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*NothingLasts4ever-
writes:Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while and we've done everything. I love it when he licks me out but he doesn't do it anymore.He says he will do it but when it comes down to him actually doing it he doesn't want to anymore. I don't see what the problem is because he's done it before and he said he doesn't mind doing it... so I don't understand why he doesn't do it anymore.I've asked him about it before and he just says he's not in the mood to do it.I don't know what else I should do to make him realise I love it... Any tips??
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reader, natasia +, writes (1 May 2008):
 OK, here are my thoughts. There are, I suspect, two kinds of guys: those who love giving oral sex to a woman, and those who do it pretty much only if they really have to, or at the start of a relationship, but as soon as they can avoid doing it, they're more than happy to give it a miss. I have encountered both types, and they're very noticeably different, and very easy to tell.
It may be that unfortunately your guy just isn't that into it, and that's why he avoids it. That is the most likely explanation. I'm afraid you'll be hard pushed to get him to do it. Maybe you could coax him into it by, for example, the 69 position ... then he will be getting pleasure at the same time, and will be more aroused, and be more likely to go along with it. Sorry not to be more hopeful, but really, some love it, and some don't - and having had a partner who loved it, and one who didn't, I know the difference. Unfortunately though we can't really ask at the start of a relationship whether they like doing it!!! And they'd all lie anyhow, at the start, just to get you!
I suppose you could always tell him you're going to swap him for a better one if he doesn't do it every night for you ; )
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reader, -NothingLasts4ever- +, writes (1 May 2008):
-NothingLasts4ever- is verified as being by the original poster of the question No, I'm not 13.. I'm 15. Can you give me any tips now please??x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 May 2008): As shania suggested, should we be giving advice to one so young?Well, as they say, you're doing it anyway so, have you considered personal hygiene as a possible factor in this? To be honest, I wonder if your guy is mature enough to be getting anything from this? He could be just interested in his own satisfaction. Do you let him know you're enjoying it while he's doing it? Talk to him about it - if you're that close he will talk.
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reader, shania +, writes (1 May 2008):
 Crikey, sorry to sound prudish but im looking at your age here, your only 13? your far too young for oral sex and how old is your boyfriend....forget i asked that, slow down girl, whats the rush? You want to run before you can walk. Please, please think very carefully about this, otherwise it wont be him not going down on you the problem..........but a unwanted pregnancy.
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