about it. Is he the same age as you?? Because if he is he might not want a baby at 13 and he might want to wait until you're both old enough to ... (read in full...)
Can I use a condom during a BJ?
Q. can i use a condom when doing a blow job cause i cant imagine myself sucking his thing?i have never done it and am a 29 year old virgin...
A. 7 February 2008: Yeah you can if you want, all I'll say is flavoured ones taste better than normal condoms =]
Don't rush things if you don't feel happy with it though, if you don't want to do it just let him know and I'm sure he'll be fine with it. I had to do th... (read in full...)
When I orgasm it smells like urine. Does anyone else have this problem?
Q. when i have sex with my boyfriend i cum so much its embarasing! And it smells awful! Usually like urine! Does anyone else have this problem? Can i do anything about it?...
A. 6 February 2008: I don't have this problem but i think you should go to the doctors and get it checked out. I'm sure it's nothing bad though.
xXx... (read in full...)
Concerned about my weight - an impediment to having sex with thin girls?
Q. dear cupid i would like to know do skinny girls have sex with fat people or is it just skiny with skiny? coz im fat and would like to ask this skiny girl out and if it lead to sex, would it be possible me to have sex with her? and would she laugh...
A. 3 February 2008: Im not exactly skinny but I'm under weight apparently. My boyfriend is bigger than me and we still have sex.
If a girl did laugh at you then she's just using you for sex. It doesn't matter what you look like without your clothes on... personal... (read in full...)
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